I have Put a great effort in writing this all down for all the mistrees after reading it i m very genuine thanks,
I m a virgin and looking for a mistress [email protected]
I wanna know how much a virgin appeals to a girl i m 22
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Re: Mistress Only
I would say with a post like this you're extremely unlikely to find someone interested, for a few reasons:
1 - Spelling and punctuation is badly needed here. I don't know if there's a language barrier but, assuming that's not an issue, proofreading is sorely needed.
2 - The only thing any 'mistress' knows about you from this post is that you are a virgin. You tell nothing about yourself as a person. Things that make you unique in comparison to countless other guys with ads almost exactly like this are completely absent.
3 - You say you're looking for 'a mistress'. Not a woman, not a fellow human to connect with, kink and otherwise, but 'a mistress'. A generic fetish character. It's objectifying from the beginning.
4 - Saying you put 'great effort' into writing something for "all the mistresses" (I'm not sure even what you're referring to. This ad?) at the start implies that you're somehow 'owed' a message back because of how much time you spent on whatever. That's just about the worst way to go about connecting with someone, and will likely cause anyone reading, man or woman, to run screaming in the opposite direction, so to speak.
If you want to be with someone, or even just interact with someone online who will be dominant toward you, you have to connect with her, as a person. A simple conversation is a good start. Your ad here is the equivalent of a guy on a vanilla dating site making an ad that says "Hi. I'm a virgin, and I want to have sex with a woman. Any women who are interested here's my email.". It's generic, hopelessly casual, objectifying, and unpleasant.
Now, let me be clear I'm no expert in dating or relationships or anything, and don't claim to be, but when you see ad after ad like this that are flat out insulting to the very people the person is trying to make interested in him(or her, as the case may be, but ads like these are almost always from guys in my experience, for whatever reason), after awhile you want to say something.
Try out Fetlife.com and do some reading. I've learned an incredible amount about kink just from people on there, and you no doubt would also.
Oh and by the way, I'm aware my post breaks your 'Mistress Only' rule but, well, I just don't give a shit.
1 - Spelling and punctuation is badly needed here. I don't know if there's a language barrier but, assuming that's not an issue, proofreading is sorely needed.
2 - The only thing any 'mistress' knows about you from this post is that you are a virgin. You tell nothing about yourself as a person. Things that make you unique in comparison to countless other guys with ads almost exactly like this are completely absent.
3 - You say you're looking for 'a mistress'. Not a woman, not a fellow human to connect with, kink and otherwise, but 'a mistress'. A generic fetish character. It's objectifying from the beginning.
4 - Saying you put 'great effort' into writing something for "all the mistresses" (I'm not sure even what you're referring to. This ad?) at the start implies that you're somehow 'owed' a message back because of how much time you spent on whatever. That's just about the worst way to go about connecting with someone, and will likely cause anyone reading, man or woman, to run screaming in the opposite direction, so to speak.
If you want to be with someone, or even just interact with someone online who will be dominant toward you, you have to connect with her, as a person. A simple conversation is a good start. Your ad here is the equivalent of a guy on a vanilla dating site making an ad that says "Hi. I'm a virgin, and I want to have sex with a woman. Any women who are interested here's my email.". It's generic, hopelessly casual, objectifying, and unpleasant.
Now, let me be clear I'm no expert in dating or relationships or anything, and don't claim to be, but when you see ad after ad like this that are flat out insulting to the very people the person is trying to make interested in him(or her, as the case may be, but ads like these are almost always from guys in my experience, for whatever reason), after awhile you want to say something.
Try out Fetlife.com and do some reading. I've learned an incredible amount about kink just from people on there, and you no doubt would also.
Oh and by the way, I'm aware my post breaks your 'Mistress Only' rule but, well, I just don't give a shit.