Forced orgasms for men
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BlackmailedBitch
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Forced orgasms for men
A bit of advice if you would be so kind. I can ruin one and have several doing it with ruined orgasms but are their anymore exciting ways to acheive this i would love to learn as i tend to find i lose my hard on around number 3 and as i still enjoy it it cant be right from my understanding rather than no pleasure which is ruined orgasms the forced orgasms are supposed to be sensetive and really uncompfortable experiences and much more frustrating i would love to get advice on acheiving this anything would be helpfull i dont have toys but i can make stuff similiar i am quite inventive. Thanks in advance peeps.
Re: Forced orgasms for men
There is a physical limit to how many orgasms a guy can have in a given amount of time. I find that introducing a mental element of fear or feeling of guilt can make things interesting. It's also important to give fairly constant reminders that he has no control.
For example...if I tie a guy down, I might lower myself down and slide my pussy onto him and say, "go on...see if you can stop me from fucking you". The sensation of realizing that he's actually helpless to stop it will heighten his senses. I might follow that up by pulling my pussy off him and saying, "ahhh, you can't do anything about me *stopping* either, can you?"
Also, a guy always wants what he can't have more than what he knows he will get. Having an orgasm is no different. I find it's effective to shift his desires around a bit. I'll let him know that i'm going to make him cum. But i'll feed his desire for cumming one way in particular. For example, I might get on top of him and very very slowly and gently build his frustration up with my pussy while I hang my chest in front of his face and ask him questions.
"Do you like seeing my chest so close to you?"
"Are you imagining what it might feel like to have your cock inbetween my breasts? I'd make you nice and wet with my mouth first, I bet that would feel nice"
"Do you think it would feel nice to cum in my cleavage? You'd feel your semen ooze out all over my smooth skin, and get to watch it happen. You could chose to either stare into my eyes while I looked up at you, or gawk at my chest while you were letting it go all over my cleavage"
"I'll slip my bra straps off and give your eyes a hint of it...."
I might even lean over and let him slip one of his fingers inbetween my breasts, just for a moment. He'll remember that sensation, and want it for his cock.
...Then the key to forcing an orgasm is making it something that he doesn't want because he wants something better. I might take my cell phone out and say, "I'm going to set a timer on here for 5 minutes, and i'm going to stroke your cock for those 5 minutes. If you want to cum in my cleavage, it would be in your best interest to control your urges."
And while i'm stroking him, i'd make sure to talk the entire time about how nice an orgasm in my cleavage would be. I'd constantly remind him that my hand isn't as soft and that if he cums, he won't get to see it on my skin, and I won't wipe it off with his cock and lick him clean like I will if he can control his urges and wait. I'll also lean over and put my chest in front of him and ask him to try and put his lips against my nipples. This is another reminder that he's actually helpless and can't untie himself or stop me. He'll complain and ask me to slow down or stop. But I can't be negotiated with. He's in the situation, and it's up to him to deal with it. If he's that much of a slave to the sensations his cock feels, maybe he doesn't deserve to cum in my cleavage. If he can't control himself, maybe he'll have to learn to until he can have pleasure the way he wants it.
He'll loose himself and i'll force the orgasm on him with a handjob. He'll cum in my hand feeling defeated and let down that he wasted himself on something he wasn't desiring. This is one way to force an orgasm on a man.
Then you have to move onto other methods; the fear and guilt I mentioned earlier. You can use the same trick twice. For example, forcing a less desirable orgasm on him twice. If I wanted to be cruel, i'd set a metronome and untie one of his hands. I'd sit there and read a book while I forced him to stroke up and down to the tick of the metronome. If I saw him slow down, or not stroking hard enough, i'd walk over and slap him across the face and say, "do I need to give you a more potent reminder next time?". Not being able to hold back cumming by his own hand, when he knows he can have an orgasm inside me if he can just wait...that's a nice frustrating situation, and one i'd enjoy watching.
But I find it's more interesting to mix things up. I'd save that for another day and move onto fear...
If you want, I can go on to describe some methods of using fear and guilt to force an orgasm....which will achieve more than just the one forced situation.
-L
For example...if I tie a guy down, I might lower myself down and slide my pussy onto him and say, "go on...see if you can stop me from fucking you". The sensation of realizing that he's actually helpless to stop it will heighten his senses. I might follow that up by pulling my pussy off him and saying, "ahhh, you can't do anything about me *stopping* either, can you?"
Also, a guy always wants what he can't have more than what he knows he will get. Having an orgasm is no different. I find it's effective to shift his desires around a bit. I'll let him know that i'm going to make him cum. But i'll feed his desire for cumming one way in particular. For example, I might get on top of him and very very slowly and gently build his frustration up with my pussy while I hang my chest in front of his face and ask him questions.
"Do you like seeing my chest so close to you?"
"Are you imagining what it might feel like to have your cock inbetween my breasts? I'd make you nice and wet with my mouth first, I bet that would feel nice"
"Do you think it would feel nice to cum in my cleavage? You'd feel your semen ooze out all over my smooth skin, and get to watch it happen. You could chose to either stare into my eyes while I looked up at you, or gawk at my chest while you were letting it go all over my cleavage"
"I'll slip my bra straps off and give your eyes a hint of it...."
I might even lean over and let him slip one of his fingers inbetween my breasts, just for a moment. He'll remember that sensation, and want it for his cock.
...Then the key to forcing an orgasm is making it something that he doesn't want because he wants something better. I might take my cell phone out and say, "I'm going to set a timer on here for 5 minutes, and i'm going to stroke your cock for those 5 minutes. If you want to cum in my cleavage, it would be in your best interest to control your urges."
And while i'm stroking him, i'd make sure to talk the entire time about how nice an orgasm in my cleavage would be. I'd constantly remind him that my hand isn't as soft and that if he cums, he won't get to see it on my skin, and I won't wipe it off with his cock and lick him clean like I will if he can control his urges and wait. I'll also lean over and put my chest in front of him and ask him to try and put his lips against my nipples. This is another reminder that he's actually helpless and can't untie himself or stop me. He'll complain and ask me to slow down or stop. But I can't be negotiated with. He's in the situation, and it's up to him to deal with it. If he's that much of a slave to the sensations his cock feels, maybe he doesn't deserve to cum in my cleavage. If he can't control himself, maybe he'll have to learn to until he can have pleasure the way he wants it.
He'll loose himself and i'll force the orgasm on him with a handjob. He'll cum in my hand feeling defeated and let down that he wasted himself on something he wasn't desiring. This is one way to force an orgasm on a man.
Then you have to move onto other methods; the fear and guilt I mentioned earlier. You can use the same trick twice. For example, forcing a less desirable orgasm on him twice. If I wanted to be cruel, i'd set a metronome and untie one of his hands. I'd sit there and read a book while I forced him to stroke up and down to the tick of the metronome. If I saw him slow down, or not stroking hard enough, i'd walk over and slap him across the face and say, "do I need to give you a more potent reminder next time?". Not being able to hold back cumming by his own hand, when he knows he can have an orgasm inside me if he can just wait...that's a nice frustrating situation, and one i'd enjoy watching.
But I find it's more interesting to mix things up. I'd save that for another day and move onto fear...
If you want, I can go on to describe some methods of using fear and guilt to force an orgasm....which will achieve more than just the one forced situation.
-L
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Re: Forced orgasms for men
Thankyou Lindsey yes if you do have time i would truly appreciate it if you could expand on this. Any and all information is a valuable commodity and i am somewhat enjoying the way you explain things. :) In many situations i love having knowlagde to please or advise others and give them what they need not always what they want. Thankyou so much for your detailed reply
it has certainly inspired thought. I appreciate you taking time out of your day to help a dumbass loser so thankyou :)
it has certainly inspired thought. I appreciate you taking time out of your day to help a dumbass loser so thankyou :)
Re: Forced orgasms for men
I have two things to say:
1) you probably can't do it to yourself properly. The best bet is to have some kind of a fucking machine on you, because I, personally, just can't force my hand to stroke after I orgasm, because my cock is very sore. It's as impossible as shoving your hand into a fire - my body just doesnt do it. So you'll need some kind of external help, weather by a machine or...
2) the best bet is to find someone who does it for you. A girlfriend? If explained properly, most girlfriends will help if not in tying you up, then in stroking it for you after you cum. Tell her you saw this idea on the net and can't stop thinking about it. If your girl is classical-oriented, don't put any femdom/D&S/submission stuff in your suggestion - just say you wanna try the feeling and you know it's probably a bit frustrating in the process, so you might try to ask her to stop, but she shouldn't because you also heard it's a good experience in the end of the day =). Or if you don't have a girlfriend...
3) find one. Or your best bet is a prostitute. She'll go with whatever you ask of her. That last one is entirely up to your morals though, I personally don't like that option, but it's still an option for some.
1) you probably can't do it to yourself properly. The best bet is to have some kind of a fucking machine on you, because I, personally, just can't force my hand to stroke after I orgasm, because my cock is very sore. It's as impossible as shoving your hand into a fire - my body just doesnt do it. So you'll need some kind of external help, weather by a machine or...
2) the best bet is to find someone who does it for you. A girlfriend? If explained properly, most girlfriends will help if not in tying you up, then in stroking it for you after you cum. Tell her you saw this idea on the net and can't stop thinking about it. If your girl is classical-oriented, don't put any femdom/D&S/submission stuff in your suggestion - just say you wanna try the feeling and you know it's probably a bit frustrating in the process, so you might try to ask her to stop, but she shouldn't because you also heard it's a good experience in the end of the day =). Or if you don't have a girlfriend...
3) find one. Or your best bet is a prostitute. She'll go with whatever you ask of her. That last one is entirely up to your morals though, I personally don't like that option, but it's still an option for some.
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Re: Forced orgasms for men
I once had a girl who had teased me relentlessly online convince me to make myself cum multiple times in a single day. She had teased me for weeks and I was very desperate and pent up. I was begging her to let me cum...and she finally said that she would allow it, but only if I could cum 5 times within a single day. I have actually done 3 times before before I kind of lost interest in sex...but I figured I could power through and do two more.
She did let me space them out throughout the day, but it was extremely challenging to get those last two orgasms done. She threatened to never speak to me again if I didn't finish the last two though. There was no semen at all in the last two orgasms...the orgasm itself was a furious fist pumping build up. Never have I ever pumped so hard for so little. She encouraged me the entire time, which is honestly the only reason I was able to do it.
When I was done she told me how proud she was and then started teasing me again for weeks on end. I thought twice about begging to cum from then on though.
She did let me space them out throughout the day, but it was extremely challenging to get those last two orgasms done. She threatened to never speak to me again if I didn't finish the last two though. There was no semen at all in the last two orgasms...the orgasm itself was a furious fist pumping build up. Never have I ever pumped so hard for so little. She encouraged me the entire time, which is honestly the only reason I was able to do it.
When I was done she told me how proud she was and then started teasing me again for weeks on end. I thought twice about begging to cum from then on though.
Re: Forced orgasms for men
wonderbo wrote:I once had a girl who had teased me relentlessly online convince me to make myself cum multiple times in a single day. She had teased me for weeks and I was very desperate and pent up. I was begging her to let me cum...and she finally said that she would allow it, but only if I could cum 5 times within a single day. I have actually done 3 times before before I kind of lost interest in sex...but I figured I could power through and do two more.
She did let me space them out throughout the day, but it was extremely challenging to get those last two orgasms done. She threatened to never speak to me again if I didn't finish the last two though. There was no semen at all in the last two orgasms...the orgasm itself was a furious fist pumping build up. Never have I ever pumped so hard for so little. She encouraged me the entire time, which is honestly the only reason I was able to do it.
When I was done she told me how proud she was and then started teasing me again for weeks on end. I thought twice about begging to cum from then on though.
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