A message to the lurkers. ;)

[sopwath]

A post so that I'm not totally lurking here. I'm lucky to have a girlfriend who is really into keeping me waiting all week.

[urslaveboy4u]

I have been slowly working towards being more invovled in these forums, but I am still a little shy about all of this. Thank you for the post to encourage me to step out of my comfort zone.

[pjh776]

Hi!

I'm usually a lurker also... I've been around since the old days of OD.com, but I never write, dunno why. If you can read this, it was your post that made me write it and SEND it.

I think I don't post because I'm not an english native speaker, I'm a bit afraid of not being able to make the others understand what I want to say (strange sentence, huh?). Also, because I'm a bit shy about all this.

Maybe I will post a little intro about myself later!

[shyguy_1373]

Heya..

I've been on the verge of moving from lurker to poster for a while now - but your finely crafted post pushed me over the edge at last, so here I am ;)

Thanks for the last little bit of encouragement I needed!

[emerald]

Lindsey,

Thank you for being such a great part of this community. I post pretty infrequently, but in your honor, I'll look for more opportunities to post.

[Giant1]

To be perfectly honest...the only thing on the site i still check is your posts .

This reminds me of when Nikki drew out a ton of lurkers over at Inraptured by offering a video only to registered users who posted.

http://www.inraptured.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2177

And I've fallen for it again!

[zenlover]

I'm chuckling, Lindsey. Youve energized a thread that reads like a 12 step meeting. "Hi. My name is Zenlover, and I'm a Lurker. This is my first day not lurking." "Hi, Zenlover"

So. Do i / Should I post to every string I read? I'm not that wise that I really have so much useful to say. I've seen some strings that are full of post's at this quality: "I here ya" or "Ditto that" just so that people can get their post count high. Pitty all of us if we end up there.

Now, all of that being said, You, Lindsey, are a model of leadership. You are choosing to, in Gandi's words, "Be the change you wish to see in the world" by leading through example. And what a wonderful example you are in so many ways. So, I follow where you lead me. Dotingly.


Woman, I am growing to respect your mind and mental acuity. You are amazing!

Z

[z_k]

Would that I hadn't already signed up, so I had a chance to see more of you than that icon of yours.

[Lindsey]

Wow...it looks like we have a few new members. As promised, i'll definitely have some pleasant surprises at random, though not tonight i'm afraid. It will take me quite a while just to get around to replying to all of you to thank you. Don't worry though! Also, in addition to telling us about yourself, maybe we should have a topic. I think i'd be interested in hearing about the girl you've been with who gave you the best orgasms. Not who was the best in bed...who made it feel best when she made you cum. Tell me about her...what she used to do to you, what you liked about it, ect. I'm sure a few of you have some very hot stories. ;)

Incredible read. I am still pretty shy about posting on the forums here, but I had to reply to your message. It was a great read and I felt encouraged to post and get more involved. Thank you for taking the time to write your thoughts.

And thank *you* for taking the time to post. It only took you 8 months. ;) What is your favorite perfume that you've smelled on a girl and who was she?

And no need to be shy. The forums have been slow lately, and it's people like you that can liven things up. It's always the shy ones that have the best imaginations you know. I'm sure you're no exception. ;)

Thank you for the encouragment to get more involved.
-aaboy

You're more than welcome! What do you like better on a girl...short hair, long hair, pinned up, braided? Why?

hhehehe there's gna be a lot of horny guys :P

I don't have a problem with that...not at all. ;)

Well said, Lindsey! I was thinking along these lines the other day. Someway to get the forums more lively. I was thinking about a monthly poll and question about different fetishes or something.

And hey, don't forget about us boys that have been participating.

Most all the boys that participate are great people. I'm sure the ones that don't are as well...I'll have to think up some topics of discussion now that we seem to have some newfound friends. ;) And thank you for the kind words, BTW.

Wow, your words are always so well spoken.. Well I once was one of the people among the lurkers as well. Then I saw some posts from Lindsey, and couldn't help but want to join and post. Now here I am actually starting to post on the forums I never thought I would join to post here but thanks to Lindsey I do.. I can't even begin to say how amazing Lindsey is. Well anyhoo off I go..

~Chris

Flattery accepted. ;) And of course, feel free to say hello any time! ;)

Well I have wanted to start joining into the conversations around here. I can't think of a better reason to start. Thanks Lindsey!

Fantastic. Thanks for joining us and saying hello. What's your favorite article of clothing in a girl's wardrobe and why?

I'll be honest, Im often on here lurking without logging in. Mainly if I dont have time to read posts, and dont want them to be lost. I save loggin in for when I have time to read posts.

If I can ever get my head around how or what type of scenario I want to use I will make a webtease.

And I cant ever seem to get on at the right time to talk to you lindsey ;)

If you make a webtease, you let me know and i'll read it, and tell the forum whether or not it turned me on. ;)

I really appreciate all the effort some women here show(ed) to encourage other people to participate anf make this place to a better place. It's great that you girls are here

The Internet is full of people so called "lurkers". I am a lurker, too on other websites. Of course participating is always very appreciated and also very important to keep a website alive, but lurking is common on every site. A few people are the core, then comes another group of regular participants and the biggest part (70%-90%) are lurkers on every website based on the Web 2.0 spirit.

This is ok, because the sense of the Internet is mainly providing content for people who can use it free without conditions. So every lurker is very welcomed here But if some of the lurkers decide to participate it's even better. Thank you for the encouraging post Lindsey.

And I agree that we guys can benefit a lot from exchanging views about sexuality with women like Lindsey.

There are no negative sexual experiences. Even the ones that aren't enjoyable just tease you about what you don't prefer. The more you learn and share with others, the better you wind up being at sex. Seems like a simple situation to me. ;) And you're very welcome Dark, but no need for thanks. ;)

Great post Lindsey, as ever. I was once a lurker too, but once I took the steps to register and started posting it became fun. I don't post often, because I'm usually way behind everyone else is saying and don't really just want to repost what others have said.

Again, great post Lindsey!

Thanks! And thanks for participating.

Good post L!

This is my second post actually (edit: whoa, apparently it's my FIFTH post already! Go me!), even though I've been around since the good old orgasmdenial.com days (where I first discovered what sick perverted sexual practices I'm into ).

I guess I never thought anything really post-worthy tbh, so I didn't register until recently I came across this really cool tease where I just had to open a thread to say my thanks to the author!

By the way, now that I'm posting in one of your threads I might as well let you know that I found that story you shared in the "ask me anything-thread", the one with you being tied to the bedroom door, really, I mean REALLY hot! Gave me some nice ideas in case I come across a girl that might be into that! So thanks for that^^

D

First off...nonsense about worrying about anything you have to say being 'postworthy'. I for one enjoy hearing opinions, listening to people share experiences, or ask questions...regardless.

And you're welcome for the story. Feedback like that always gets me a bit turned on and is big encouragement for me to continue sharing things with people here. I expect others to have the same outlook. ;)

Tell me about a girl you've had a crush on that you felt guilty for being attracted to. Co-worker, friend's girlfriend or wife, ect...what do/did you like about her?

I'm a lurker on most forums I go on, that's just who I am, in the real world I'm usually quiet till I get to know people (unless I've had a few drinks, obviously...)

But, as y'all seem so keen on new members, I may aswell have a go....I'm Dave, I'm an English, alcoholic gambling addict, I've made enough playing poker to cover my losses in prop bets.....I don't post a lot because, the site has how ever many thousand members, I can almost guarantee atleast 10 of them have done everything I have, so they'll likely post it. And if they don't, it was never worth saying.

I dunno...looking back over that, it either wasn't worth saying, or didn't make sense...but, well...hi there

No...it was great to say. It was honest, to the point, and real. You're not hiding behind a facade. You *are*, however, selling yourself short. Even if people have had the same experiences as you, it doesn't mean they take the same things away from them...or are able to describe them in the same way. If you tried something amazing with a girl that someone else hasn't...maybe you're the kind of person to post something that makes a girl like me want to try it with my boyfriend, or vice versa. There's merit in anything you have to contribute.

What you do like better...when a girl is going down on you and keeping heavy eye contact? Or when she's so enthralled in sucking you off that she has her eyes closed and she's in her own little world of bliss? Why?

A post so that I'm not totally lurking here. I'm lucky to have a girlfriend who is really into keeping me waiting all week.

And she's lucky enough to have a guy that's open to new ideas and not too shy to share them with others. ;)

I have been slowly working towards being more invovled in these forums, but I am still a little shy about all of this. Thank you for the post to encourage me to step out of my comfort zone.

Thanks! No reason to be shy. I'll tell you a story. When I was in high school, I purposely failed a class because I was too shy to participate in the required oral presentation. ;)

If you could have sex with one girl from your everyday life right now, who would she be and why? Tell us about her.

Hi!
I'm usually a lurker also... I've been around since the old days of OD.com, but I never write, dunno why. If you can read this, it was your post that made me write it and SEND it.

I think I don't post because I'm not an english native speaker, I'm a bit afraid of not being able to make the others understand what I want to say (strange sentence, huh?). Also, because I'm a bit shy about all this.

Maybe I will post a little intro about myself later!

Aww...i'm flattered. I'm sure you have plenty of wicked ideas to share with us if you've been brainstorming for that long. ;) Your English is fine...I would've never noticed anything off about it.

Why don't you tell us the cruelest thing you could do to a girl to tease her if you had the chance. ...Something cruel that you'd do to *me*. ;)

Lindsey,

Thank you for being such a great part of this community. I post pretty infrequently, but in your honor, I'll look for more opportunities to post.

I think you should. Maybe not in my honor...but because I, and others would most likely be interested in hearing it.

To be perfectly honest...the only thing on the site i still check is your posts .

This reminds me of when Nikki drew out a ton of lurkers over at Inraptured by offering a video only to registered users who posted.

http://www.inraptured.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2177

And I've fallen for it again!

I like Nikki's style. ;) And you can read my posts any time. In fact, maybe you should reply to some. I'd love to hear any feedback you have.

In fact...why don't you tell us what is the hottest thing you've read on the forums and why. ;)

I'm chuckling, Lindsey. Youve energized a thread that reads like a 12 step meeting. "Hi. My name is Zenlover, and I'm a Lurker. This is my first day not lurking." "Hi, Zenlover"

So. Do i / Should I post to every string I read? I'm not that wise that I really have so much useful to say. I've seen some strings that are full of post's at this quality: "I here ya" or "Ditto that" just so that people can get their post count high. Pitty all of us if we end up there.

Now, all of that being said, You, Lindsey, are a model of leadership. You are choosing to, in Gandi's words, "Be the change you wish to see in the world" by leading through example. And what a wonderful example you are in so many ways. So, I follow where you lead me. Dotingly.


Woman, I am growing to respect your mind and mental acuity. You are amazing!

Z

I think you may be talking me up *just* a bit. But thanks for making me blush, regardless. ;)

I see you around plenty...but why don't you tell us...what colour eyes do you find most alluring?




Well, apologies for any typos, I went through this rather quickly, and it still took me quite a while. ;) Also, if you PM'ed me, i'm afraid I just don't have the time tonight to get to those. Give me a bit though, I promise I will!

Thanks to all, and I look forward to interacting with all of you!

-L

[Lindsey]

Oh...and for anyone who's curious as to why I touch myself with my non-dominant hand...

I suppose it's a habit that got carried over from touching myself while I give a guy a blowjob. I like to leave my good hand free to use in conjunction with my mouth. ;)

And for any of you not aware...fingering yourself to orgasm while you taste a guy getting pushed over the edge and cumming in your mouth...There aren't too many things that turn me on more than that. I suppose it's the combination of tasting him cum, and feeling his cock as it slides past my lips, in and out of my mouth, and having an orgasm at the same time that makes my knees shake and gets me moaning uncontrollably while he's thrusting in and out of my mouth. Sometimes I have to just grab him with my free hand and pull him into me nice and deep so I can feel his shaft press...oh, you don't need to hear the rest of that, do you? ;)

-L

[Makarov]

*isn't a lurker, but still sends Lindsey a friendly wave*

[Carlcjjohnson]

And hey, don't forget about us boys that have been participating.

Indeed!!

[Viridiano]

I'm a regular lurker in forums and It usually takes me year or two to register and participate. Reason for this is usually debate or some opinion that I feel compelled to refute.

But now after only few months of lurking in here I have decided to take the next step. This thread and the usual atmosphere in here has been a great encouragement. Apparently you really catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

[ben1214]

Hey there, just want to say very nice thread idea. It has gotten a lot of peoples attention already. Including myself. usually I just lurk on pretty much every forum I read as either 1) The community is poor or 2) All the threads are boring to post in. I have realcently been getting into being a sub more and more over the last few weeks and added to the fact that this forum seem to give a pretty decent community I have thought about posting. THis thread has inspired me to, so thanks.

Ben

[tanuk]

Oh...and for anyone who's curious as to why I touch myself with my non-dominant hand...

I suppose it's a habit that got carried over from touching myself while I give a guy a blowjob. I like to leave my good hand free to use in conjunction with my mouth. ;)
-L

No fair, I got told off for touching myself when I was going down on my Ex :) Mind you, i guess both of my hands are my non dominant hand.

I suppose i'm a registered lurker, often reading when i come home from work so not the best time to post. This is a great site though so anything people do to keep it running is great.

And for any of you not aware...fingering yourself to orgasm while you taste a guy getting pushed over the edge and cumming in your mouth...There aren't too many things that turn me on more than that. I suppose it's the combination of tasting him cum, and feeling his cock as it slides past my lips, in and out of my mouth, and having an orgasm at the same time that makes my knees shake and gets me moaning uncontrollably while he's thrusting in and out of my mouth. Sometimes I have to just grab him with my free hand and pull him into me nice and deep so I can feel his shaft press...oh, you don't need to hear the rest of that, do you? ;)

Doctor, doctor, can you do something about this swelling....