Why you should eat your own cum

[CruelNatalie]

One if the guys here signed up for one of my ongoing control programs. This involves orgasm/cock control. One of my requirements is that you clean up your mess when you are allowed to cum. So P confirmed that he lost interest in doing this the moment he cums. Or some guys will say "It doesn't turn me on." (wrong answer when you have made a commitment to give me control)

I thought this would be a great topic and I am sure P will chime in or I hope he will.

One of the main reasons I ask guys to do this is to prove devotion. Its true that most guys lose interest right after an orgasm. So if you lose interest but still proceed with a command it proves to me that you're interested in making me happy. That after an orgasm you are still motivated to serve me. I can't even tell you how very important this is.

Its not secret that my main interest is in cock & orgasm control. Sure I love smothering, strap-on, bondage, sissy training, erotic humiliation etc etc (long ass list) HOWEVER in order for me to get the right dynamic I first control how and when you orgasm. How you earn touching and cumming is what makes all of this fun for me. I really enjoy sexual tension. You will too IF you truly relinquish control. Erotic control is a journey. If you're looking to just get off any type of masturbation will do that. If you're missing something and looking for more it takes a much stronger commitment.

Having said that, how many of you eat your own cum and why?

[TheCaptain]

I can't do it for myself, I can only do it for someone else, to show devotion.
Since I don't like the taste of it and the urge to eat it is gone after I came I can't
go through this procedure without someone telling me to do it.

I like your opinion and mindset concerning men eating their cum.

[alba]

I seldomly do it, but when I do it, it is (as you said) to prove my devotion, or because it seeks kinky.
When I am under control from a Mistress, it is not that hard to make myself do it, primarily because I know I'll have to answer for it if I don't do it. (The same goes for orgasm denial: it's much easier when someone else is in control.)

I do however do it voluntarily sometimes. At the moment, I'm playing Della's multimedia game for example. I plan on eating it all when I am finally released. I have no idea why, but it seems like something a real life Mistress would make me do, so I'll just do it.

[maester]

Sometimes I eat my cum, but usually I lose interest and just wipe it all off.
When I do, it's usually right after some really hot stuff, usually a hypno of some sort. A lot of the time I had to aim it to my face to force myself to swallow.

[skrote]

I am also one of the ones that lose interest the minute that orgasm is achieved, however... my wife provided a consequence that helps me to put mind over matter.

First, Let me share a small story of the one time that I was ever "forced" to eat my own cum.

I always wanted to do it, but never would once I came. My wife and I set up a scene where I was completely immobilized . (tied up, and wrapped).

We have one of those gags that you can put on dildo attachments on. The ball part inside has an air hole. She rode herself to orgasm, then got me off and collected it in a shot glass.

She put a small plastic funnel into the air hole, and poured it down.

The whole thing turned me on up to the minute that I came. I pleaded with her using my eyes, and trying to say I changed my mind, but down she poured it.

Now... the rule is simple. I am to do it without question, or the next period of denial is doubled. Considering I am going on 6 months right now... at the end when I can cum that would mean if I don't consume it, I'm looking at a minimum of a year... With large numbers like that, It makes it easier for me to make myself do it. Part of me would much rather it be forced, doing it with your own self will is much harder.

[CruelNatalie]

awesome! I knew there were some that would be devotedly motivated. I would not expect someone would do it just for the taste of it but then again I've talked to a few guys that did. They were cum whores and addicted to any cum not just their own.

I knew one guy who collected it from various sources and then would do very humiliating task with it. It was awesome although you really need to have lunch prior to him calling.

[Velo]

I'm really in the camp of 'need to be told to do it'. If I'm cumming on my own, I'll completely lose any desire to eat it. Following some kind of pre-recorded, impersonal-message... I'll probably lose interest too.

But, if I get told directly or am in a group of some kind, that submissive streak just kicks in and I find myself having no problems eating it.

[CruelNatalie]

I'm really in the camp of 'need to be told to do it'. If I'm cumming on my own, I'll completely lose any desire to eat it. Following some kind of pre-recorded, impersonal-message... I'll probably lose interest too.

But, if I get told directly or am in a group of some kind, that submissive streak just kicks in and I find myself having no problems eating it.

what about just an expectation? You see I have guys that submit to me online and via phone. They can't serve a mistress in real time. If the dial in and really work at it we can establish a great connection.

[CruelNatalie]

I am also one of the ones that lose interest the minute that orgasm is achieved, however... my wife provided a consequence that helps me to put mind over matter.

First, Let me share a small story of the one time that I was ever "forced" to eat my own cum.

I always wanted to do it, but never would once I came. My wife and I set up a scene where I was completely immobilized . (tied up, and wrapped).

We have one of those gags that you can put on dildo attachments on. The ball part inside has an air hole. She rode herself to orgasm, then got me off and collected it in a shot glass.

She put a small plastic funnel into the air hole, and poured it down.

The whole thing turned me on up to the minute that I came. I pleaded with her using my eyes, and trying to say I changed my mind, but down she poured it.

Now... the rule is simple. I am to do it without question, or the next period of denial is doubled. Considering I am going on 6 months right now... at the end when I can cum that would mean if I don't consume it, I'm looking at a minimum of a year... With large numbers like that, It makes it easier for me to make myself do it. Part of me would much rather it be forced, doing it with your own self will is much harder.

very hot indeed.

But I still want to know that they will do it without force and because they are devoted. Big difference. I love the game of force but the reality is you can't really force anyone. You can create creative consequences for failing to please you

[Velo]

Yes, being expected to do it is definitely enough for me. It doesn't have to be in real time or in person or anything. If someone's ordered me to eat it once I cum, I will, even if they were addressing me as part of a group. I feel the strongest need to fulfill my end of the relationship and do what I'm told for her.

I guess it's mostly about whether or not it seems to matter at all to the person doing the ordering. A video of a woman telling me to eat cum, without having ever communicated more directly, is a lot less likely to make me follow through. There's just no connection

[Tobias23]

Hello,

I recently signed up for one of Goddess Natalie's ongoing control programs. While I do enjoy my new status as one of her slaves, the thought of having to eat my own cum did not appeal to me. In my previous relationships I always managed to talk myself out of that task.

The thought of being forced to eat my own cum turns me on. Hell, when I'm denied I even fantasize about having to give another men a blowjob and swallow his cum. So when I'm aroused and horny, it is easy for me to be submissive, feel submissive, and get turned on by a lot of kinky stuff. The problem starts after I had an orgasm ...

After I cum, the sexual energy and tension is gone. I don't feel very submissive for a while, and rather play a videogame, watch a movie or just go to sleep. The desire does come back, sometimes after 15 minutes, sometimes the next day. But right after an orgasm, I'm in a 'I don't want to' mood.

I know there are some 'cum whores' out there, I am certainly not one of them. To put it mildly, I don't like the taste. And I'm sure it would be easier to accept my fate, if I was bound and force-fed my cum through a funnel. It takes the decision out of my own hands.

But after getting permission to cum from Goddess Natalie, giving me one of the best orgasms I had this year, I sat there looking at that icky white substance. I wasn't physically bound or forced to, the decision was in my hands...

I made a commitment and I wanted to please her, so I gathered up all my strength and gulped down every last drop of that cum. It didn't taste good, it didn't arouse me. But I felt so god damn proud and pleased with myself doing it FOR her. It feels like I've taken another step in becoming a better submissive.

And it feels sooo good

humbly,
tobias

[CruelNatalie]

awwww how sweet! You sure did a great job and even took extra steps that I didn't require. Instead of cumming in your hand you use a condom to get it all. Very innovative! You make me want to spend time with you because you prove over and over how devoted you are. Great job!

[Madden]

CruelNatalie,

I used to fantasize about eating my own, or even better being forced to eat a creampie from my wife. Sadly Miss Kat is more like I guy than I am. After sex she tends to roll over and fall asleep, with all threats and promises made during the event forgotten. Once on my Birthday she did follow thru, by standing over me, grabbing the back of my head and making me lick her clean. I was totally into it, but she thought is was gross, and never wanted to try it again.

Many times while masturbating I would tell myself that I would eat it when finished, but I always talked myself out of doing so. That all changed when I found the “Feeling Bossy” recordings by Bellatrixe on “Literotica.com”: http://www.literotica.com/stories/membe ... ubmissions

These recordings changed my life, as I listened and played along, I found myself doing things I never imagined I would. The final recording talks you through masturbating into a cup and swallowing it. I did it several times. Later I found a similar recording by Mistress Alexandra “Forced Cum Eating”. It was almost natural to follow her commands.

I worked my way through the “Days of Denial with Amy” and “More Days of Denial with Amy” Where you tease, abuse, and humiliate yourself for 14 days. This leads to “Amy wants a Cocktail” where for a week you ruin at least two orgasms a day into a cup, and freeze the contents. Finally in “Having a Drink with Amy” you defrost the cup, while teasing yourself and drink up on her command. After swallowing 14 or more of your loads at one time, you really never think about cum the same way again. It now seems completely normal to swallow anything that drips of shoots out of my penis.

I am amazed by the different tastes of the pre-cum, and am convinced that semen from a ruined orgasm tastes better than that from a full blown one.

I haven't had an orgasm for almost 90 days now, and for some reason, I am hoping that when I am finally allowed release, that I don't have to eat this load. I'm afraid that it will be disgusting, but that is up to my Governess to decide.

Madden

[teasedalot]

i have a love and hate relationship with this topic, i love the idea, but until fairly recently hated to do it.

most of the time now my orgasms are ruined / severly minimised the goal is to be able to cum on command, without actually touching, so far i'm close but not there yet. i can manage to cum from squeezing or hitting my cock or balls and it needs to be such that the cum just oozes out

in that state i'm still mega horny, so it's absolutely no problem to eat it - the same goes for cum produced while being milked.

This video also really helped me - She's soooo sexy

http://xhamster.com/movies/1580816/cei.html

[CruelNatalie]

wow 90 days! I think that its great. Great job!