tips

[dave77]

anyone have any tips for having sex with a girl, I recently met a girl only iv not had much experience with girls, iv had no complaints but just feel im not doing it tight lol. any help would be appreciated thanks.

[Nezhul]

1) Don't rush it, when you comes to it. you have all the times in the world to enjoy it.
2) Don't get discouraged because most probably you ARE going to cum fast. It's OK to explain it to her that she turnes you on just TOO MUCH and that you can go at it again in 5 minutes, and lick her pussy in between. Or make any other thing, just don't get discouraged - it's completely normal the first time. Second time will probably be much longer just due to how mens body works. Don't be shy to tell her it's your first time too - in fact it gets most girls excited.
3) Definitely use condoms. If you are not shure when it may happen - just have one with you all the time.
4) Don't be too eager to make sex. You'll know when she's ready. And you can wait.
5) To last longer though I'll give you few tips that you don't often hear:
- Breathe deeply and slowly. Slow deep breathing signals relaxation to your mind. During sex your breathing naturally becomes faster and that boosts anxiety and makes you cum faster. If you take note to consciously control it - it'll be easy to last longer.
- Relax your PC muscles if you can. When you get close to orgasm they accumulate tension naturally. You will have very hard time reaching orgasm if PC muscles are completely relaxed - body just don't cum when they are relaxed. Do PC muscle training regularily to get more control, and eventually you can fuck for hours on end.
- Don't pay too much attention on how good it feels in your cock. Just enjoy what you are seeing, how good she is looking, how great is her hair, how good she smells. BUT it's good to keep your mind from over thinking it. Thoughts like "OMG her pussy is so wet... OMG she's so horny her pussy is creamy!! OMG!!!" will get you there way too soon. It's generally better to just enjoy what you are seeing naturally, and thought process like "Mmm... Mmm~~ so nice. Oh yea... Mmmm...." is preferred ) Don't get too focused on the things is what I'm telling you. If something turns you on too much,just try to focus your attention on something else which is enjoyable but not as much. Like her breasts. Or her skin. Her face...
- If you can take a few minutes - great. Don't get to the edge though. It's better to stop on the arousal level of about 7 out of ten, and switch positions. Take some time to rest during that. Don't just stick it in right away, but don't be boring. Take time to have a nice kissing, or maybe stroking her pussy with your hand. Take a minute break, after that you can go for several more minutes.

[vladimir_bz_lion]

Second Nezhul and want to add a few simple rules to help strengthened her desire:
1) touch her as slowly as possible. There's a chance for you too slow, for her it is fast. Slowly kiss her. Slowly
move your hands as if you're underwater. But when she asks you go faster - do it.
2) No sudden movements. Move with the same speed, but moving forward.
3) Use your hands, lips and tongue in each area of her body for excluding breast and vagina. Leave this field last. On sweet. Let her pulls your arms to these places.
4) Talk to her. Women love to talk about and describe their sensation. If you not sure if she likes what you doing ask questions like: "Do you feel good?" Or, "You like it, When I Do This? "They are great for bringing her verbal activity. Try to talk dirty (careful!) or romantic. Women give birth to the word. Use it!
5) When is the peak point, you can take break to change position or eat her pussy, play with sextoys etc.
6) Talk to her, caress her body after sex. Most girls love aftercare, a lot of them even more then sex.
7) Be caring and gentle lover, but strong and confident man at all!

[dave77]

thanks people that's reli helpful, its not exactly my 1st time but I have little experience, im not reli sure im thrusting properly when im on top of her etc, also another thing is I would say I have a huge cock, however I struggle to put on a condom, im not sure if its bad technique or something else but it seems like my cock is too thick as I struggle to unroll them past the head.

[Nezhul]

Try to talk dirty (careful!)

I'd say not on the first try definitely. Only when you are sure she likes that.

im not reli sure im thrusting properly when im on top of her etc

I don't think there's some way to go wrong at that. If it moves in and out - you are good. =) Watch porn if you are not sure. Be wary though that in some (most) porn actors have to position themselves so the pussy is visible. You - just thrust. Your body knows how it's done by default. Just do it the way most comfortable for you. Don't forget to let her ride you too! Also all the positions when the girl is riding you are less arousing (or should I say stimulating?) and are good to take a breather.
Or explain what you think is wrong.

however I struggle to put on a condom

There should be bigger sized condoms. If you are having problems with those, well... congratulations.

[dave77]

well im not really sure if I should be thrusting or grinding, and wen I do thrust it just feels awkward if you get what I mean, lol im not sure if it is my size I could just have aweful technique lol but they do feel tight and hard to unroll

[vladimir_bz_lion]

Try to talk dirty (careful!)

I'd say not on the first try definitely. Only when you are sure she likes that.

This is quite true.

At first, do not rush. Rub your cock head on her labia, found the entrance to the vagina, enter slowly, per several frictions. This is normal. Even good if you're a little tease her with incomplete penetration.

Maximum contact with the walls of her vagina, and long deep flowing frictions usually work well. Much depends on the girl's preferences. Usually a good idea to massage the front or back side of her vagina. But this - aerobatics, not for beginners.

Ask her if she feels OK, or better "How you like it, baby?" while fucking. Maybe she says something useful. Try to use another positions: man from behind or girl-on-top style. The first option is more convenient, and in the second case the initiative passes to girl, also you can not to finish longer. The only advantage of the missionary position is eye contact.

Buy extra large condoms and practice to put them on. Try on a few different sizes, styles. They should hold tightly to not slide off during sex.

[dave77]

thanks for help guys, ill look forward to trying it ;)