I'd like some advice

[ohgod]

Hi, I'm new to chastity but I got my first device (cb6000) two days ago and was thrown right into the deep end.
As soon as we found the right fit me and my Mistress both agreed I should be locked in and to be kept in using carlilock. My problem is right now I'm getting friction burn along all of the base ring and I'm not aloud to unlock to change the U ring size right now so is there any way of being rid of this pain?

[Bandit224]

If you ever receive an injury from any bdsm activity, then stop the activity immediately. That being said, I would notify the mistress about the friction burns, and get a new mistress, if the old one doesn't want the chastity device taken off.

Second of all, never start at the deep end. A mistress should subject someone new to chastity to only a few hours, and then work up from there.

My advice, the mistress is a bad fit; take off the chastity device, and get yourself a new mistress.

If you can't take off the device and you want to stay with your old mistress, then constantly apply lube to the area between the base ring and your skin. That will at least reduce the degree of friction burns.

[vladimir_bz_lion]

I second to bandit. Physical damage is a valid reason to remove the chastity belt and take a break. Of course advisable to first notify your mistress, but if she does not agree to give you a break in such circumstances, it is a good reason to break off relations with her. And be more careful next time. For my sissy I increased wearing time of her cage, by only 1 hour per day, until she was not used and was able to wear the belt the whole day. Later increased by day and so on If you do not have access to the key - Cut locking pin with a pair of scissors. Later you will be able to order a new one. To lube the ring is useful idea too.

[ohgod]

Thank you both very much for the replies, the lube really did stop the pain. I haven't had a chance to ask about having the chastity belt removed yet but I can't physically take it off unless she lets me. I relise I didn't make that very clear there sorry!

[Banquo]

I can only echo what the others have said about starting small with a CB. The design of the Cb series is such that finding the right fit can take a while. What seems like a good comfortable ring and spacer can in fact be completely wrong. Too big too small etc. The best way is to test them, vary the spacer length and the ring size. And only for a few hours at first, try them over night etc. It takes time, but it is well worth the wait. Once you are happy I recommend using a long term lube to literally grease the ring. I use Vaseline because it's oil based and it's water proof. Something like KY dries off pretty quickly and will cause problems.

But permission or not, you should take the belt off now. I don't want to lecture anyone on being safe etc. But I know that the wrong fit can cause extreme discomfort and in some cases physical injury. You don't want to be in a position where your balls are so raw that they start to bleed. If that happens you won't be able to wear the belt for a good time while you heal.

Banquo

[DeniedEdger]

I agree with all of the above. I have used three different chastity cages over the years, and during the initial break-in period, until I am able to wear it at least a week with no discomfort, I am allowed a key for emergencies.
My second device never made it out of the break in period, as I could never wear it for even a day without intense pain even with modifications for comfort. Safety always should come first.