need help buying first feminine clothing!

[bengalsfan]

i finally decided to embrace my decision to purchase some panties, stockings, and maybe some other women's clothing to really take advantage of all the awesome teases on this site! however, i do need some help buying these items secretly. i plan on getting a gift card from a department store, then using that gift card to order the items online and pick them up in store.

My question is, if you use a gift card online, do you still need to provide any credit card info? I dont have a credit card i am willing to use, so this is an important detail for me, and i also cant have anything shipped to the house.

i want to thank everyone in advance, as this is a big step for me. I also encourage you to share any experience you have with buying clothing or toys secretly, or even share your story about the first time that you branched out and bought some clothing or a toy for yourself. Thanks again everyone, love this community.

[masterofkunt]

just buy them in store, is christmas time they will assume it is a gift also, Nobody in sales cares :)

[LeanneTG]

Like masterofkunt, I really recommend buying them in store. It might seem like it would be embarassing or humiliating the first time, but it's actually kind of a rush - and it gives you a chance to try some things on to get the sizing right.

For my first time, I went to a store that had both mens and women's clothing. This made it a bit easier to try things on, since there was no risk of someone getting uppity about a male in the women's changing area or anything (something I've only ever had a problem with *once,* and I simply chose not to shop there.) Plus, because it was a mixed-gender store if anyone who knew me happened to see me there they wouldn't think anything of it. (Still went a bit out of my way to the other side of town to reduce the risk, though.) And because it was a discount store, the cost wasn't too much in case I misjudged sizing.

My heart was pounding the whole time, and I was sort of just hovering around the changing areas because I wasn't sure if I could just go into a booth or if I had to 'check in' with someone first, when a young girl came up to ask if I wanted a changing room. She didn't say anything about my selections or anything, it was seriously no big deal to her - unless they're really new to the store, they've seen it before. Also, it's usually be younger people working in retail anyway and while there's still a fair bit of prejudice around, the millenials are generally far more accepting about it than you'd think. Like, the first time I went into a bra-shop and admitted I was buying something for myself the girl literally said "that is so cool" and even offered to help me with a fitting.

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[bengalsfan]

wow, that is quite a story, but I just dont think i could bring myself to do something like that. i will think about it again, but i just dont see it happening. the sizing is a good point though,and thanks for sharing. also, there any recommendations about what i should get? if theres not then thats ok

[JustKrissy]

I've never tried on things in the stores like the other poster, but if You have measured Yourself from home, it shouldn't be too bad to size it up with Your eyes in the store.

I find that the clerks really don't care, You're just another costumer, and I think lots of guys buy these things every day for various reasons, it's just Your mind that blows it out of proportion. =P

• -I was always fond of tank tops and mini skirts..
  -also legwarmers/stockings. Murr~
  -One of those cut off tops that shows off Your tummi goes well with a lot of things.
  -Armwarmers/long gloves?

Good luck and have funsies. :3

[ashplosh]

The walmarts where i live have do it yourself machines and i buy feminine clothes, petplay stuff, enemas, lube and condoms through those. Not only do you not have to have someone ring you up but there are also few customers that like the do it your self machines so they are usually easy to get through without being noticed, plus the customers are busy buying and bagging their stuff to judge what others are buying. I would recommend looking to see if walmart or any store you can buy panties and bras at have do it your self checkout machines. Sadly the only time i found stockings at walmart was during Halloween in the Halloween section.