Hello All!

[Fataski]

I've been a lurker here for many months, and decided to post for once, and hopefully not the last time. I discovered this site through wikipedia's entry on online web teases. I was originally in search of some form of online Mistress, just for a little fun for myself. Lo and behold, there's an amazing site with hundreds of Mistresses just waiting to tease me!

I enjoy reading through so many of these teases, almost all of which are very well written. I don't always follow the instructions, but I do enjoy reading them nonetheless. I did have a couple questions that maybe some of the more experienced could shed some light on.

1. What is edging supposed to feel like? When instructed to edge I usually get to the point where I am almost about to ejaculate and then I stop. Is it supposed to be painful? Frustrating? For me it usually feels like a mini orgasm, but I'm still hard and haven't ejaculated yet. Am I possibly stopping too late, or early? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2. Ruined Orgasms. What is the best way to go about ruining an orgasm? Usually when I follow the instructions I still get the tingly feeling and euphoria of an orgasm. I usually feel a need to further stimulate myself, but don't, so I can try and achieve a ruined orgasm. I still feel some sort of orgasm though, almost like a half one or so.

Once again, any hel would be greatly appreciated.

-Fataski

[all2true]

I will answer a bit on edging
As you build towards orgasm you use your
musles to stop yourself from going over

A good way to pratice is while urinating
go pee and stop the stream
hold it
and then allow yourself to finish

You use the same musles for Edging
and a similar techinique
Instead of urine, you hold back your sperm
Hold it a bit longer, though, usually mistress request you
not to drip, if your really good at it you can control just a few drops out

As for a ruined orgasm
it's kind of like edging exept you Don't stop
instead of holding your musles
you allow yourself to spunk
but without touching!
There is something about those last few strokes just as you feel yourself cumming
and you stop physical contact, just then! (timing is critical)
VERY frustrating
ulike edging there is nothing else that 'feels' the same
so its up to you if you want to expierence it.