Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by kinkyman12 »

I am a male looking for a dominatrix. It will be easier to list what I am not into:
Waste play, gay, a lot of pain (mild cbt, but nothing extreme), elderly, but MILFs are OK (usually no older than late 40s), harsh humilation (don't constantly call me tiny and laugh at my size. Usually the I guess it'll do comment is where it should end), exhibitionism, or sending pics. Do not ask me to send pics for I will not do it. Also, I do most of my sessions from my android phone, so multiple tabs usually is not an option, just FYI.

Will to try about anything not listed here.

I have a couple shoestrings (and like to use one or two while stroking), a small rod to use in place of a dildo, a make-shift butt plug, two clothespins, and a large foam ball that can be used as a gag. I normally don't do anal, but it is something I'll do occasionally.

*Edit: If you find JOI/JOE or handjob/blowjob vids and link them to me as a tease/session, that would work too. Whatever works for you; we can always discuss details later.

Please PM me if interested. Thanks!


Also, I am looking for a sub. Please let me know if interested as well. Would be willing to do switch with someone, but must be female (I refuse to tease/instruct a man).
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Sub4Cum »

32/m, married, straight but bi-curious with an unending appetite for cum!!! Looking for somebody to force me to eat, play, wear, etc, my cum when you tell me to! PM me for more info and any questions you have!
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Snyder24 »

I am a bi-curious 25 year old sub looking for a dominant woman who likes to play kinky but can be serious when the time calls for it. Some of my kinks are humiliation, sissification, forced-bi, chastity, and tease and denial, but I am willing to try anything once (except scat/piss/intense pain) play.


I have blonde hair, blue eyes, am 5'9" and weigh 170 lbs. I'm in pretty good shape having served in the Army and if anyone would like to see a picture, talk, or anything like that feel free to send me a text at (530) 845-3481 (it's my prepaid number), if we get to know each other I will give you my real number.

On a side note I love this site :), and I hope to meet some new people!
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by wooowaaa »

male sub looking for domme to control my orgasm and make me stroke and tease myself thru message or chat
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Post by Protein »

Hi, i would like talk with some domme, if you want send me mp :wave:
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by Sissyslave27 »

I'm a male look for a domme, I'm 18 and I'm into many things. I enjoy cuckolding and orgasm denial, please contact me with any information about yourself and if you're interested in making me your sub.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by jdshadow74 »

Hi I'm new to this thing. I'm searching for a mistress in the Montreal area to dom me RL. Of course I'll obey her wishes. We can meet first in a cafe or something to see if we click.
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Post by emoroxie »

I am a bi sub femboy looking for a domme online long or short term is fine

I desire femboy/sissy training
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by MistressVictoria »

I'm Mistress Victoria and I am looking for male subs under the age of 30 for humilation, sph, foot worship and cum eating.

Subs will be giving regular humiliating tasks to perform along with potential rewards such as pictures of me for completing their tasks. Possibility of having skype sessions as well. Contact me here or at [email protected]
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by submissive-m »

Hello,

I'm looking for a Mistress, or Madame who enjoys teasing and denying their subs.

Male, 23, 6,1, slim.

I love losing control, being told how to jerk off, and to be either denied or allowed to cum.


I've always fantasized being completely bound in furs, or other ultra soft fluffy clothing, blankets, etc. Completely helpless while she plays with my cock, which may or may not be chasticed (whatever she prefers)

Some of my fetishes are:

furs (clothing. Love the soft fluffiness of it against my skin, or on a woman.)
bondage (Loooove losing control.)
Tease/denial
Cockrings
Pegging (Recently discovered. A dominant woman with a strap-on is so sexy.)

Would love to serve a Mistress as well. Humiliation, taking her rage, forced femdom, whatever she likes.

Send me a pm please...would love to have some fun serving and pleasing you.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by topgear »

Hi I am looking for someone to control me. I have 2 hours of time to serve someone after school. I am 18. I would like to be controlled through kik. The 2 hours are when only I am home alone but of course I can do certain things when my family is home. If interested send me a message on kik. My username is nicktopgear
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by highest_roller19 »

I'm looking for domme (female/tgirl) and I'm 19 and a male, from Ontario Canada and I have Kik (same name as here) and I'm willing to try almost anything but my profile has my limits/fetishes/turn ones and turn offs. I could make a Skype or MSN or anything you want. Thanks.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by domesticfred »

I've never felt I could afford the time for a Domme before, but with the advent of crazyxxx's online stamina trainer it may be possible and a lot of fun for both of us.

His fantastic system allows me to get points once a day, and then spend points on cards. The motivation to spend points on cards is they might tell me I cum, but sometimes they don't and sometimes the cumming instructions are less-than-pleasant, painful, or humiliating!

And, there are punishment cards to draw if I don't follow instructions exactly, or cum without permission for some other reason.

The cool feature is that the cards, points, and probabilities are all customizable, and I can hand over that customization to someone else (you!). You could add, change, or delete cards, or change the points, so that I have to do things that YOU want me to do. You can see the full history of my account, maybe you'd be turned on knowing what I've done, or maybe you'd tell me to report to you by message after each card. Or maybe you'd setup cards that require me to message you, send you pictures, whatever. Or maybe none of that -- maybe you'd just be happy knowing that I'm out there doing things that you can control, and that someday you might login and mess up the whole system to make it unpleasant, or pleasant, or whatever!

So, although it might seem like an odd "topping from the bottom" situation that I've configured a computer program to tell me when to cum and to do things that might be unpleasant, painful, or humiliating, that's just the opening line. Over time, you could end up quite in control and could be configured entirely to your liking.

So, if you think this is interesting, won't you drop me a line?

(see the other thread describing the system http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 1&t=13211) or just visit it at http://online-stamina-trainer.herokuapp.com/)
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by luftdrachen2014 »

I am 31 and looking for a little online teasing, Mistress only please. I am okay with a one-off or more if you would like. please email me or pm me on here thanks.
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Re: Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

Post by HerpDerp42 »

Hi,
I`m 21 years old, male, German student and looking for a nice dominant girl, who helps me eat my own cum by instructions. I am also willing to do other tasks, that are not in my limits, if you want me to (i.e. anal).
Since I am kinda shy, i would prefer to start with VoIP or some chats.
If you are interested please PM me, i would be glad to hear from you. :D

Limits: heavy pain, scat, feminization, public
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