Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by nadi »

It has been a while since I was last here and many things have changed. I would try to bring you up to date about what I am looking for and we will see where it all leads.

TL;DR

You Should try to contact me on Skype (after reading here) and we will chat to see if we can start something.
I find this is a nice place to start. Well, I'm 30 years old married guy who look to be have online session, mostly via Skype. My username there is sososo6171 and you should really feel free to contact me there and we can chat.

About me

I'm 30 years old married man living in Paris. I'm 1.75, 61 kg (5"7', 136 lbs) with cut cock. I'm submissive, nothing more nothing less.
I have explored the lifestyle online for a few years now. I've tried something, mostly online sessions on cam, but I feel I want to try and do more. However, as I said, I have a wife and a real life and they would always come first. I want to clarify it now to keep all of us from wasting our time.
I actually find it not very constructive to tell a lot about me here. If you think we have a chance, you can freely contact me over Skype and we can chat. I would love that.

About you

Well, I've been on these type of sites long enough to know that you can't really look for the ideal Dom. However, it might be useful to describe who I am looking for.
Since I consider myself straight, it would have been great if I could find a female dominant. However, I don't mind male dominant at all, either bi or gays. I don't really mind about age. If you are between 20-45 it would be nice, but I've met older that were really bad and younger (in legal age) that did alright. I don't mind your race, occupation, origin and so on. This is a bit old school for me. Be dominant and be nice and we'll chat and see how it goes.

The relationship

Well, real comes first. You should understand it. I would be available for you as much as I can, but only within those limits. If I'm with my wife or at work than you won't have access to me. But when I have the time, you would get all of my attention.
I am not really sure what I'm looking for, but in general it should involve some kind of connection between me and the dominant, that would involve both of our kink, some development, some chatting, sessions (of course!) and some tasks. We would work on the details together.

Likes, dislikes and limits
I always find that these are more useful while we discuss them one-on-one. But I understand that in order to save time for all of us, it would be useful to list some of them here. I've divided them into the general categorise:

Fave:
Ass Play
Bondage
CBT
Orgasm Control
Anal Training
Orgasm Control
Edging
Milking

Yes:
Corner Time
Obedience Training
Humiliation
Condoms
Dirty Talking
Ice
Saliva
Spankings
Nipple Play
Forced Orgasms
Ruined Orgasms
Begging
Degradation
Discipline
Bathroom Control

Maybe:
Collars
Chastity
Crossdressing
Wax play
Watersports
Ballbusting


No:
Scat
Drinking Urine
Ass to mouth
Illegal
Interfering with real life
Blood
Permanent
Public
Animals
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Post by loloroger »

Hi I am a 35 straight male from France.
With an 8" dick.
I am looking for an online Mistress.
I am a beginner at this.
I like humiliation. Cock and balls bondage.
Cum edging.
Love to be told what to do while I am at work
You can contact me by Skype : loloroger92170
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Post by lordswitch »

Hi I am a 23 year old male looking for a domme/mistress. I have never done any bdsm before but the prospect does excite me. I would like to start slow and increase over time. if you are interested please pm me.
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Post by aesop666 »

I am a 22 year old virgin who has submissive desires. I live in a very religious community and, as such, present that face to the world. However, I was hoping that there was a mistress or domme out there that could show me the ropes so to speak, and allow me to indulge my darker fantasies. If anyone is interested please pm me! Many thanks in advance!
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I'm looking for a female dom.

https://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1089577
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Post by Grimm »

Hello out there, I am a 22 year old male and I'm looking for an online/distance relationship with a mistress. I would like to find someone to control my orgasms via chastity and possibly give me tasks and such to do over skype. I am fairly familiar with the BDSM lifestyle but haven't ever served someone before. If you would like to know more send me a pm and we can talk :-D
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Post by Subray »

To whom it may concern (dominant Females)

I am a young male in my twenties. I have for sometime now be fascinated with Female Domination. I long to find a compatible Mistress/Goddess that will take me as there property and allow me to serve them with all of my efforts. I have had experiences with online Dommes and have found lots out about myself and the scene which I have thoroughly enjoyed. Whilst I see my needs as inferior to that of yours and my rights with you to be significantly limited. I do ask that you show some compassion when needed as I do enjoy pushing my limits and boundires but do like to be reassured by knowing who it is that I am with.

I hope that I can be of loyal and dedicated service to you but first I would be greatful if we can ensure we are of a similar mindset. Also please no fakes, its a waste of your time as it is of mine. Please feel free to PM if you would like to know more.

Thank you for reading.
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can any mistress dominate me right now on omegle? just post what interest should i look for.
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Post by Dominantsub »

Hi. I am a 19 year old male switch looking for a female partner to play with. I am willing to serve under a mistress or something a sub.

The following site has a good test if you are unsure of your orientation. Check it out.
Here are my results
http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1107192
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Post by tflover »

hi :)

im a very obedient sub looking for a mistress, I love anything humiliation wise.

Dislike cbt and scat though.
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Hello all,

Please feel free to pm me.
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Post by Pet_Erica »

Hello,

I"m a sub femboy/trans. I identify as a woman even if I haven't had the surgery..Regardless, I am bi and am looking for a domme or dom. I am new to the lifestyle, but am willing to be trained and will do whatever it takes to become the best sub I can. As my name implies I enjoy being treated as a pet. Anyway, if anyone is interested please don't hesitate to PM me.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by pamskysub »

I am a shy 18 years old submissive bi-curious boy from western europe who's hoping to become a slavetoy of a mistress (or maybe a couple, or a bull)
I'm open to all kinds of humiliation.

[email protected] if you want to ask or know more
kik: pamskysub
Hope some of you will reply.


:love: from Pam
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Post by john7000 »

Hello Mistress I am a submissive looking for a nice and strong I am new to being a submissive but I am willing to lean from you. I am looking to a long term Mistress/sub relationship some of the stuff I like are.

Cbt
Edging
Cum eating
Crossdressing
E-stem play
Anal when I have time to get an enema
Getting spanked
Being tied up and gagged
Doing assignments for mistress
And being called a slave.

My hard limits are
Poop
Pee
Blood
And anything to do with kids

I also have a fetlife page if you would like to see it Mistress.

I hope I can serve you as your little sissy sub.
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Post by sissymaidemily »

Hi emily here.
I long to be an obedient sissy for a Miss and her boyfriend/s
To do all Miss's chores and housework, locked in the tiniest cage, plugged with a large realistic dildo, while Miss and her Real Men friends enjoy themselves.
Sorry if that's a little too explicit
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