Hello- I've tried tease and denial with and without a mistress many times, and keep running into
the same problem...lack of sleep. I only sleep 4-5 hr's at night while sexually frustrated, and that's
not enough to allow me to function at work during the day. I've tried increased exercise, melatonin
tablets, herbal tea..all to no avail. I read male chastity increases "T" levels and even helps in weight
loss, but I can't seem to get past the 72 hr chaste period without the sleep issue. Any suggestions??
I get the same problem with my chastiy device in the night, buy a longer tube to sleep in or remove it in the night if it hurts then go back to sleep. Pui it back on in the morning.
Accept it as it is and talk to your mistress about it (when having one).
Real life comes first, teasing etc. is only the next thing.
Maybe you will be able to expand this time, but that will be trial and error and take a lot of time.
First get used to 2 days, then 2.5, 3, 3.5 etc.
Simple example:
I set a rule with my mistress about 4-5 days.
Not because I'm not getting enough sleep, but because the frustration then tends to go "global" instead of just sexual, which means I can't function either.
Then, although there's that rule, she often allows me to cum (long) before the end.
To me that's not as bad as it sounds, although it can be very frustrating when it's on the first day, but she never gives permission before I'm on the edge (so until then I think I have to stop there).
Besides that, she's able to get me horny as **** long before those 4 long days passed
williamportor wrote:I read male chastity increases "T" levels
sorry to be off-topic, but this statement is not true. avoiding orgasms or sexual intercourse does not increase your levels, it lowers them. sexual arousal on the other hand has an increasing effect.
since most guys here are into tease and denial and not just into denial, both effects level each other, but it is still wrong to claim chastity would raise testosterone levels.
williamportor wrote:I read male chastity increases "T" levels
sorry to be off-topic, but this statement is not true. avoiding orgasms or sexual intercourse does not increase your levels, it lowers them. sexual arousal on the other hand has an increasing effect.
since most guys here are into tease and denial and not just into denial, both effects level each other, but it is still wrong to claim chastity would raise testosterone levels.
There is a study done that concluded that testosterone increases on about the 7th day of going without an ejaculation. After that 7th day, it seems to usually drop back down to normal.
A lack of sleep sounds familiar. Try to find occupations that might break the 'mood' if you know what i mean. For me running helps, though i really have to look up the limit to surpress an overwhelming horny feeling.
Avoid any teasing or stimulation at least one hour before you actually go to bed. And as good as it gets, find a comfortable position to sleep or your sheets will come haunt your cock.
In my experience, it's worse when your cock is oozing from itself. When you feel becoming a leaking faucet, best to get up and wait for it to pass. Then go back to sleep.
Wish you all the zzzz of the world Williamportor! Good luck plugging the leak.
