Chastity Device Preference
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Chastity Device Preference
Hello to everyone out there. I'm interested in trying out some chastity, and wondering what kind of devices you guys out there like the best. Also, not sure how to measure myself when considering size of the chastity belt. Any and all helpful feedback is welcome!!
Re: Chastity Device Preference
Well, I'v only had experience with plastic CBXXXX series chastity devices. I own two. I'm an awful grower, my penis shrinks all the way to 2-3 cm (Especially when it's cold) and grows up to 16cm when erect. So here are the problems I'v had with plastic:
First thing to way - I can't really use fillers to extend the distance between the ring of CB and the tube. That is because when I shrink all the way I literally slip ot of my CB! So I have tu use minimal distance, and here's the problem with that: The gap between the ring and the tube gets so small that it basically squeezes the skin of my ballsack. Id does not seem to cut the flow of blood, but it's pretty uncomfortable, and I won't lie - I'm afraid to wear it like that at all times.
The other thing is cleaning. The tube has very VERY little orifices, so you can't really clean inside. And in my cace it gets dirty quick. You see, the peeing is a real problem. First, you have to work to align your peehole so it will point directly to the hole in CB. If you don't do it or do it wrong things may happen, such as the stream of pee hits the plastc of CB and splashes everywhere. It gets some practice to avoid those occasions.
Second, you (or at least I) can't really shake the leftovers of pee completely. Not only shaking itself is rather hard to do in CB, but also some pee remains inside of my urethra, and there seems to be nothing I can do about it. It basically leaks out some time later and remains inside of CB and even may wet underwear a bit. Not the most exciting thing about CB for sure. As I said, cleaning inside without taking it off is between hard and impossible. Your dick is in the way, there's limited area for maneuver, because those orifices you have are small. A total pain in the ass.
Also my first one is with metal guiding pins. What happens is when you set the distance between the ring and the cage smaller than maximum they stick out from the beck of the ring into your pubis, and that hurts after some time. I understand that the newer models are better in this respect though< as their pins stick from the front.
And I'v got another of CB series by chance, this one is a bit smaller than the first (CB6000s). I thought it would be easier to control, and as my penis shrinks so much it'll be better. The only thing better about it is that guiding pins are done good this time, and don't hurt me. However the bulk of the problems remains the same with an added new one. I already said that when I grow I grow a LOT. So when I get a boner, say, in the morning, The CB really pulls on my genitalia. It doesn't restrict me growing in length as much, so I end up with the base of the ring about a one-third way up my penis shaft with my penis bent in the middle. Not he best thing too.
Also with plastic ones they are said to split in half sometimes and cut the skin.
So all in all I would not recommend CBXXXX series actually. I believe that the good silicone cage would be better, and a good metal one even more so. Soon SexualChoc will raid this thread and tell you everything about it, as he has more practice, but ehre's my two cents.
First thing to way - I can't really use fillers to extend the distance between the ring of CB and the tube. That is because when I shrink all the way I literally slip ot of my CB! So I have tu use minimal distance, and here's the problem with that: The gap between the ring and the tube gets so small that it basically squeezes the skin of my ballsack. Id does not seem to cut the flow of blood, but it's pretty uncomfortable, and I won't lie - I'm afraid to wear it like that at all times.
The other thing is cleaning. The tube has very VERY little orifices, so you can't really clean inside. And in my cace it gets dirty quick. You see, the peeing is a real problem. First, you have to work to align your peehole so it will point directly to the hole in CB. If you don't do it or do it wrong things may happen, such as the stream of pee hits the plastc of CB and splashes everywhere. It gets some practice to avoid those occasions.
Second, you (or at least I) can't really shake the leftovers of pee completely. Not only shaking itself is rather hard to do in CB, but also some pee remains inside of my urethra, and there seems to be nothing I can do about it. It basically leaks out some time later and remains inside of CB and even may wet underwear a bit. Not the most exciting thing about CB for sure. As I said, cleaning inside without taking it off is between hard and impossible. Your dick is in the way, there's limited area for maneuver, because those orifices you have are small. A total pain in the ass.
Also my first one is with metal guiding pins. What happens is when you set the distance between the ring and the cage smaller than maximum they stick out from the beck of the ring into your pubis, and that hurts after some time. I understand that the newer models are better in this respect though< as their pins stick from the front.
And I'v got another of CB series by chance, this one is a bit smaller than the first (CB6000s). I thought it would be easier to control, and as my penis shrinks so much it'll be better. The only thing better about it is that guiding pins are done good this time, and don't hurt me. However the bulk of the problems remains the same with an added new one. I already said that when I grow I grow a LOT. So when I get a boner, say, in the morning, The CB really pulls on my genitalia. It doesn't restrict me growing in length as much, so I end up with the base of the ring about a one-third way up my penis shaft with my penis bent in the middle. Not he best thing too.
Also with plastic ones they are said to split in half sometimes and cut the skin.
So all in all I would not recommend CBXXXX series actually. I believe that the good silicone cage would be better, and a good metal one even more so. Soon SexualChoc will raid this thread and tell you everything about it, as he has more practice, but ehre's my two cents.
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Re: Chastity Device Preference
first I have worked hard to create an
almost comprehensive list of chastity devices
link here:
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 16#p139016
do some comparison shopping!
I do recommend a lightweight metal cage.
I have tried several devices over 8 different kinds personally
and cb-x000 is one I never recommend.
the best light weight low cost metal cage without a doubt is:
http://www.dungeondelights.com/store/pr ... cts_id=119
free custom, guaranteed satisfaction or your money back, customer service that is the best!
is why this company is a link partner! of milovana!
if you have the money though
http://www.maturemetal.com/chastity-devices/
mature metal makes some very nice products which are also very custom.
but as I said look through the complete list everyone's needs are different!
almost comprehensive list of chastity devices
link here:
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 16#p139016
do some comparison shopping!
I do recommend a lightweight metal cage.
I have tried several devices over 8 different kinds personally
and cb-x000 is one I never recommend.
the best light weight low cost metal cage without a doubt is:
http://www.dungeondelights.com/store/pr ... cts_id=119
free custom, guaranteed satisfaction or your money back, customer service that is the best!
is why this company is a link partner! of milovana!
if you have the money though
http://www.maturemetal.com/chastity-devices/
mature metal makes some very nice products which are also very custom.
but as I said look through the complete list everyone's needs are different!
all2true
is my other profile. see my chastity belt link :
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 16#p139016
is my other profile. see my chastity belt link :
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic ... 16#p139016
Re: Chastity Device Preference
So I have had an interesting turn of events in my sex life this week. (Sorry this is so long, but there is a lot to tell).
I have been with my wife for 8 years now (married for 3.5). While she is a very sexual person, she is not very kinky. I on the other-hand have always been interested in BDSM type stuff and practiced a lot of self bondage before I got together with her. I never had the guts to bring up my kinks with my previous girlfriends and it took me a couple of years to work up the courage to tell my (now) wife.
While every once in a while she would indulge my fantasies, it wasn't very often. Maybe twice a month (which in my book isn't a lot when we fool around almost daily). Even then most of the time I only got what I would consider a 100% effort out of her on special occasions.
Within the last couple of years I have added T&D to my list of kinks. Again I tried to get my wife to do this to me, but she didn't seem to understand it and didn't like not making me cum. Most I've gotten was maybe a day of denial and most of the time she would pretend like she was going to deny me but come back and push me over the top.
Well that changed this week. She was giving me a hand-job and asked if I wanted to cum (hinting that maybe some denial was on the table). I told her that it would really turn me on if she didn't let me cum. With the way it was going it seemed like she was going to do her typical "but I like making you cum" thing and push me over the edge, but she didn't. The next day, she starts teasing me again when I get home from work, but the conversation tone changed a bit. It went from her asking "do you want to cum?" to asking "how many days do you think you can handle not cumming?"
Well I am on day 5 now of denial, which has included 6.5 different teasing sessions. She has really gotten on board with it and is really enjoying the tease. She has also noticed that it has put me in a much better mood and that I have been more attentive to her (not something I did consciously, other than a little bit of the extra attention).
Today she was asking me if I was ready to cum yet. I was hesitant to say yes because I was really enjoying the denial, but it is very hard to say no while she is playing with my cock and it has been 5 days. I don't know if I have gone 5 days without cumming since I discovered masturbation! So instead of answering I tell her "you know regardless of how I answer you can keep the denial up indefinitely, right?" (Maybe a choice of wording there I might come to regret). She responds "oh I know, I just want to know how bad you want to cum now." I was way to turned on to say no at that point so I start begging her to make me cum. She stops playing with me and says "no, no cumming for you. I think I may keep this up for weeks."
As if all of this wasn't great enough already, the subject of chastity came up during on of the teasing sessions. She asked if I had been masturbating and I said no. She said that maybe to be sure she should lock me up. I kind of treaded lightly on the subject because I wasn't sure if she was serious or if it was some dirty talk, but after a couple of conversations turns out she is also on board with the idea of getting a chastity device.
Chastity has been a fantasy I have always had, but I figured with my wife's lack of kinkyness it wasn't something that I was ever going to experience. I don't know what has gotten into my wife this last week, but the fact she is loving teasing me daily and is also interested in getting a chastity device has left me over-the-moon excited.
So now I have to pick out a device. I would love to get something from Mature Metal, but my wife doesn't like the idea of a metal cage. She is paranoid that I am going to get in some sort of accident and they won't be able to get the cage off and my penis is going to fall off or something. She wasn't something that can be cut off easily. With all the mixed reviews I've seen for the CBx000 devices, I decided against those as well. I think I have settled on trying a Birdlocked device.
The only problem I am having now is measuring for it. I did the string test, but I got a result that was off their charts. While I don't have anything to be ashamed of down there, I'm not going to have porn producers knocking down my door trying to sign me either. I'm not sure if the 5 days of tease and denial have left me a little "fuller" than I might be otherwise or not. Maybe I'm just doing the test wrong.
I also considered the Neo2 because their website advertising it as accommodating multiple sizes, but I am having problems finding any real-world user reviews on it. The few that I have found seemed to have issues with the device in general (seems like this is true no matter which device) and not specifically the sizing. I would hate to spend the money on it to find out it doesn't work.
I'm heading out on a trip next week, but I will be ordering something when I get back. I can't wait to try out chastity and am wondering if I will be 2+ weeks into constant tease and denial by the time it arrives.
I have been with my wife for 8 years now (married for 3.5). While she is a very sexual person, she is not very kinky. I on the other-hand have always been interested in BDSM type stuff and practiced a lot of self bondage before I got together with her. I never had the guts to bring up my kinks with my previous girlfriends and it took me a couple of years to work up the courage to tell my (now) wife.
While every once in a while she would indulge my fantasies, it wasn't very often. Maybe twice a month (which in my book isn't a lot when we fool around almost daily). Even then most of the time I only got what I would consider a 100% effort out of her on special occasions.
Within the last couple of years I have added T&D to my list of kinks. Again I tried to get my wife to do this to me, but she didn't seem to understand it and didn't like not making me cum. Most I've gotten was maybe a day of denial and most of the time she would pretend like she was going to deny me but come back and push me over the top.
Well that changed this week. She was giving me a hand-job and asked if I wanted to cum (hinting that maybe some denial was on the table). I told her that it would really turn me on if she didn't let me cum. With the way it was going it seemed like she was going to do her typical "but I like making you cum" thing and push me over the edge, but she didn't. The next day, she starts teasing me again when I get home from work, but the conversation tone changed a bit. It went from her asking "do you want to cum?" to asking "how many days do you think you can handle not cumming?"
Well I am on day 5 now of denial, which has included 6.5 different teasing sessions. She has really gotten on board with it and is really enjoying the tease. She has also noticed that it has put me in a much better mood and that I have been more attentive to her (not something I did consciously, other than a little bit of the extra attention).
Today she was asking me if I was ready to cum yet. I was hesitant to say yes because I was really enjoying the denial, but it is very hard to say no while she is playing with my cock and it has been 5 days. I don't know if I have gone 5 days without cumming since I discovered masturbation! So instead of answering I tell her "you know regardless of how I answer you can keep the denial up indefinitely, right?" (Maybe a choice of wording there I might come to regret). She responds "oh I know, I just want to know how bad you want to cum now." I was way to turned on to say no at that point so I start begging her to make me cum. She stops playing with me and says "no, no cumming for you. I think I may keep this up for weeks."
As if all of this wasn't great enough already, the subject of chastity came up during on of the teasing sessions. She asked if I had been masturbating and I said no. She said that maybe to be sure she should lock me up. I kind of treaded lightly on the subject because I wasn't sure if she was serious or if it was some dirty talk, but after a couple of conversations turns out she is also on board with the idea of getting a chastity device.
Chastity has been a fantasy I have always had, but I figured with my wife's lack of kinkyness it wasn't something that I was ever going to experience. I don't know what has gotten into my wife this last week, but the fact she is loving teasing me daily and is also interested in getting a chastity device has left me over-the-moon excited.
So now I have to pick out a device. I would love to get something from Mature Metal, but my wife doesn't like the idea of a metal cage. She is paranoid that I am going to get in some sort of accident and they won't be able to get the cage off and my penis is going to fall off or something. She wasn't something that can be cut off easily. With all the mixed reviews I've seen for the CBx000 devices, I decided against those as well. I think I have settled on trying a Birdlocked device.
The only problem I am having now is measuring for it. I did the string test, but I got a result that was off their charts. While I don't have anything to be ashamed of down there, I'm not going to have porn producers knocking down my door trying to sign me either. I'm not sure if the 5 days of tease and denial have left me a little "fuller" than I might be otherwise or not. Maybe I'm just doing the test wrong.
I also considered the Neo2 because their website advertising it as accommodating multiple sizes, but I am having problems finding any real-world user reviews on it. The few that I have found seemed to have issues with the device in general (seems like this is true no matter which device) and not specifically the sizing. I would hate to spend the money on it to find out it doesn't work.
I'm heading out on a trip next week, but I will be ordering something when I get back. I can't wait to try out chastity and am wondering if I will be 2+ weeks into constant tease and denial by the time it arrives.