Any one else on that one months chastity training?

[RoniDev]

Was wondering if anyone else on this side will be doing that one month chastity training from akasha. I got my email today, so in a few days there wont be any dust on my chastity belt anymore.

[speedster]

It did sound like fun. What bothers me about a month of enforced chastity is that inevitably I kept waking up at night with an erection that practically caused the chastity belt to tear my balls off. Which was in my Cons list for Akasha's training.

[RoniDev]

Yes I know that feeling and I have to admit that the first 3-4 days are always horrible and often I dont sleep at all in those days. But trust me it gets better and after a week or two you wont have that problem anymore cause your erection wont be that hard anymore.

Also it may sound strange, but that uncomfy moments you have in the night with a chastity belt the first days is something which makes the chastity belt even more interessting.

[RoniDev]

also not to forget that cb-xxxx devices are not really secure anyway. Anyone can pull his cock out cause of a major design flaw and people who say they cannot just didnt find out how to do it yet. Thats why there are things like KSD out there, but they have another big flaw, the blood flow into your cock and wearing them for a long duration I really dont think that this would be a smart move. Your cock needs some space inside the chastity tube but as soon as you have space and even if it is just a milimeter you can pull it out.

So for a long duration I wouldnt want to use a cb-xxxx anyways or I would use the cb-xxxx with a waistbelt, easy to do selfmade just use an ordinary leather belt. Sure you cut still cut the belt that way and get out, but it really helps you at those moments where you are to horny and cutting out a belt is much harder as a pull out.

I was thinking of buying a cs-100, it will be really secure and you dont have those troubles you describe anymore too. Its just that the cs-100 is so freaking expensive. But maybe its worth of it to save that money cause with the cs-100 your cock will be really secure and out of your reach.

[dubble]

I decided to sign up with Akasha just to see what it'll be like. I've not done any online things like that before, have you? I think it's more of an "on your honor" system with her, even for those with a cb-xxxx. Yes, I can also escape with either or BOTH the "points of intrigue" AND the KSD ring installed. I wondered if I might have been doing something wrong (experimented with rings and spacers). The "points" make for interesting sleep, however, and I find myself trying to throb harder into the points... both painful and erotic. Yes, speedster, nightly erections really tug on the balls...ouch, quite a burning sensation! A former GF had me locked for 32 days so I got used to it (a cb-2000. It's VERY snug!). Takes dedication, tolerance. I've not worked up to the large "points" tho, just the medium. Medium points already cause wounds, large ones would be quite severe. I like the steelwerksextreme site... metal, inescapable, but need of piercing. Maybe someday... Good luck, RoniDev, with Akasha and maybe I'll "see" you there! Her locks should arrive in my mail any day now... YIKES, GULP!? Is she providing you with locks as well?

[RoniDev]

I didnt do something like that before yet, but I got locked up in my chastity belt already a few times.

There is an easy and working fix for that pullout-problem with the cb-xxxx, which makes the pullout nearly impossible, at least I am not able to pullout my cock. Use a small leather belt (most comfy) or even a rope/chain around your waist and attach each ends at those plastic pins on your cb-xxxx. If done right your cb-xxxx will be secure.

Still... a real steel chastity belt would be the best and most secure thing. If they wouldnt be that expensive :(

[Jobicek]

Define inescapable... I think that pull out isn't the problem, it's pull in. You can always (no matter what type of device you are using) get out, but question is, can you get back in and do so (both out and in) without visible evidence? I think that main punishment is when your key holder finds out and throws you on a street (and if you are member of some BDSM community tell them that you are unable to obey so you will have really hard time to find anyone else).

[RoniDev]

Yes thats right, but it shouldnt be that easy to pull out from the beginning and if you have to cut something to get out that would mean your mistress will know later or sooner.

[Jobicek]

Yes thats right, but it shouldnt be that easy to pull out from the beginning and if you have to cut something to get out that would mean your mistress will know later or sooner.

Breaking things isn't necessary. How would key holder react when your CB-x000 would be on a shelf instead on your cock? Intact but not where it's supposed to be. So as I said, when you can get out without breaking things it's important that you can't get back (and that's what KSD is for, to prevent getting back in).

[RoniDev]

But the ksd isnt made for long-term chastity and they even tell you that on their website. The ksd is fitted to tight around your cock, if done right its so tight that pulling it out is nearly impossible to do, thats why they tell you to never wear the ksd alone without the cage, cause if you get an erection then the blood cannot flow back and your cock will turn blue and you cannot remove the ksd without cutting it and cutting that thing which is very tight around the base on your cock... well the risk of hurting yourself is very high.

Sure cause the ksd is that tight its not possible to pull your cock back in, but again having the ksd worn over weeks or even months ... sorry not an option.

Even if you cannot get a full erection inside that cage, your cock still can move around and has some space left and thats important. Its even more cruel to feel your cock getting hard in a chastity tube and seeing it fill up the whole space and staying semi-hard for the whole day. Space is also needed for cleaning under the shower, you cannot just take off your chastity belt every day to clean yourself. So having water run through the chastity cube to clean it is a good thing too.

[RoniDev]

Good luck, RoniDev, with Akasha and maybe I'll "see" you there! Her locks should arrive in my mail any day now... YIKES, GULP!? Is she providing you with locks as well?

Thanks and good luck to you too. Well maybe luck isnt really the right word in that case ;)

I dont get plastic locks from her, they wouldnt arrive in time I think, but I have still a bag full of numbered plastic locks at home which I will use. Also its more or less curiosity which makes me attend and I hope I do not chicken out after a while, cause reading her older training lessions, she can be very cruel and demanding.

[Jobicek]

Well I let my girls out every day for cleaning and inspection unless I'm abroad. That's my condition as well theirs because hygiene is something very important. And it's pretty frustrating to have soft hands in that forbidden area and not being allowed to cum every day ;)

I don't support long term chastity as such so wearing a CB-x000 for month isn't really issue for me. It's quite reasonable that with this addition they are not suitable for longer periods of time. You can choose between increased security and being able to wear it longer. And if I remember correctly, it is designed to offer 100% pull in security and increased pull out (but not 100%).

[RoniDev]

Dont get me wrong I am not saying that the cb-xxxx and the ksd are bad things, but they are more or less just toys. I love my cb-3000 and I have it nearly 2 years now and beeing forced to wear it from time to time. The ksd was made cause of the design flaw the cb-xxxx has. A good designed chastity belt wouldnt need things like a ksd at the beginning.

There is a lot trust involved in the cb-xxxx that the slave doesnt pull out and if the slave choses to wear a cb-xxxx then mostly he wont pull out anyways. I mean if I would pull out then why would I want to wear the cb at all? Makes no sense, but the thing is that with every day passing it gets harder and harder to keep that urge under control.

I also love to get forced to wear a chastity, having no say anymore and having no choice to just accept that fact that I will stay chaste for a while now. If you wear a chastity cage cause you want to wear it then its still more or less you controlling yourself to do so, if you do it cause someone other wants that, then its not your choice. Knowing that the chastity belt is secure is important when you are forced to wear it, at least it is for me. The reason is when you wear that cb-xxxx there is still that fact burried in your head that you could pull out and cum if you want, sure you would get punished for doing so, but still you could still do it if you like. As harder its get to do so as better it is in my opinion.

Cause after a while you will be at a point where you dont like to stay chaste any longer, if it is easy to do then you will do that and at that point you dont really care about your punishment afterwards. You do it cause you are weak, cause the urge to cum is to big. On the other side if it is really hard to pull out then you suffer at those days and accept the fact that you have no choice and that the chastity belt will stay on.

Yes you can out from every chastity belt, but trust me its much harder to cut that numbered plastic lock as an example as to pull out your cock. In both situations your keyholder will know about it, cause with the ksd you cannot just pull your cock in afterwards and well a plastic lock which is cut... Still at least for me it takes a lot more to take a knife or a scissor to cut a plastic lock as to pull a limb cock out. Its not really harder to do so, its just in my mindset its an act which takes more strength to do so... hard to explain but I hope you understand what I am trying to say.

[Jobicek]

I understand you. You are right. I was talking about security from key holders point of view. Because no device is 100% secure, it's important to make it impossible to get out without evidence. But, as you said, from the wearer's point, things are different. If I were in chastity, I would also like to be unable to get out without destroying it. Destroying is usually out of the question thanks to the price of device. The lust for chastity play won't just disappear so after you orgasm, you have to fetch yourself new key holder and new device. As I told one girl, you can always have an orgasm whenever you want, it would cost you "only" 1400 € and our relationship. That's one reason why I don't like CB-x000, because they are way too cheap to make you think twice - 2 $ for orgasm aren't that much... And any girl that was anywhere near dominating me knows that I won't obey and that if there would be way out of the device I would get out. I'm not so submissive, I'm interesting in exploring this side of my psyche, but I won't make it easier for anyone to dominate me. But it varies, sometimes I choose to obey and sometimes I don't. But I'm not much experienced in this area because girls usually aren't strong enough :) They sometimes dare to try it but soon realize that it isn't that simple...

And If I would fit into CB-x000, it would be great play toy, just for weekend or so. My friend gave me (so I could have some of my own medicine) 6000 as a gift but she hasn't realized that fits most isn't fits all...

[chris1972]

How is this going for everyone? Would love to see what one of the lessons looks like. I've tried chastity before in short increments. Nice little challenge, although the mornings are bit difficult at first.