Online Sexual Encounters? discussion, best websites, etc...

[book_guy]

Hey y'all:

What's the best way to get casual sexual encounters with real partners? Especially, which online resources are best?

My characteristics: I love Milovana, and I love porn, of course. But I also love real sexual encounters. Maybe the internet can help? I live in a large urban area. I am an attractive (enough?), middle-aged, professional, Caucasian, heterosexual male, thus (a) rather mainstream and successful, thus desirable, but also (b) rather vanilla, boring, thus undesirable; and maybe (c) expected to pay for it. I don't want to pay for it, been there done that. Pay-for-play displeases me because the feeling isn't of sexual gratification in an emotional or mental sense. Rather, the feeling with pay-for-play is of sexual gratification in a physical sense only. I start to feel "used" or "taken advantage of," and really I can't afford to regularly patronize the pay-for-play scene since it's both expensive and generally illegal where I live. I would rather meet on Horny-Housewives-Dot-Com, than on Pay-Money-To-Strangers-Dot-Com. I may have one advantage in my relatively advanced age, since (I GUESS) I would be likely to find more of the older women as appealing, relative to what (I GUESS) other men would find.

So, best site? Best site reviews? Pitfalls? Potentials? Unasked questions I need to consider? Earlier threads at Milovana? I'd love to start a discussion about best resources, for my use, and also best resources for use by other types of people seeking partners.

This message is not a solicitation for sexual encounters with people who use the forums here at Milovana. Instead, this is a request for info, advice, and discussion.

[brewster]

Of course it depends on where you live, and if there's a large online community in your area, but I've had HUGE success on Craigslist casual encounters section. Both posting my own ads, and replying to female (and occasionally a twinky asian guy when I'm feeling freaky) ads. Just be real about what you expect, give your stats, share your picture, and happy fucking!

Also pof.com is great for casual sex, since it's such a superficial website in terms of dating. People only focus on pictures and skim over profiles like children in a candy store. I get so many more messages on POF than I do on OKCupid. Use a good profile pic! One showing your face, and one showing your body. Don't post dick pics.

Finally if you're willing to spend the money, there's "adult friend finder". I've had 2 ex girlfriends that have used that site with great success, and I loved hearing their stories about the casual hookups they had through it. Though generally from my experience in briefly using it for a month, there aren't very many attractive women on that site. If you're lucky, you'll find some early 20 something women exploring their sexuality.

[Danny16]

That was an absolutely epic answer

[book_guy]

Thanks for this info

Of course it depends on where you live, and if there's a large online community in your area, but I've had HUGE success on Craigslist casual encounters section. Both posting my own ads, and replying to female (and occasionally a twinky asian guy when I'm feeling freaky) ads. Just be real about what you expect, give your stats, share your picture, and happy fucking!

Also pof.com is great for casual sex, since it's such a superficial website in terms of dating. People only focus on pictures and skim over profiles like children in a candy store. I get so many more messages on POF than I do on OKCupid. Use a good profile pic! One showing your face, and one showing your body. Don't post dick pics.

Finally if you're willing to spend the money, there's "adult friend finder". I've had 2 ex girlfriends that have used that site with great success, and I loved hearing their stories about the casual hookups they had through it. Though generally from my experience in briefly using it for a month, there aren't very many attractive women on that site. If you're lucky, you'll find some early 20 something women exploring their sexuality.