A bit of a strange question...

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A bit of a strange question...

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Hi all! Fairly new guy here.

I'm sort of coming out of left field here with this one, and I don't know how well people can relate, since it refers to hypnosis, but here goes.

I have I guess you could say a 'fetish' for denial, like a lot of us here, but mine seems to extend to other things, for example for years I have had an incredibly intense enthusiasm for the idea of changing my fetishes, as in, getting new ones, removing old ones, etc. through hypnosis. I've been over on warpmymind.com recently trying to get into hypno, and I've gotten some really great advice and tips, and it's going well so far. Anyway, I wanted to ask you guys for advice on one particular change I'm really wanting to make.

Basically, while I really lean submissive in what I like most of the time, I really like women in gags. Have for years. Not sure why, and I'd really really like to somehow get rid of that. I'd like to get to a point where I find the idea unattractive, rather than attractive. Drives me crazy thinking about achieving that. I guess it feels like a way of going 'all in' on being a sub.

What's your opinion on whether fetishes can be removed through for example self hypnosis, and if so how time consuming/difficult it would be? And lastly, could I do something like that to completely eliminate an attraction to women in gags?(since that's my main focus at the moment).

Bit of an awkward post, but I hope it made sense. Any help is greatly appreciated!
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Re: A bit of a strange question...

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I would think that if you had a good enough hypnotist they could make you do anything or change any behavior.
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Re: A bit of a strange question...

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                     There is a fundamental problem.

                     The subconscious does not understand negatives.

         So if you say stop putting on weight, the subconscious will take this to mean put on more weight.

         There are some stop addiction mp3 out there but I have found hyptalk gives a free 8 day self hypnosis course And Wendi Friesen has a free dowload to help get you started with self hypnosis. which I hope will help you understand this and adapt your affirmations accordingly, so you go for what you want not what you don't want.


                  Both of these are professional hypnotherapists, and hypnosis is their day job.
                           I have happily spent money with both of them.
                     
                       An example could be
                                      I love looking at pictures of free women
                                          Lord Les
                                 Be careful what you wish for!

Growing OLD Is Inevitable,
          But Growing UP... Is Optional
                    OR
                              Why do I have to stop being a KID now I can afford it.







                                
                                                                                                                                                   
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Re: A bit of a strange question...

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@Les Thanks a lot for this. It'll be very helpful I'm sure.

I have heard of that issue and I'll be sure to keep it in mind, and I'll check out the links you provided.

Also, I've actually had some luck with self hypnosis on this issue so far, so I'm really hopeful.

Thanks again!
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Re: A bit of a strange question...

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                     It is said you don't become a ggod cook, cooking a 1000 different dishes.
You become one cooking each dish a hundred times.

                     The same can be said for becoming a good hypnosis subject.
Listen daily to a new script, even twice daily, until you feel the effects you want, then listen a week more.

I find I can listen to two different scripts if I listen to them at different times of the day.
Preferabley near the time you want the outcome to be effectual.
So I listen to a Sleep Apnea mp3 before I settle for the night,
And an energy booster before I get up.
                     
                     
                                          Lord Les
                                 Be careful what you wish for!

Growing OLD Is Inevitable,
          But Growing UP... Is Optional
                    OR
                              Why do I have to stop being a KID now I can afford it.







                                
                                                                                                                                                   
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