Why you should eat your own cum

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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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Hey, it's my first post ever!

I'd have no problem being ordered by a woman to eat my own cum--I've done it as a cleanup method for years and don't mind the taste one bit. I'm surprised, though, that given all the dominant PSOs who have heard me orgasm over the years, none have ever said "Oh, no, we're not through" and then ordered me to lick it off my hand.

In any event, I just discovered this site today and plan to become active on it!
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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Seriously? wrote:The thought of the act is actually, kind of hot to me, but only if it's an act of submission.
Yep that's how a lot of my kinks are. I may fantasize about them, but to actually go through with it and do it I need to be ordered to (or feel comfortable ordering my partner to do whatever it is). It really all comes down to the sub/dom part for me, even if it's just someone online or even a webtease/video. The real thing is better though. :-)
subdub wrote:Getting really horny does not help me. I've tried with full and ruined orgasms. However, I stop being horny after a climax and end up having a shower.

What I do is have a ruined dribbling orgasm just like this

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I am so frustrated and horny after it, I consume my load without any complains.
Yep I also found this way to be the easiest to break through that mental barrier, and it can even make me more willing to eat a full orgasm afterwards after I've already "had a taste" so to speak.
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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subdub wrote:Getting really horny does not help me. I've tried with full and ruined orgasms. However, I stop being horny after a climax and end up having a shower.

What I do is have a ruined dribbling orgasm just like this

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I am so frustrated and horny after it, I consume my load without any complains.
How do you achieve a dribble ruined orgasm? I'm so interested!

Thanks!
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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emilianoemi wrote: How do you achieve a dribble ruined orgasm? I'm so interested!

Thanks!
It takes some practice, but basically you need to go over the edge by the smallest amount possible and just relax. If you go too far over the edge or tense up your muscles it will tend to shoot out more like it normally does, which in my opinion isn't even a full ruined orgasm.

For me the easiest way to do this is rubbing the underside of my cock right below the head (when I'm already close to cumming). If I just stroke over the edge there is way too much stimulation and I go too far over. The "best" ruined orgasms I've had actually happened a few seconds after the actual touch was removed.

That's just what works for me though, everyone is different.
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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For me its kind of a matter of how horny I am and of how long I have not swallowed it.
Because after doing it I mostly "have enough" of it for a long time. I agree with the others saying its easiest doing it with a ruined orgasm!

But I even did those Britney spears cum trainer vids.
In case you don't know them:
http://annamalicesissyselfhypnosis.com/ ... ss-cassie/

http://annamalicesissyselfhypnosis.com/ ... ss-cassie/

Again I did them and afterwards thought "oh my god what have I done..." and other times they made me so horny that I worked up another load to swallow.
I guess what I found out for myself is that I have to be pretty horny beforehand to be content with myself after doing it.

What I wonder is... Cum eating in 99% of cases seems to be connected with humiliation, submission or devotion why is that?
I am not submissive and being humiliated is a huge turnoff for me. Plus i dont want to suck other cocks or eat other cum than my own. (yes I am sure ;-) )and not having a tiny dick makes this "with your tiny dick you have to suck real cock" stuff annoying...

Still Cum eating excites me, maybe because I did it as a teenager before even knowing what I was doing, just out of curiosity.
And because there are facial pics that look like a piece of art. ;-)

So I am doing Cum eating teases, or watching Vids and "ignore" the constant humiliation and "you want to suck cocks" stuff and just let them seduce me into eating my own cum.

Because another point most cum eating teases and vids do is... they show you hot girls doing it in a very hot manner. which really does the job for me.
they seldom show you a guy giving himself a facial. which honestly looks like the most degrading embarrassing thing you can do.
BUT when you are alone... who cares?

I dont know what I am aiming at, just that I don't see why cum eating always has to be connected with punishment or devotion. I never could do it for a mistress although I admire the devotion some people are capable of.
I might do it for my girlfriend because we are pretty much switches on a very light level. :smile:
But I wouldn't do it while being forced to do it... rather in a "trying it out together" like snowballing or cum swapping in a much more eye level scenario.

A tease that I really liked and that I would love to see more of was:
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showt ... p?id=12124
no humiliation, no being called gay, and really easing you into it. The teases of CamCei75 are excellent too! http://www.milovana.com/webteases/#author=16586

Ok sorry for the long post! just wanted to get my thoughts out. :wave:
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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Mabene wrote:So I am doing Cum eating teases, or watching Vids and "ignore" the constant humiliation and "you want to suck cocks" stuff and just let them seduce me into eating my own cum.
Tara Tainton has a bunch of CEI videos with a more gentle approach, so if you haven't already check out those.

I totally agree about CamCei75's teases. Those "Hotties Make You Jerk and Swallow" series are probably the best cum eating teases I've seen. I've never tried that other one (I'm Here To Coach You) though. Thanks, added to favorites. :-)
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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CEI is a big part of why I come to this site, honestly I usually check if there are any quality new teases tagged cum-eating first and if nothing is new scan the forums and head off to annamalice. Typically I don't find the humiliation stuff that appealing, but every now and then it can get my rocks off. I too really enjoy CamCei75's teases; hotties have made me jerk and swallow soo many loads.

Successful cum eating eluded me until I master what others have called the dribble orgasm and I call the slow gasm. If I edge for a while and do that special stroke the cum just oozes out of my cock and I'm still just as horny. Then, magic happens, so much fun being fully aroused and having loads of cum in front of you. All my cum hangups are gone. CEI videos are that much more fun. Kissing my wife after finishing in her mouth has become super hot for us.

Master the dribble, you must.
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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eric wrote:CEI is a big part of why I come to this site, honestly I usually check if there are any quality new teases tagged cum-eating first and if nothing is new scan the forums and head off to annamalice. Typically I don't find the humiliation stuff that appealing, but every now and then it can get my rocks off. I too really enjoy CamCei75's teases; hotties have made me jerk and swallow soo many loads.

Successful cum eating eluded me until I master what others have called the dribble orgasm and I call the slow gasm. If I edge for a while and do that special stroke the cum just oozes out of my cock and I'm still just as horny. Then, magic happens, so much fun being fully aroused and having loads of cum in front of you. All my cum hangups are gone. CEI videos are that much more fun. Kissing my wife after finishing in her mouth has become super hot for us.

Master the dribble, you must.
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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For me I've found the best way to ruin an orgasm is with prostate stimulation. I'll get myself in a humiliating position with something in my ass. The build up is the same as others have described: I get right up to the edge of orgasm then let off. Then I grab my toy and rub it against my prostate a little. It's a very sexually frustrating feeling as I'm still on the edge and without touching my cock I can't cum, yet semen leaks out in dribbles and streams. The hornyness is still there and the desperation to cum is very strong. Then I just tell myself I have to eat it to have a full orgasm. So I lick it up, whimpering, as I furiously stroke my cock to a full orgasm. Though normally by that point there's not much cum left to shoot out.

Anyway, that's what works for me. I've only done it a few times, when I'm really feeling like a humiliating experience.

Though doing it in a way that's fun seems to go against the point if it's to prove to a mistress that you're dedicated, as seems to be the main point of the thread.
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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I love the thought of it
Having a woman TELL me to eat it
I've watched lots of JOI and CEI movies and it's so exciting to watch and hear
one time she told me to hold it in my mouth and not to swallow it right away
it was great
I will say that for me to just eat it, well I'll chicken out.
But if she tells me and I want her too
I'll lick it up for her
I sure hope you want me to do that for you :-D
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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I eat my own cum every time, is a good source of protein, and then is a part of me...if i eat from body of my gf is better :yes:
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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didn't know where to post this but since its related to the topic...

I found some new CEI vids and think they are quite nice.

http://de.xhamster.com/user/CummLord

especially part 3 has a nice little twist by turning things around as you are to have a glass of cum in front of you while watching the video and try NOT to play with it. :innocent:

I also like it that they are not humiliating and every video has another topic. just wanted to share them. :-)
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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Dear Ms. Cruel Natalie,

I do eat my own cum, not always, but increasing in frequency. I do frequently anticipate eating and lose interest. This is unacceptable. :\'-( My Mistress is out of town now, but I plan to discuss this topic and the frequency of my masturbation and ejaculations next time we meet.

Your original post in this series made excellent points. I will show it to my Mistress. In the meantime, I will do some good finger lickin' each time I make a mess without fail. :-P

Thank you very much for your participation in Milovana. You add a lot to the site.

Your obedient servant,

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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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Is there any way of forcing myself to do it everytime I masturbate,
without chickening out and without the help of a mistress (since they are
hard to find)?
And how is it possible to not feel guilty about it afterwards?
Can anyone answer this questions please? :)

Thanks!
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Re: Why you should eat your own cum

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If you make workout then think that is good for build muscles, if you don't make sports then why you must eat? :unsure:
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