Hi,
I'd like to try to intorduce my wife to tease me (and why not also dominate me...)
Can u gime some advice ?
Can I show to her some webtease ?
pls help me.
T + D 4 Wife
Re: T + D 4 Wife
Some simple subtle hints may be enough to plant the seed in her head and see what she does with it.
Try something like;
""It's so sexy when I have to try and hold back having an orgasm until you do...I love the feeling of trying to hold it back until it's ok for me to cum"
"I love it when you pull yourself off me for a moment to reposition your body...it feels 10 times better when I get to feel myself inside you again after having to wait until you're ready"
"You were pretty aggressive last night, I think it's so sexy when you show me what you want and I want to please you and do it all before I let myself cum"
As far as getting her to be aggressive, be subtle. Get playful with her. When she touches a certain part of your body, push her hand away and tell her it's so sensitive that it's likely to make you cum inside her just from her touching you there. Eventually, she'll want to give you an orgasm, and instead of dealing with you pushing her hand away, she may just grab it and pin you down. Give her *huge* amounts of positive reinforcement when she treats a situation like that.
These may or may not work with girls, but they're little things i've done in the past to lead a guy to do something to me.
You can always simply talk to her, especially if you're open with one another. But i'm assuming you wouldn't be posting if you felt comfortable just bringing it up in conversation. I'm usually of the opinion that it's always more fun if something is unexpected anyways. It's the uncertainty of not knowing what the other person is thinking, and what they have in mind for you. You don't know if she's going to respond to subtle hints. But, IMO it would be *much* hotter for both if you that way, as opposed to just brining it out in the open in conversation, and you knowing what was going to take place...telling her what you want to have done to you and knowing what was going to happen already.
Just my thoughts.
-L
Try something like;
""It's so sexy when I have to try and hold back having an orgasm until you do...I love the feeling of trying to hold it back until it's ok for me to cum"
"I love it when you pull yourself off me for a moment to reposition your body...it feels 10 times better when I get to feel myself inside you again after having to wait until you're ready"
"You were pretty aggressive last night, I think it's so sexy when you show me what you want and I want to please you and do it all before I let myself cum"
As far as getting her to be aggressive, be subtle. Get playful with her. When she touches a certain part of your body, push her hand away and tell her it's so sensitive that it's likely to make you cum inside her just from her touching you there. Eventually, she'll want to give you an orgasm, and instead of dealing with you pushing her hand away, she may just grab it and pin you down. Give her *huge* amounts of positive reinforcement when she treats a situation like that.
These may or may not work with girls, but they're little things i've done in the past to lead a guy to do something to me.
You can always simply talk to her, especially if you're open with one another. But i'm assuming you wouldn't be posting if you felt comfortable just bringing it up in conversation. I'm usually of the opinion that it's always more fun if something is unexpected anyways. It's the uncertainty of not knowing what the other person is thinking, and what they have in mind for you. You don't know if she's going to respond to subtle hints. But, IMO it would be *much* hotter for both if you that way, as opposed to just brining it out in the open in conversation, and you knowing what was going to take place...telling her what you want to have done to you and knowing what was going to happen already.
Just my thoughts.
-L
Re: T + D 4 Wife
Thank you....
Do you think it is a bad idea to show her something naugthy (e.g. a webtease) ?
Do you think it is a bad idea to show her something naugthy (e.g. a webtease) ?
Re: T + D 4 Wife
I can't really answer that question for you. You know her personality better than I do. Use your best judgement as to what affect that will have on your sexual dynamic.bird wrote:Thank you....
Do you think it is a bad idea to show her something naugthy (e.g. a webtease) ?
I'm sure some others will come along with some input. With 101 views, surely *someone* has some advice to lend.
-L
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Re: T + D 4 Wife
First: How does our wife feel about porn?
If she is okay or even enjoys then it would be okay
If she doesn't then you have a lot of work ahead of you, be careful.
ALWAYS stress that you want to be open, honest
caring and loving.
As for denial, that's easy.
Deny yourself!
Do tantric Techniques
Like edging, but while having sex.
After her third orgasm
she might be more willing to listen to why you want to wait to Orgasm yourself.
Also do longer foreplay for her,
It's all about you dear...
Pamper her
Do the chores, dishes, ect.
After a week or two of this she will ask you what is up
and then you can share. (if you have not already)
Be sure to preface all conversations with:
Honey, I love you, and I feel I can trust you
with my innermost secreats, there is something I want to share with you....
If she is okay or even enjoys then it would be okay
If she doesn't then you have a lot of work ahead of you, be careful.
ALWAYS stress that you want to be open, honest
caring and loving.
As for denial, that's easy.
Deny yourself!
Do tantric Techniques
Like edging, but while having sex.
After her third orgasm
she might be more willing to listen to why you want to wait to Orgasm yourself.
Also do longer foreplay for her,
It's all about you dear...
Pamper her
Do the chores, dishes, ect.
After a week or two of this she will ask you what is up
and then you can share. (if you have not already)
Be sure to preface all conversations with:
Honey, I love you, and I feel I can trust you
with my innermost secreats, there is something I want to share with you....
to thine own self be true
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Re: T + D 4 Wife
You could start by asking her if she has any hidden fantasies... then tell her yours.
In my experience, coming right out with it and telling everything you want her to do to you could scare her... make her feel obligated to tease rather than just slowly introducing it into the bedroom and making it fun.
I dunno, I always seem to fall in love with vanilla girls that dont wanna experiment. Damn them for being so pretty! Other relationships might be different to mine and you could just come out with it and see what happens.
In my experience, coming right out with it and telling everything you want her to do to you could scare her... make her feel obligated to tease rather than just slowly introducing it into the bedroom and making it fun.
I dunno, I always seem to fall in love with vanilla girls that dont wanna experiment. Damn them for being so pretty! Other relationships might be different to mine and you could just come out with it and see what happens.
Re: T + D 4 Wife
well she get horny watching soft porn (no cocks nor fuck)....