Girlfriend Here Looking for Domination Suggestions

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TheGirlfriend
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Girlfriend Here Looking for Domination Suggestions

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Hi everyone :wave: ,

My boyfriend visits Milovana every once in a while for his fantasies so I wanted to ask the members here for some help (I have no idea what his user name is & hopefully he doesn’t see this post). In the past he has picked a flash tease and asked me to play the part of some of the doms which has been extremely fun! Now, I want to surprise him with a 24-48 hour tease by me, using Milovana teases as a base. Essentially, my goal is to have a plan of different teases to perform on him at specific times along with other tasks through the time frame. I have no idea where to start as I am not too familiar with Milovana's site and I am not creative when it comes to this type of stuff.

I like the concept of using flash teases (what we have done before when he asked me to play the dom) because they are more structured but I am opening to anything. I am aware that he enjoys bondage, teasing, and cbt but I don’t think he likes anything else. I would give him a full release at the conclusion of my tease but other releases could be done throughout the 1-2 day tease.

I am open to ALL suggestions, including trying additional fetishes (nothing too crazy as I don’t want to push him). Please let me know if you can recommend any teases to use during this or just have some advice. I would essentially like to plan a schedule and run his life during it, so please let me know if you have any ideas. I don’t plan on performing this for 1-2 weeks as I want to make sure everything is all set.

Please let me know if anyone has any questions! Thank you so much everyone :-) !
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My suggestion would be to read through some flash teases and pick out the concepts and kinks that you and you boyfriend will enjoy. Then make your own plan to tease him without using the teases. This will make it feel so much more real and will give you a little more control over the situation.

If the tease is going to be lasting over 24 hours it will be good to have built in times where it gives you a chance to catch your breath and check your plan without him realising you are doing it. So eg send him off to do a Bunch of edges. Or blindfold him and tie him up while you get a cup of tea and look through your ideas.




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Try something from Decker's teases
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