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When watching porn pics/videos there are simetimes these weird "what the fuck?" moments. Sometimes I just don't understand why something is going on.

So, maybe this time you have a clue for me:

More than once I've seen galleries of girl-girl-bdsm-action with the mistress/domme wearing nipple clamps.
Here is an example: http://www.kenmarcus.com/promos/taylor- ... de-lezdom/

Why the heck do they do this?
I'm mean, normally, it's: Subbie receiving pain, mistress causing subbie's pain. And not "Mistress receiving pain".

I could think of just two possibilites:

a) They are imitating a (maybe rare) technique in real life sessions. I'm quite sure that a girl wearing nipple clamps and thus experiencing pain could be more aggressive/rough towardes her sub. So, they could be used to make the session even harder for the sub. Though I haven't even read/hear of this practice, let alone experienced it myself.

b) It's just a kind of decoration. Someone on the set said: "Oh, wait. The boobs of the mistress are a little bit too ... naked. Let's add something! Nipple clamps! Doesn't make sense? Who cares!"

What do you think? Any more ideas?
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I dont really think it is strange at all. What you feel is an submissive act doesnt mean it is so for eevrybody else.

Maybe she is a switch and enjoys a bit of pain? Maybe she is not a switch and just a domme, but still enjoys the feeling?

Some dommes like to give the subs a blowjobs. Giving oral would be normal a submissive act aswell, but what if the domme enjoys it? Why shouldnt she do it just because most people say it is submissive? Same goes for males of course aswell.

Open up your mind a bit on that. That dominant girl seems just to do what she enjoys.
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maybe is was to get you to watch!!

I am the mistress who wear clamps!! :lol:
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PERSONALLY, if I see a Domme wearing things that hurt her, my response is "Oh Sh!t, this girl really likes pain. Her sub is in trouble!"
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Thanks for your comments! As (nearly) always, the Milovana community has answers (if not: THE answer).
Unique wrote:Open up your mind a bit on that. That dominant girl seems just to do what she enjoys
Yes, maybe you are right, that I'm too narrow minded here. But isn't most porn infact somehow ... conservative? I imagine them like: "We know BDSM turns people on and girl girl stuff is always hot. So, we are doing girl girl BDSM. And nothing special. Because anything too special and strange might discourage some people from watching." But maye that's just a wrong assumption.
SexualChoc wrote:I am the mistress who wear clamps!! :lol:
Sorry, to be honest: I don't get this joke.
Tury wrote:PERSONALLY, if I see a Domme wearing things that hurt her, my response is "Oh Sh!t, this girl really likes pain. Her sub is in trouble!"
That's nearly what I thought in my Option a). But have you ever heard of any Domme doing this in real life? Or is this just a fantasy?
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people do things for different reasons. Acts of submission aren't always so. People have restraint fetishes but adorn it because they like the fashion, not because they want to be restrained. Pain is a sensation not to be confused with submission. To submit is to do or experience as compelled by someone or something else, not what one does.

Plenty of people like being tied up on their own terms. It doesn't make them a sub. :).

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because the whole point of being a dom is for the slave to please the dom, the dom gets all the pleasure. so if they like clamps, they will get that pleasure. same for doms to give blow jobs only to stop before they cum.

so plain and simple, its because they enjoy that pleasure.
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I sometimes wear snake bite kits on my nipples or clothespins. That doesn't make me any less dominant, I do it because it FEELS GREAT when I masturbate. A woman only has so many hands to pleasure so many bits at once on her own. :-)
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