How to create a Dominant female

[skrote]

If you cannot learn to love it, then eventually you may grow to resent him. The relationship will suffer.

You did say you liked to see him squirm, so if you don't want to call it quits, focus in on that, and try to expand on it. However, I would caution you from allowing him to top from the bottom.

If he is truly submissive vs. Selfish, your needs would come before his own. Consider Chasity, invest in a good device (mature metal devices are nice, but pricey) True Chastity may mellow him out a bit.

At the end of the day, Love him or not, if you cannot find a balance that will make you both happy it may be hard to make the relationship work.

~Skrote