The Secret to Edging

[Cider]

Ok, i was just wondering if any fellow strokers out there could fill me in on the secret to edging. I just attempted the days of denial series (part 1) and completed all of the trillion strokes without fail. (not easy, but i did it) Then when i was in the final stages she told me to start edging. I'll be damned if i didnt cum on the first edge! I honestly try not to but it seems that when i edge it never fails that i do one stroke too many and end up having a ruined orgasm rather than edging and the sensation subsiding.

I really want to be able to edge over and over without cumming but it seems that i never can achieve this goal. Anyone out there have any hints? I was surprised that i could get through so much stroking without cumming but then i ruined all the fun when i guess i stroked one too many times. Surely someone out there has developed a strategy to edge again and again without cumming. I need help bad, how can i ever experience true denial if i always slip up and cum when i edge? I am able to edge some without cumming but it never fails that if i get horny enough, i end up cumming accidentally when i edge. It's so frustrating not being able to experience the art of denial. PLEASE HELP!

[dubble]

I'm wondering if this is different for each person. We're all stimulated by different things physically, visually, emotionally, our fantasies... So inversely, we're all turned off by different things as well. Was the sensation of "touch" what set you off, was it the visual appeal, the kinkiness of the tease, or a combination (or other?)? Things that have helped me NOT go over the edge: 1) Kegels. Lots of them. Work those muscles and get them strong. When I feel I've stroked "too far", I squeeze my kegels tightly and usually the feelings subside, although a slight cum stream often dribbles/runs out (very cool... shows how excited one can really be, but not a ruined orgasm!). I've also been able to reach orgasm WITHOUT EJACULATION through extreme teasing and kegels! It's VERY cool and didn't know it was possible for a guy! 2) Ice. It works for me. My last GF would tease me mercilessly but seemed to know when she'd gone too far. She had a bag of ice cubes on hand and would mash the whole bag in my crotch to "cool things off". It was exciting, a great sensation, but also quite a letdown since I wanted to cum. 3) Sometimes the extreme fingernail dig into the cock works... just grab your chubbie tightly and dig your fingernails into it. This has been least reliable for me but it's still fun to do on occasion. If none of these work, there's always option #4): Have a picture of your mother next to your computer but turned away. When you feel you might go too far, turn the picture and look at her...like she's busting you as you wank! Hahhah. Maybe?

[whacker44]

What happens to me, quite often is when i feel the edge comming i stop rubbing, but that does not necessarily make my dick stop so often after 10 or 15 seconds it starts to spurt and drip goo,and i have a ruined orgasm ..sometimes i can actually do this three or four times..it is sort of cool, but of course not what the Mistress or Master has asked for.. and then i have to go to cumming without permission tease..

[all2true]

Thanks for trying one of my teases

I had to try the sto peeing trick
where you start peeing and stop it mid stream
to really work on edging

I do both stoping stimutaion AND musle contractions
I also try to stop just before I reach the edge when stroking because I can go over as well.

Hope that helps

Happy New Year btw
(perhaps your new years resolution Edge every day?)
All2true

[cumhardy]

It just takes practice I guess. Exercizing your kegel/pc muscles definately helps.
I have the same problem, after lots of play an edge will just send me over. Its hard to know when one stroke is just too much, practice makes perfect!

[Incubo]

I don't think anyone can really "help" you per se.
I think it's pretty much just a matter of knowing yourself. How far can you push it before it's too far.
It's different for everyone so all you can really do is practice and see what it takes, then at least you'll know where that point is.

[Cider]

Thanks for all the suggestions. I guess i will have to try some kegels! Or maybe i just won't try to get so close to the edge before i stop touching. It's just pisses me off when i spend so much time trying to do a tease to the letter and then screw it all up at the end. Thanks again.

[cumhardy]

It's just pisses me off when i spend so much time trying to do a tease to the letter and then screw it all up at the end. Thanks again.

That pissed of "oh shit ive cum feeling" i find quite exhilirating. i love/hate when a webtease does that to me. a mixture of orgasmic pleasure and the shame of failure all mixed together! I guess a good webtease does that