Dom, sub or switch?

[DavidF]

It seems to me, that people in IRC were somewhat surprised when I said I was a switch, and seemed to question my use of capital letters at the start of my name. :P (They all seemed to think I was a dom, quite off putting, actually. I admire you ladies even more now!)

Just wondering how common switch's are within this community.

[Fenris]

that depends are you talking about members or people viewing the site?

[Cum_Slut_Sissy]

I understand what you mean by the capital letters in the name can stand for dominance, however the only reason i chose for the capital letters in my name is because i tend to like things more or less perfect, i think i remember reading somewhere its like a form of OCD

[tzdndenied]

Hi,

Guess everybody knows how i voted...submissive...didn't even have to think about it!

kristin

[bobbbliss]

I marked switch but I identify as The Assertive Sub (see: http://www.okcupid.com/quizzy/take?id=1 ... 3708158422 )

But to be honest, I'm REALLY good at being a Dom because I know how to find the triggers that work for a particular sub, and I know that glorious feeling of totally committing to one's submission. My lover is an amazing submissive, and enjoys "being in charge" occasionally, but alas, she has to work at being a Domme, since she's really about 97% submissive.

Now if I met a bisexual woman who was 97% dominant, we'd BOTH be in trouble! *Wink*

[Cider]

all sub here! 99%. so how is 99% all you say? there is a margin of error in everything. i can Dom, but honestly hate it and feel awkward, submissive at heart, and in heaven beneath my Mistress.

[zenlover]

Variety is the spice...
I enjoy both, and have for a long time. Sensual dominance and submission though, no painful stuff...