So I bought this ridiculous butt plug a little while back (9.75inch circumference) because I was being dommed by this woman. Long story short, I couldn't keep up with her because I had school and work so we had to part ways (I really wish we didn't) so I wasn't ever able to use it. Now I really REALLY want to pop it in, but for the life of me I can't expand my ass enough. I have 3 other plugs, smallest being 5.25inch circumference, then 7.25inch circumference, and one inflatable plug which I've gotten to like 22 pumps in my ass and then pulled it out. I also have a dildo that's probably like 4.7inch circumference.
So I've tried what feels like everything to try to stretch my ass before trying the big one. I generally start with the small plug, move up to the big, maybe fuck my ass for a while with the dildo, then I'll change to the inflatable and slowly inflate 2 pumps at a time, then pull it out and deflate it (maxing out generally around 20 because I don't want it to explode inside me). After all of this, I get a fantastic gape and it really turns me on, but then I try to squat over the big plug and I just can't get it in. I've tried going super slowly, lowering my ass just a little at a time. I've tried laying on my side or back, and trying to shove it in with my hand...I don't know what else to do!!
So I'm just curious if anyone has tips or tricks or maybe a suggested item for me to buy as a bridge or whatever! I've also attached a picture of all of my anal toys for you guys to look at.
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Gaping and expanding your ass hole
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Re: Gaping and expanding your ass hole
Wear your plugs smallest to largest, for extended periods of time. Like a day each. Only remove them to go to the bathroom or swap them out. You may also want to buy some larger plugs to ease the transition. Oh, and some diapers, for afterward.
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Re: Gaping and expanding your ass hole
This may not sound right, but sometimes if you push out...like you're trying to go to the bathroom.... while you push the plug in you...it has helped me.
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Re: Gaping and expanding your ass hole
This is generally what I do when I'm pulling out the inflatable plug so I can keep my gape, I'll try it again while inserting the larger one.eric91478 wrote:This may not sound right, but sometimes if you push out...like you're trying to go to the bathroom.... while you push the plug in you...it has helped me.
I'll try keeping the large one in during the day. The medium one I've done during the day before for like 10 hours at a time, and I think once for even like 23 hours in a day, but that's been a while. Thanks for the advice fellas.
If anyone has any specific toys or recommendations for toys that would cool too. I like expanding my anal toy set!
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Re: Gaping and expanding your ass hole
The truly big plus sometimes need to be at a different angle. My friend built a "stand" to hold his up for solo insertion and he calls it "the rocket launcher".
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Re: Gaping and expanding your ass hole
just be sure to do ass kegels. lol I'm serious! There is plenty of information out there:
http://urology.ucla.edu/workfiles/Prost ... or_Men.pdf
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In addition to the health benefits (especially if you're abusing the ass) but you'll also be able to enhance sensation. Try peeing with a small plug inside then stopping halfway. It's actually a great exercise.
http://urology.ucla.edu/workfiles/Prost ... or_Men.pdf
Search - sphincter kegel exercises
In addition to the health benefits (especially if you're abusing the ass) but you'll also be able to enhance sensation. Try peeing with a small plug inside then stopping halfway. It's actually a great exercise.
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