Using denial to get in shape

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Actually my friend doesnt live anywhere close to me, so she doesnt help me in person in any way, just likes to challenge me to work out harder and enjoys knowing I am horny because of her. I have found that as the week goes on I am able to work out better because of the extra "energy".
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I just thought I would update everyone. My friend has increased the number of times I have to run by one day, increasd the amount of time I have to run for every day, and doubled my number of pushups and situps. She is thinking about if she is increasing the waiting time to 2 weeks. She is also thinking about other "tasks" I may to do which can include watching porn, no touching at all, or shoe shopping for her (not sure if I have to buy them for her yet or not, but she knows I am weak for a girl in heels so she is thinking of making me look for heals for her). If people want I will continue to post updates.
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You sure got my attention!

btw, don't let her know that you visit a t&d site, cause than she probably will make it two weeks for sure.
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urslaveboy4u wrote:If people want I will continue to post updates.
Please do, it's very interesting to read about! :)
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What a great thread. I have "deal" with my boy.. he is allowed to phone me only AFTER he has has a hard workout in the morning. If he chooses to skip his workout then he suffers the consequences of not being able to give me my wake up call. (he likes talking to me while I am in bed in the morning so, for him, that is a punishment)

Kind of off topic a bit, but not really...I have made several 30 music music mixes for him to use when he works out that have subliminal implanted. I use his favorite music and then just fuck with it a bit ;)

I made a GENERIC subliminal for my site awhile back that uses trancy music with subliminal to encourage the subject to "exercise for your Mistress".

Since you guys seem so eager to get in shape I will post it for a bit HERE:

http://www.box.net/shared/hyvqg95444

The subliminals are very clearly voiced at the beginning and then blend into the music. "Your Mistress" can be whomever you choose it to be, it is not geared towards Me in anyway.

Good luck to the origional poster and all of you in your quest for erotic fitness.

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Nikki wrote:
Since you guys seem so eager to get in shape I will post it for a bit HERE:

http://www.box.net/shared/hyvqg95444

The subliminals are very clearly voiced at the beginning and then blend into the music. "Your Mistress" can be whomever you choose it to be, it is not geared towards Me in anyway.

Good luck to the origional poster and all of you in your quest for erotic fitness.

Nikki
OOPS... I think I may have misrepresented that file as I have not listened to it for awhile.. silly Me.

There ARE some other addictions/cravings encouraged in that file so listen at your own risk ;)

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Nikki wrote:
OOPS... I think I may have misrepresented that file as I have not listened to it for awhile.. silly Me.

There ARE some other addictions/cravings encouraged in that file so listen at your own risk ;)

Nikki
Although erotic hypnosis has always interested me, i guess it is these other addictions/cravings that still scare me a bit. I guess there is a level of control I am not ready to cross yet.

I should have an updated workout this evening.
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All the suggestions are clearly stated at the beginning of the audio. Most of them are things that people who visit here would not have issue with. Cravings to be aroused, slutty etc etc... ;)

No need to be afraid to listen to the beginning and there is no induction or any deepeners, it is purely a type of subliminal file.

Nikki

urslaveboy4u wrote:
Nikki wrote:
OOPS... I think I may have misrepresented that file as I have not listened to it for awhile.. silly Me.

There ARE some other addictions/cravings encouraged in that file so listen at your own risk ;)

Nikki
Although erotic hypnosis has always interested me, i guess it is these other addictions/cravings that still scare me a bit. I guess there is a level of control I am not ready to cross yet.

I should have an updated workout this evening.
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OK so I thought I would update everyone. I have to do 4 sets of 45 minutes of cardio, a total of 150 situps and pushups, weights for 30 minutes twice all within the week. Her newest idea is making me choose between chatting with her or getting release at the end of the week. OH MY!
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urslaveboy4u wrote:OK so I thought I would update everyone. I have to do 4 sets of 45 minutes of cardio, a total of 150 situps and pushups, weights for 30 minutes twice all within the week. Her newest idea is making me choose between chatting with her or getting release at the end of the week. OH MY!
;) I like her style.

That's similar to something i've done to a guy where i'd let him do anything he wanted with me except cum. He would be allowed to stroke himself and cum, but i'd leave the room and make him do it alone. We'd spend the whole night together, and i'd go down on him, stroke him, have sex with him...everything. But he wouldn't get to have an orgasm with me. I'd make him choose...cum without me, or wait another day to see if i'd change my mind then.

Another fun thing to throw into the mix is to let him know that my decision it pre-determined. I'd take a marker and write down "yes" or "no" on the palm of my hand. During sex, i'd make sure he wouldn't catch a glimpse of it. And when he finally couldn't hold back anymore, he'd have to ask me to see what I had decided already....I'd open my hand up, "awww...sorry baby, you can cum with me tonight. Do you want me to leave so you can do it yourself?" ;)

To be honest, i'd always get unbelievably hot having sex while knowing what the outcome for him would be, and knowing that he wanted to find out so bad, but he'd have to bring himself to extreme amounts of sexual torment before i'd tell him. ;)

But I digress...apologies. What I actually wanted to post is a question. When guys are in a prolonged state of denial, do you find yourselves in a good mood from day to day? Or do you find yourselves edgy, irritable, ect? How does it affects yours daily mood? I'm curious as i'm a terribly self indulgent person, and have definitely never had a guy force me into that sort of situation. Just curious.

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Lindsey wrote: But I digress...apologies. What I actually wanted to post is a question. When guys are in a prolonged state of denial, do you find yourselves in a good mood from day to day? Or do you find yourselves edgy, irritable, ect? How does it affects yours daily mood? I'm curious as i'm a terribly self indulgent person, and have definitely never had a guy force me into that sort of situation. Just curious.
Mmm interesting question. I belive it varies from guy to guy. Usually such condition puts me in a good mood. When it's getting too much frustrating I usually focus on something else like work or study to keep my mind busy. Strangely in such cases I do a lot or I study in a very good way... When I end all and I relax however I feel that "I can't wait to see her again" state :-P You know the feeling of waiting and the thrilling of a possible solution to my little torment. Indeed all of this play puts me always in a good mood :lol:
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Lindsey wrote:
But I digress...apologies. What I actually wanted to post is a question. When guys are in a prolonged state of denial, do you find yourselves in a good mood from day to day? Or do you find yourselves edgy, irritable, ect? How does it affects yours daily mood? I'm curious as i'm a terribly self indulgent person, and have definitely never had a guy force me into that sort of situation. Just curious.

-L
Great post Lindsey. And to answer Your question. If I am being denied by someone I whorship then I am relaxed and happy - I am suffering for Her.

If I'm denied because I can't get lucky or because my special person just doesn't care, then I get edgy and irriatble and not nice at all.
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Lindsey wrote: But I digress...apologies. What I actually wanted to post is a question. When guys are in a prolonged state of denial, do you find yourselves in a good mood from day to day? Or do you find yourselves edgy, irritable, ect? How does it affects yours daily mood? I'm curious as i'm a terribly self indulgent person, and have definitely never had a guy force me into that sort of situation. Just curious.
I go with Marke. It depends for a big part on how and why.
From feeling frustrated but happy and a little submissive. :-)
Towards feeling edge, a little bit angry, frustration out of neglection and lost, not knowing what to do. :-(
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I have to say that for me I have found that I have more energy the longer I have to wait. It helps me do thw workouts for sure. I also want to share with the group that last night she made me do a certain amount of stroking because I had complained about having a rough day and "she wanted to take my mind off it".
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Last nightmy friend informed me that she has the authority to end the "workout challnege" for as long as she wants (it had originally been set up for no more than 8 weeks). She also told me that I may have to visit, but if I visit there will be NO intercourse, only oral. And I will only be getting release during the visit IF she lets me.
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