Self-control!

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Self-control!

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What I mean by this is…. No chastity device just done by will power alone. I was a long time ago teased and denied online by a lady for 30 days… this was done by my own self-control (I could have cheated, as this was done in Second Life, so no cam or skype etc.. but chose not too) I will admit I found this very frustrating but the orgasm after the allotted time was.. Let’s just say a powerful one!

Just wondered how many others have tried this method as opposed to a chastity device?
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Well i have try both and the self control is realy good and frustrating, thinking it's just there and i can grab it, but someone say i cant, its good, i have done that for a long time and never cheated, not ones.

In a chastity device you are 24/7 reminded that someone have taken your manhood and put it away, you can't grab it or change the way it fits in your pants, and it fit very badly, its bulky to have on and it not good for everybody, but the frustration get an extra jump this way, even if you only have it on when you can, your hardon is not realy a hardon, it's a half frustrating hardon, trying to be hard.

I am mixing it, when i go out i have never will play with myself, so there i don't have it on, and the same when i have company or my kid, it's not on, but as soon as i get home or i get alone, it goes on, that is the times i might get horny and play and then it's there stopping me, it's the best from both world and gives the best chance of more life but not more play and orgasms.

i have been denied for 90 ,days this way and believe me its better than no chastity at all.

And last, having it on with no chance to open it yourself it a level op in frustration, you get more horny, to begin with, and if you get teased you will be horny as long as you get teased dally, very frustrating, but my life only permit me to do it for short time, last was 7 days and now i think she will hold me this way for 14 days, but you need to get teased or you will just lose interest in your cock and forget it and not get so horny

This is for me and the next person it's another way
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Thank you for sharing your experiences.

For myself would be impossible to wear a chastity device due to my work.. Have to go through a security scan twice a day so is not practical for me..
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Then you can ude a plastik one or just dont use it when you are at work
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That is very true…. Just feel putting it on and off each day would perhaps for me get to a point of keeping it off all the time…
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Post by CheerfullyInsane »

It's certainly doable.

And I'm with iceunit on this, having it locked away completely simply means you lose interest altogether.
(Or at least I do)
There has to be some element of semi-regular teasing even if it's self-inflicted, otherwise it becomes an entirely passive waiting game.
Not to mention that I have yet to find a device that will allow a certain level of cleanliness when worn for over a week.

Obviously you can 'cheat' but what would be the point of the exercise then?

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