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I think guys are just very disappointed when they find out it's a male *afterwards*.

I guess some of them wouldn't be bothered by it, as long as they know it *beforehand*. Then it would be a very innocent fantasy. Now some guys might experience it as some sort of scam and betrayal of their trust.

Not wanting to sound harsh, but that's just my view on the topic and I think a lot of guys feel this way. So I'm definitely not blaming you for living your fantasy or creating one for others, but they might be disillusionated now.
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Kenneth wrote:I think guys are just very disappointed when they find out it's a male *afterwards*.

I guess some of them wouldn't be bothered by it, as long as they know it *beforehand*. Then it would be a very innocent fantasy. Now some guys might experience it as some sort of scam and betrayal of their trust.

Not wanting to sound harsh, but that's just my view on the topic and I think a lot of guys feel this way. So I'm definitely not blaming you for living your fantasy or creating one for others, but they might be disillusionated now.

Everyone should realize that anyone they meet online could very well be a highly evolved alien frog and then they wouldn't be so disappointed.
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Let me be the first to say "Well done Princess Kylie" and thanks for trying to bring the dream alive for those of us who wanted to believe. I wasn't one of those who have spoken to you, but thank you for your effort.
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angusobrian wrote: Everyone should realize that anyone they meet online could very well be a highly evolved alien frog and then they wouldn't be so disappointed.
Quoted for truth.
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I always found Princess Kylie fun on the sdly very few times we met in chat.

Can't ask for more than that.

As for the Internet, I love the fact that noboby knows you are a bitch. :lol:
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So funny that Kylie would mention the suspension of belief - ever since this thread was started, I've been thinking, "Who the hell is the idiot that has to know the truth?" Seriously - the people that are so pissed off right now must truly hate Star Wars, Star Trek, Indiana Jones, and every other freaking movie I can think of, because believe it or not - those things are not reality. If you truly believe that everyone you meet on the internet is truly who they say they are, then I've got a bridge in Brooklyn I'd be willing to sell you.

Here's another one for you - I am actually Ms. Laurie, for those who have encountered me in the chat room. The fellas that have jacked off to Laurie haven't complained too much. I only did her because there was NOTHING else going on in there. And it was hilarious - although I would be logged in as bankingmark (and nothing going on in the chat room), as soon as I logged in as "Ms. Laurie", suddenly the chat room became alive. Guys put on panties, licked their pre-cum, and basically anything I said. Why? It's called suspension of belief. If you don't want to do that, then you better get off the damn computer and go hit a club - pretty sure you'll meet reality there . . . and go home alone.

Sorry - just ticked that some people had to get in the way of some great fun . . .
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You can't take anyone at face value online. No matter what. Everyone knows the score so I don't know why anyone would get uptight about this.

Kylie was hot in the chatroom so who cares? I dont. And I would welcome her/him/alien frog being back on the chatroom anytime.
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bankingmark wrote: Here's another one for you - I am actually Ms. Laurie, for those who have encountered me in the chat room. The fellas that have jacked off to Laurie haven't complained too much. I only did her because there was NOTHING else going on in there. And it was hilarious - although I would be logged in as bankingmark (and nothing going on in the chat room), as soon as I logged in as "Ms. Laurie", suddenly the chat room became alive. Guys put on panties, licked their pre-cum, and basically anything I said. Why? It's called suspension of belief. If you don't want to do that, then you better get off the damn computer and go hit a club - pretty sure you'll meet reality there . . . and go home alone.

Sorry - just ticked that some people had to get in the way of some great fun . . .

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I feel sorry for you that your self esteem is so low that you already decide before you walk in the club your leaving alone.
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Post by Mz_Teneale »

Honestly, i dont know what to say to all this.

I dont go into a chat room expecting all women to be men and visa versa. But it still catches me off guard somehow when i find out the truth. Truthfully, i cant say i approve of it. I just find it offensive to women in general, because, something that you might say, may or may not alter the views someone else has about women and so fourth. But my opinion doesnt dictate what goes on etc etc. Of the guys who have posted here, most of them dont seem to mind.

On one hand, yknow i dont see the harm, as most of the teases here are created by men, for men. So, what happened is just a little 'evolution' from that i guess. But, i can see where people get offended. Me being one of them. Although its the internet, i still somewhat trust the people i meet, and when someone says they are not actually who they claim to be... well.

So either way.. Do what you want. If you want to pretend your a girl, pretend away. Whether it be to live out fantasies you may have, or to generally 'give back' something to the community. Just, when people get upset or a topic like this gets started, just take the blame on the chin because it was pretty much comming to you when you decieve other people. On the internet or otherwise.
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Post by Timshel »

This whole debate just makes me chuckle....

As long as someone isn't pushing the game into reality and just leaving it as internet chat. Who cares?

I can understand people kinda feel lied too, but at the same time what if someone acted sexual to everyone and didn't say if they were male or female? Are they misrepresenting themselves because they don't address the situation?

Why so serious?
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Interesting...why does work always keep my busy when things like that come up???

It´s a matter of fact that most people here are coming to this site because here they can be what they cannot in real life.
Some here lie to their wifes/husbands...some simply "stretch" the truth and some just keep their mouths shut about this.

For me I honestly don´t care wether the person I speak to is male,female, a politician or a bagger, doctor or prostitute... for me it´s all about the character I am writing with.
May that be Kylie, Hogtied, Dark or whoever I am talking with.

If he/she/it gives me a pleasurable time, then hell I will be the last to ask for his/her gender, age, location, copy of his/her passport , pictures, cam etc...

just my 2 cents

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Perhaps the easiest solution could be some indicator that it is just someone who wants to make you believe?

A small sign at the end of the name, eg an asterix?

That way, those who want to believe, can easily do so; while others wouldn't get disillusioned
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Kenneth wrote:Perhaps the easiest solution could be some indicator that it is just someone who wants to make you believe?

A small sign at the end of the name, eg an asterix?

That way, those who want to believe, can easily do so; while others wouldn't get disillusioned
Because that completely destroys the point, nobody would willingly wear said asterisk. :yes:
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TheGraduate wrote:
Because that completely destroys the point, nobody would willingly wear said asterisk. :yes:
True, but on the other hand it wouldn't destroy the experience of those who do not want to believe ;-)
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