No cumming until my birthday

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No cumming until my birthday

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Hi :wave:
As the title suggest, I have decide not to cum until my birthday (my birthday is the 05/24, and i start the 04/24).
So i want to hold for 1 month and release all at my birthday.
I want to share this experience, so if you have suggestion about what i should do or shouldn't do, ideas if i succeed or fail, feel free to reply (i'm open minded and always ready to try new stuff) :-)

For now i have authorized myself to stroke and edge, with no particular limit execpt to cum of course


(sorry for my english, not my native language)
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Re: No cumming until my birthday

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Hmm...I quite like chance games so you could incorporate that into edging/stroking.

So I'll lay down a basic guideline that you can work off and make alterations to if you want.

Grab a deck of cards remove the jokers.

Every day you must select a random card:
  • Number cards give you a number of edges that you should complete in that day.
    Jackack, you must have a buttplug in your arse for at least 1 hour that day.
    Queen, you must hump a sofa/bed/pillow for 10 mins.
    King, you must stroke for at least 1 hour without edging.
    Ace, you can't touch yourself except for bodily functions & cleaning.
Give yourself 1 rest day a week.
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Re: No cumming until my birthday

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Mmmmm... happy unbirthday! I would love to see some photos of you locked up tight. :-)
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Re: No cumming until my birthday

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I can give you some ideas,

Are you looking for just tease, or do you like any aspects of BDSM?

Are you looking for a 100% chance of cumming on your birthday, or do you want a chance for denial?

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Re: No cumming until my birthday

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ullr :
good idea :smile: , maybe i will add different task for each suit

AliceInBondageLand :
sorry, i don't have a chastity device so no photos, maybe later (i'm planning to buy one soon ;-) )

Skrote :
tease is good, i don't have much experience with bdsm so only soft bdsm
my original goal is to cum on my birthday but i guess a chance of denial is a nice idea :blush:
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Re: No cumming until my birthday

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xublu wrote:ullr :
good idea :smile: , maybe i will add different task for each suit

AliceInBondageLand :
sorry, i don't have a chastity device so no photos, maybe later (i'm planning to buy one soon ;-) )

Skrote :
tease is good, i don't have much experience with bdsm so only soft bdsm
my original goal is to cum on my birthday but i guess a chance of denial is a nice idea :blush:
A chance to cum vs knowing you will come always makes it more interesting.

This will be a way to randomly determine how many times you will edge each day, and how many edges you will have to do on your birthday before you have a chance to cum. Of course, this is only for your consideration.

Every day, for every facebook notification you receive each day you do an edge. For every facebook message do 1 edge while looking through that persons photo album.

If you don't have facebook, do an edge for every time you get a phone call, and 2 for a text.

Now, for the birthday.

You know it is considered bad luck in some countries to get wished happy birthday before your birthday? For every happy birthday you get before your birthday (this forum excluded) keep track of it. Each on represents a 5% chance you get denied on your birthday.

The day of your birthday, edge one time for every birth day greeting you get. In person, Facebook, text etc. This is how many times you have to edge before rolling your percentile dice (you can use a virtual one online)

Here is your kicker... if you cum and you get ANY birthday wishes after that, it is 1 week of denial until you can cum again.

Another twist? Take a challenge to recycle your load. If you don't, the next day you have to post on your facebook a thank you to everyone who wished you happy birthday. This of course will bring it to the attention of everyone who forgot.

Hope this is tame enough. Feel free to change anything to make it work for you.
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