First Chastity Device

[freedombliss]

So I just ordered my first chastity device and I am so happy. It should arrive sometime next week, giving me one more week of freedom. I just had a question that maybe someone could answer. Should I go crazy and get off as many times as I can before it arrives or should I start slowing down and ease myself into chastity? I get off maybe 3 times a week now, in case anybody is wondering. Any feedback would be great. Thanks for reading.

[Banquo]

Personally I wouldn't go crazy, or ease off. Just keep to your usual schedule.

When the belt arrives, don't expect to be able to just lock up and leave yourself in chastity for a week or two, it's going to take a while to get comfortable with it. Like anything new. You may need to wear it for an hour or two first go, then the next day where it for the evening and overnight. Experiment with what suits you. Then eventually go for longer runs.

Good luck, and have fun, Chastity is pretty awesome and if you can find someone who is happy to control release, even better.

[AndySub]

I'd say it depends on what your motivations are for wanting to be in chastity.

If it's for the feelings of frustration then you may want to stop masturbating now so by the time you are locked up you're already wanting to get off.

If you're into it for the loss of control and you have a keyholder then let them decide

Everyone is different though. For example, I like to feel frustrated but I prefer not to be locked for that. It's much more frustrating being made to edge but not being allowed to cum.

Don't expect to get it right first time too. Chastity devices can be very hard to get accustomed to, especially night time erections and morning wood. Also, watch out for the circulation in your boy parts, if things go cold and don't warm up the device may be too small. You may also get some chaffing if the device is too loose or has rough edges.

Another thing, be patient and don't just stuff your junk into it as soon as it arrives. They can be awkward to get into first time round. Take your time and also thoroughly clean it before first use.

Anyway, good luck and enjoy!

[Banquo]

Another thing, be patient and don't just stuff your junk into it as soon as it arrives. They can be awkward to get into first time round. Take your time and also thoroughly clean it before first use.

This is a really good point, also, I would recommend shaving or at least trimming down there.

[AliceInBondageLand]

Remember to build up your lockup times slowly. 12 hours is a LONG TIME at first and your first few overnights will be pretty extreme as you figure out the fit of the device and your body adjusts.

[freedombliss]

Thank you all for the advice. I'm going to take it slow. I'll let you know how it goes.