Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

[ducaticarl]

Hello!
My name is Brian and I'm looking for a mistress!!! phew that's the hard bit done.

So now about me:

I'm 48 years old, self employed working from home which gives me some decent amount of time alone, in a place called derbyshire in the uk, I live with my partner but having a sexless marriage through reasons I would rather keep personal to myself I find I need someway to live out my bdsm lifestyle and fantasies hence fetlife, of cause she does not know about my submissive side and wanting to find a mistress and I want to keep it that way, ok I expect lots of people will think I am bad for this and I agree, I do love her but I am human and do need release from normal life from time to time as much as anyone else. so please don't judge me too harshly. As for my personality, I'm very submissive, and tend to follow blindly just about what anybody says. However that doesn't make me dumb or naïve, it just means sometime I like to get myself into trouble. I do like normal things as well for example, motorcycles, scuba diving and photography to name just a few.

Do I have Experience?

I'll be honest, not very much. however I will be VERY dedicated to this relationship and do not intend on leaving this relationship anytime soon. I'd really like an owner with more experience than me, to help me have more fun.

now I bet your wondering what I'm into

Likes
One of my favourites is humiliation! you can never go wrong with humiliation. I love being called names. Anything that let's me know I'm worthless and owned property. I want to be controlled in pretty much every aspect of my sex life. From what I do to how I do it. to remind me that I'm owned 24/7. However, the biggest thing of all is: I'm still technically a beginner and I'm willing to try many new things.
a few examples of activities I also like are:
Anal: Not sure what to say about this its pretty self explanatory,
Dehumanisation: I like to be humiliated and feel/act less than human. This may include hidden or semi public.
Mild pain: I can enjoy forms of pain when combined with other tasks,
forced Bi: I suppose most men have had fantasies about this but would never actually carry it out, I also think about it quite a lot and is something I would try with the proper guidance and enforcement from a mistress.
forced masturbation, ruined orgasms, spanking etc. etc. I am sure you get the idea.
as I say I don't have much experience and would be more than happy to be tested and have my limits pushed.

Dislikes
I'll be short with this.
I don't do scat, family, permanent, or anything illegal, blood, animals or blackmail. I might have more dislikes but I'm fairly certain those are my hard limits, and I am not afraid to try new things!

Other things you should probably know

I also have a few toys and I'm wanting/willing to get more,
I would prefer real life domination in the Nottinghamshire or Derbyshire area mostly in the daytime as unfortunately my normal vanilla life means I cannot travel hundreds of miles to see you or accommodate you here.
however I would also be more than happy being dominated online through emails / messenger/ webcam or similar and of cause online means any potential owner could be anywhere in the world , that would be ok.
I know any online domination or activities carried out would involve me submitting pictures or video as evidence of my obedience and performance and I am more than happy to also do that. ( although to start with I would prefer hiding my face as I don't really want my next door neighbour seeing me online and thinking : hey I know him, why is he running round a field naked being chased by a farmer wearing pink boots? ) sorry only joking about the farmer but you get the message.

How to claim me

I'm not strict on accepting messages, its not like if you screw up one thing your ignored ,just Send me a PM. Easy as that, no application or other web sites needed just a simple PM.
have any questions then please just ask - even if its to ask if I know any farmers with pink boots ( ooop's there goes that farmer thing again ).

so any Mistresses , Doms , Switches, Subs or farmers ( hang on!!! seems to be a pattern evolving here now I am getting worried ) feel free to send a friend invite or even to just say hello and chat.

Ok, Ok time to wrap it up.
I look forward to meeting lots of people and maybe making some new friends along the way. Brian
My e-mail address is: [email protected]

[frost]

I'm 26 male in search for a mistress. Im looking for someone to give me instructions. I would prefer to start with e-mails telling me to do things. I am new to this life style but am willing and submissive. I'm not big into scat or anything like that, again I am new, but, very willing to please. My e-mail address is [email protected]

[ricky811]

good morning. my name is richard and i'm looking for a mistress for tease and denial game on webcam (once or for a long period, i would prefer to be her property).

my skype contact is: riccardo8117

[ds13sp21]

imm looking for a domme
willing to try anything

[nicole]

Looking for a female sub to be my VS slut. pm me for details. no male subs right now.

[sircurious45]

I'm 18 years old, I'm fit and I play sport as well as study. The past year or so I've noticed I'm becoming a lot more passive in life and am growing a lot of submissive tendencies and fantasies as well as an inclination to femdom fantasies and the idea of being controlled.

I'm very curious about the BDSM lifestyle and would like to experience an online or physical relationship with a dominant woman to bring to light all my desires and help me develop as a person.

If you are at all interested then don't hesitate to contact me and we can chat more and decide what we want.

Hope to hear from someone, thankyou for reading!

[ross4646]

I am a slave from the uk, pm me.

[ILLbeYOUEslave]

I'm 18 and looking for a mistress. I would like to try new things.

[lightlust]

Male 19 years.
Found this site a few months ago. Decided to create an account, finally.

Nothing more to tell, as the forum title says, looking for a domme.
If not for long time, atleast for a session or two.

Thank you.
Lightlust

[BlueWilliam]

hello, E/everyone--
--i am a mature (tho' not too mature )male with some real-life experience as a submissive, not as a lifestyle but in play. i'm interested in tease/denial, orgasm control (perhaps periods of chastity), and ruined orgasms (as directed by an online Mistress), as well as being directed to tasks less punishing (though i do own clamps) than cerebral. i welcome private messages or chat with a Domme who might be interested in such an exchange. i like rules and tasks, as long as they are reasonable within the parameters of Real Life.
--as a submissive, it's not my place to prioritize my interests over those of a Domina, but spelling, grammar, and punctuation are always a plus.
--thank You for reading this. if anything here sparks Your curiosity, i'll gladly respond to Your PM or email.

----bw

[Horhay]

I'm a 28 year old male switch who is currently looking for a female sub or two. I'm also open to particularly feminine fem-boys. This would likely be online only but if you're in the Minnesota area then I'd be willing to meet.

I love to control my slave's orgasms and make her beg. I would make you wear sexy lingerie under your clothes, and every time you feel them against your skin you'll think about me, think about how horny you are, and wonder if I'll let you cum that night.

After a session of letting you tease yourself, with without release, I want to see just how wet your pussy is, just how turned on being my little submissive makes you. I would give you tasks to complete to show your subservience and make you as horny as possible. I would make you humiliate and degrade yourself for me, for my pleasure. It also doesn't always have to be sexual, but remember that you'll be my little slut, and sluts like sex.

Any interested female/femboy slaves looking to be sexually controlled, message me. We can discuss more details later.

[jdshadow74]

Hello

I'm looking for a mistress. I'm new to this and curious.

[masterRat]

i am switch. i was dom, and now i wanna feel a sub. so anyone to take slow on me message me ;)

[try2bfree]

I'm looking for a online Femdom/Mistress to help train me as their sub, slave or sissy. I will be what you desire me to be. Please take a look at my profile. I am a very obedient, clean, trim and fit. Just send me a message and lets see if we can hook up. Hope to hear from you soon.

PS: My SKYPE ID is bemy.pantyboy

[bbchamp]

If any hot mistress are out there and looking for a challenge im new to this site. I like tease n denial/orgasm control. Open minded..I'm a dominate type tho so thats the challenge if you can get me to do what you want me to do then youre really good! Pm if interested! And we can talk more