How to make her want more orgasms?

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sorryboy
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How to make her want more orgasms?

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So, my mistress likes to deny me orgasms and usually all of them are ruined. Quite fun. But one thing I'd like to have happen..
At the moment she says she'd like to have equal or LESS orgasms than I have, which I found quite odd as she is not submissive whatsoever, and with me being denied..

Is there any way I could help her/get her to want more orgasms?

I find it really hot, the thought of licking her to orgasm very frequently whilst I get none. She also likes me to have 2 orgasms (Usually an hour or two apart) instead of one when it's cum day, she says I have no say in the matter and she wants a second one from me, which is at the same time hot and not in my opinion XD Hopefully less orgasms for me.
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Re: How to make her want more orgasms?

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Anyone?
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Re: How to make her want more orgasms?

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Try posting this to Reddit on /r/BDSMcommunity or /r/femdomcommunity, I feel they would have pretty insightful responses if you're not finding any here.
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Re: How to make her want more orgasms?

Post by akds1337 »

From my perspective, it almost sounds like she's a switch, but doesn't want YOU to control her, she just wants to deny herself.

I think your best option is to offer her oral and when she says she doesn't want to cum you reply with something along the lines of "Just use me to feel good then, you can stop me before you cum, but after you get to ride my face/ grab my hair and force me to eat you/whatever sounds good to her"

She get's to dominate you, you get to be dominated, she gets denied her orgasm if she really wants that OR you do a good enough job and she cums.
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