A message to the lurkers. ;)

[unclephil]

I've been a member for ages but never really plucked up the courage to get involved. Tease and denial has always been a huge fantasy of mine but I don't really have any first hand experience so didn't think my opinion would be welcomed. However recently I've been reading Lindsay's posts and they have got me SO hot that I just had to get involved, see what I've been missing. So thank you Lindsay, I'm sure I'll have much more fun on Milovana from now on.
Phil

[pslion24]

Well I have wanted to start joining into the conversations around here. I can't think of a better reason to start. Thanks Lindsey!

Fantastic. Thanks for joining us and saying hello. What's your favorite article of clothing in a girl's wardrobe and why?

-L

I'm not really even sure why because I am not much of a foot guy at all, but I love girls in stockings or socks. I just love the way a girl looks when she is in socks or stockings, my guess would be because of the way it kind of highlights the legs. Also I guess because it makes it seem like the girl is comfortable and not trying to hard, but still looks good. That is a pretty big turn on to me.

[DavidF]

A girl in plain, normal stockings looks hot. It's just casual, yet so erotic at the same time.

There's my post to make me less of a lurker!

[Lindsey]

I've been a member for ages but never really plucked up the courage to get involved. Tease and denial has always been a huge fantasy of mine but I don't really have any first hand experience so didn't think my opinion would be welcomed. However recently I've been reading Lindsay's posts and they have got me SO hot that I just had to get involved, see what I've been missing. So thank you Lindsay, I'm sure I'll have much more fun on Milovana from now on.
Phil

No need for first hand experience to be helpful. Sex is vastly mental, so just the very act of fantasizing about things can affect you a lot. Good that you've decided to join us and come out from the shadows. ;)

Now...about getting you some first hand experience. ;) Any ladies you have an interest in?

I'm not really even sure why because I am not much of a foot guy at all, but I love girls in stockings or socks. I just love the way a girl looks when she is in socks or stockings, my guess would be because of the way it kind of highlights the legs. Also I guess because it makes it seem like the girl is comfortable and not trying to hard, but still looks good. That is a pretty big turn on to me.

No, that's a very valid answer. Not to mention, stockings and socks don't have to come off for sex. I rarely wind up taking my socks off. It's just the last thing on my mind really. ;)

Actually, my boyfriend (one of my ex's, actually) mentioned it to me once. "You never take your socks off for sex". ;) I agreed, and decided to have a little fun with him...sat him down in bed, sitting up with his back against the headboard. I sat on the opposite end of the bed, extended my leg, and pressed my foot up against his chest. At that point, I had nothing on but a pair of white cotton socks. I looked at him and said, "does that mean you want to see me naked?"...I started sliding my foot down towards his shaft. I slid right around it and gently pressed my foot inbetween his legs, forcing them open a bit. My other leg bent at the knee, I sat back and brushed my foot up and down, just barely rubbing the fabric on the underside of my foot back and forth against his shaft.

I teased him for a while like that, while locking eyes with him and talking dirty...ahem, I mean, *explaining* to him what I felt like doing. I gave him a little decision to make...He could take my socks off, but, he had to put one right over his cock, until I told him he could take it off. He agreed, and started to slip the sock off my right foot, which was pressing into his cock. I pulled it away, and said, "mmm...no, I decide which one. I want you to take the left one off first. Ask me nicely". After making him say please a few times, I slowly switched legs, and rotated my body a bit so I could press my left foot up against his cock. As he slid my sock off, I made sure I pressed a little hard into him and made it feel nice, so he'd have to pull my foot off him to get what he wanted. After he slipped the sock off my foot, I pointed down at his penis and said, "now...put it on there."

He did...I got up, and laid down on my back on the bed, and said, "now...come here", and positioned him on top of me. I opened my legs up, rubbed the soft skin on the underside of my feet on the back of his calves while he was over me, looked up at him and said, " go on...don't you want to fuck me right now?" I reached down and started fingering myself..."mmm, i'm all wet baby, don't you just want to slide it inside me? Awww, you can't...not until I decide you can slip that off your cock. Well, why don't you try anyways". I watched form below him and enjoyed the frustration on his face while he tried to press the tip of his cock inside me, his shaft almost completely numb to sensation from being covered by the fabric. I reached down and wrapped my hand around him and said, "awww, you poor thing, I bet you want to feel this on your bare shaft, don't you?" ...started stroking up and down a bit.

Eventually, I let him take it off and put himself inside me. But not before he had a good amount of torment. I digress...but yes, I suppose socks and stockings can be rather sexy. ;)

A girl in plain, normal stockings looks hot. It's just casual, yet so erotic at the same time.

There's my post to make me less of a lurker!

Thanks for joining us. I bet you wonder if a girl is wearing thighhighs or pantyhose when you look at her, don't you? ;)

-L

[unclephil]

I've been a member for ages but never really plucked up the courage to get involved. Tease and denial has always been a huge fantasy of mine but I don't really have any first hand experience so didn't think my opinion would be welcomed. However recently I've been reading Lindsay's posts and they have got me SO hot that I just had to get involved, see what I've been missing. So thank you Lindsay, I'm sure I'll have much more fun on Milovana from now on.
Phil

No need for first hand experience to be helpful. Sex is vastly mental, so just the very act of fantasizing about things can affect you a lot. Good that you've decided to join us and come out from the shadows. ;)

Now...about getting you some first hand experience. ;) Any ladies you have an interest in?

How do you mean Lindsay? on here? or in my"real" life? I'd love to try some tease and denial with my current girlfriend, but to be honest am a bit scared to bring it up.

[Lindsey]

How do you mean Lindsay? on here? or in my"real" life? I'd love to try some tease and denial with my current girlfriend, but to be honest am a bit scared to bring it up.

In real life, of course. ;)

If you're unsure how to go about things, i'd give you the same suggestions I made in this thread:
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=1940

-L

[Foxhawke]

Lindsey,

You should write a book of some sort. I'd love to have something lengthier to bring with me to bed. For reading, before sleeping, of course.

[Lindsey]

Lindsey,

You should write a book of some sort. I'd love to have something lengthier to bring with me to bed. For reading, before sleeping, of course.

A book? Like...a cookbook? An autobiography? ;)

-L

[duke_no_cum]

A book? Like...a cookbook? An autobiography? ;)

Hmm, starters, main course and desserts!

[cumhardy]

This thread really seems to have kicked off the boards again, now everyone is chatting!

[Timshel]

Now would people read the book or just look at the pictures and diagrams?

I've always thought that for the most part everyone out there is into Tease and Denial to some extent. I mean everyone flirts, don't they? Sure some people aren't very good at it, but that doesn't mean they don't do it. Tease and Denial is just taking the flirting and extending it...

You want your real life girlfriend to tease you? Flirt with her more. Do it when your out in public, so her only response is to flirt back, and just let it excalate...

Kinda makes me wanna hit a bar although its a bit early in the day...

[Marke]

Hi, magnificent thread Lindsey.

I don't think I'm a lurker (LOL and I've been called a wanker), but felt like posting anyway, but really just to say thanks.

I have met some wonderful people thru Milovana and that wouldn't have happened if I hadn't posted and contributed and joined chat etc etc.

What Lindsey says is true about this being a bit like kiss and tell. There's a bit of my relationships in all my teases and posts. Not all true, but, well, you'd be surpried what happens between couples sometimes. I know I am. I'm still reeling from the Prince Charles telephone converstion with Camila that was reported twenty years ago I think.

Oh, and there was a wonderful news item here in Oz. Is was on TV and sadly I can't find a link to it. But it was about there is now a rule that ladies attending the horse racing must wear panties. Without wishing to get off topic, just think what caused such a thing.

[subboytom]

Brown eyes are definitely the ones for me Ashe! Though green eyes are really cool; I dont think there is such a thing as piercing, bright green eyes, but they would be hot on a woman in charge. Great story by the way, that sounds like quite a night.
Can I ask, how old were you when you did this? 'Cause I'm 19 years old, and whilst of course 4 orgasms is eminently possible in a night (I once jacked off 10 times in a day, to see if I could - I was so sore), I reckon I'd be pretty thoroughly drained by the end of it.

[Andy]

Hi Lindsey,

Been meaning to step out the Lurkers shadow earlier lol...but been working. Im 20 and study genetics, so have something in common (ok not in physics maybe, but I do own a labcoat :P)

Suppose ive been into S&M and that for as far back as I can remember. Never really told anyone though...

Anyway, Hi and its good to know im not the only science geek whose mind isnt on this kind of shit when he should be paying attention to the boss

[Devon113]

Wow...it looks like we have a few new members. As promised, i'll definitely have some pleasant surprises at random, though not tonight i'm afraid. It will take me quite a while just to get around to replying to all of you to thank you. Don't worry though! Also, in addition to telling us about yourself, maybe we should have a topic. I think i'd be interested in hearing about the girl you've been with who gave you the best orgasms. Not who was the best in bed...who made it feel best when she made you cum. Tell me about her...what she used to do to you, what you liked about it, ect. I'm sure a few of you have some very hot stories. ;)

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First off...nonsense about worrying about anything you have to say being 'postworthy'. I for one enjoy hearing opinions, listening to people share experiences, or ask questions...regardless.

And you're welcome for the story. Feedback like that always gets me a bit turned on and is big encouragement for me to continue sharing things with people here. I expect others to have the same outlook. ;)

Tell me about a girl you've had a crush on that you felt guilty for being attracted to. Co-worker, friend's girlfriend or wife, ect...what do/did you like about her?

Phew, after mentioning the other thread I thought I might as well look for it again and - well I didn't realize it's grown to a bazillion pages by now oO As I think of myself as a pretty imaginative person great stories always do something for me, and the ones in "...I wonder if anyone is in the mood to play. ;) " sure ummm got my imagination going.