Tied balls edging help

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It sounds like it's adding a significant amount of physical tension. Notice the rest of your body while you are tied. Are your muscles tensed up? This tension is ultimately what leads to orgasm. If you do feel more tense, trying breathing deeply, all the way into the pelvic floor through your nose, then back out again through your nose. Slowly and deeply. See if that helps relieve some of the tension.