My Idea of self-denial to have 'some fun'

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My Idea of self-denial to have 'some fun'

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Hello all,

I had a busy year so far, ups and downs. I found 'the woman of my dreams' in real life, and yes she was into denial too (woohoo!), but after half a year she left me. Then there were 2 months of depression and one month of recovery ...

Well but you are not here to read about my misery. I wanted to share an idea with you, and what you think about it. Since i haven't found someone new yet, i thought about a denial game to spice up my masturbation habits.

Webteases are nice, but they are more a 1-day thing. Okay there are some series, really nice ones, but most of them I've read. And reading a Webtease for a second time .... well the surprise is gone. And I'm picky about some topics ...
Okay short story: There aren't enough Webteases left at the moment to do different ones for a longer period of time.

Soo (damn, I've written so much, and haven't gotten to the point yet ...) maybe some of you know mayicum.com. I like the concept and to hear the beautiful voice of a Mistress is really nice. I read through some instructions and so far i really liked it, but since they only post every other day i thought of different way to do them:

Every day i have to pick one Instruction from the Archive, and at the end of it i have a chance to cum. If I'm not allowed to cum, i have to wait for the next day to try my luck again. I may do them in order or just randomly, whatever way i think i have the best luck to cum. (I like to have some choice)

Another thing to give me more to choose. If I'm really eager one day, I may choose to do a second assignment, and have a second chance to cum. However, whatever the outcome, on the next day i will not be allowed to cum, even if I'm told to.
So for a second chance one day, i waste it the next day. This could be really bad if I randomly choose a 'you may cum' assignment the next day. :(

The only sad thing is, i have no special lady who is going to enjoy my denial. Well i can't have it all, can i?


So what do you think? Or do you perhaps have any ideas to spice it up even more? Any thoughts at all? :)
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That's funny because mayicum doesn't have any series at all, that i found anyway. Also, i thought they were too short and not as involved as the effort the writers here put into them. They do have the nice voice, but i think there are teases here that spice things up pretty good. There's that "conversation with abrianna" tease that has you do a random tease every night or day from the classics and there's other ones that do stuff like that too. They have chances and no chances to cum...... i think theres over a thousand teases here no not including the classics and someone recently pointed out the math on this by doing just one a day. You know what might be cool.... if we could group a bunch of teases that are here with a random number of them that allow you to cum and everyday, somehow select from that pool and do whatever it says, cum or no cum. Sorry about your personal shit, but keep in mind, we all say goodbye at some point.
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Ashton tease on orgasm denial really gets me going i love it.
i am single i would like to be teased and humiliated in real life
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Yes i agree with you there are over a thousand teases here and yes most of them are marvelous, BUT like i said i read/did most of them. I've been around for a long time, before milovana even existed and we all hang out on orgasmdenial dot com.

So i've read most of them, it's like I'm running out of porn :)

Some teases i just start reading then i remember what is comming ect. even if i have to roll the dice i know 'ohh yeah and i get to cum in the end if i roll a 6' or something like that. If i know whats coming next, then uhm yeah ... it's boring (for me!!! some people even enjoy reading the same book several times ... i don't)

So the fact is i don't have that many promising webteases left, not enough to fill a whole month with them. That's why i came up with the idea.
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Alright
I'm 'stealing' an idea

have you concidered regertering yourselfas a sub?
and then posting it on the net to be teasesd?


The female site has a facebook suggestion
http://femaleorgasmdenial.blogspot.com/
OR
http://www.slaveregister.com/

neither of these ideas are mine
I have not tried them (don't need to) so I don't know if they would work for you.
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first @all2true

Those ideas and sites don't work for me. You know how it is out there, 1000 eager man for one willing woman :). And then i don't just want to be teased by anyone, i want it to be more personal. I want to feel that she is enjoying my Denial, and not that she is giving me 'what i want'.


@my idea

Just to let you know, it didn't really work out for me. I was allowed to cum yesterday, but it all didn't really feel good. It just ain't the same if you do it only for yourself. You can't beg for release and be pushed even further by someone, you can't feel her enjoy the power over you. And honestly the whole concept looses alot of 'sparkling' if you do it only for yourself.

I guess that whole self-denial thing ain't working for me :(
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