Where to find?

[Philze]

Hello Milovana,
I have a little question

Where to find a mistress where u dont have to pay for?

This thread shouldnt be thread like: Searching miss,
Here I am, PM me.

No..
I'm 18 and really new in this scene.
Any tips?

[nomeuno]

Hey Sparky.... Your first mistake is an unwillingness to pay. You're not only new here, you're new to Women in general i assume. They cost... no matter who or what they are.... They cost. Hope that helps.

[Evals]

Hey. You're not really going to find anybody without either developing a relationship with that person, or paying them money. And to do the former, there's either the real world or the internet which just happens to be an extension of the real world. Like any relationship... Meet people. Message them. Talk to them. Interact with them. Anything that has to do with socializing. Just like any other relationship.

For some socializing sites, if that's the direction you want to go, collarme.com is a good one you don't have to pay for. Nice community there too. Bondage.com is pretty nice too, but you have to pay a monthly fee to get all the features. You can still contact people, however, so it's worth mentioning. Just be aware that being a male lowers your chance of impressing somebody greatly, and being submissive makes it even twice as hard.

Hey Sparky.... Your first mistake is an unwillingness to pay. You're not only new here, you're new to Women in general i assume. They cost... no matter who or what they are.... They cost. Hope that helps.

I hope you're speaking about professional dommes. If you're talking about relationships with all women in general, I think it's more accurate to say a good relationship is always a give and take relationship for both.

[RoniDev]

Another way would be to find a girlfriend and piss her really off. With a little luck she will treat you like you always hoped she would ;)

[Makarov]

1. Meet a girl that over the course of many years eventually elevates to Mistress status.
2. Look up dating sites like www.collarme.com and making a personal there, and the respectfully converse and potentially hookup with the Mistresses in your area.
3. Become exceedingly rich and advertise to woman free room and board at your coastal mansion as long as they dominate you in return.

[RoniDev]

3. Become exceedingly rich and advertise to woman free room and board at your coastal mansion as long as they dominate you in return.

I would like that option. I would offer that to a lesbian couple.

[Jobicek]

I would like that option. I would offer that to a lesbian couple.

Yes, lesbians are good choice for guys into orgasm denial. But be careful what you wish for. These ladies can be quite cruel. You can offer sharing a flat with one girl or a lesbian couple (you are a student I assume). They usually quickly understand benefits of chastity and before you know it, it will be a condition instead of your request. You can offer doing all the chores and in return they will sometimes let you out and have fun (for let's say 10 minutes :D). That's it. Don't hope for anything more. And don't piss them off or you will really regret it. There is slim chance that it could develop into deeper D/s relationship but it's only remote chance, nothing more.