watch and being watched

[nadi]

I had a though, did any of you ever preformed a tease while being watched online, with a webcam?
I though it could be cool to meet new people, chat about different kinks, maybe choose a webtease together, or have the watcher choose one for you, and then lead the way.
I am sure many of us would love to meet new people like this, and it is really easy with Skype or so. Beside, it adds some inherent humiliation do the tease.

Any takers?

[nadi]

by the way, you can contact me by Skype: sososo6171

[Nezhul]

if you were a girl, I may have considered it. But it's simply no fun with another guy on skype =) Not that your presence would turn me on or add something to the experience!

[nadi]

it is nice with anther guy if you are bisexual :)

[Atmon]

At first it sounds like a great idea, to take things further to a more personal level, but think about it. Firstly I'm not bisexual. I don't want sex with men because that's just something I don't like, and that's quite fair enough to say without me being discriminatory apart from the fact that I love about women and I love sex with women, and quite a lot about women apart from the the way they go on about things, but that's another issue. I like women, and I like to know when I ever get sexy that she's a woman, and I am not bisexual and I don't like to think of the prospect of sex or even flirtation with men. Uggh.

I could go on about my gender bias, but hopefully that should explain the basics of the way I feel about this bisexuality thing.

Now, while the idea of having some woman who wants to sit there on skype all evening and watch me toss off makes me feel aroused and horny at the thought of it, the reality is that most of us here who come here, and there are some couragous bravados that pour out their imaginations that we all read and enjoy when we go through a tease that we can identify with, were basically all men, or close to it, and were doing a pretty good job of sharing our ideas, make love not war, and it is a delicate social scenario, but it's generally good entertainment at night, and yoju realise that it's mainly men sharing some intimate thoughts with the world, and that takes some serious guts.

Women? Women ? The most hypersexy nymphomaniac woman ever born would not get even near to the libido of the average schoolboy, because women know that they got it and we want it, and so whatever woman on the planet with half a brain would give a damn about sitting there on Skype watching you toss off on a webcam unless there was money in it? Honestly, if there was ever a woman in this world who was interested in your masturbation habits, she's either too busy with her social agenda in real life or she's your mother.

It sounds like a great idea in theory Nadi, but first you get the women, and then we can talk about it.

[nadi]

I have found more then a few real women online that were up for a play.
Sexuality these days is much more open, especially for women.
As I said, I don't really mind the gender, and as I realize there is a majority of men here, I think there are some women.
Beside that, I am not really into coloring life in black and white. For some sharing experiences on here is already too 'gay', and for others it is a pleasure. Performing a tease written by a guy or getting instructions on cam is not that different.

Anyway, it is of course an individual choise.

[Mistress Clare]

Women? Women ? The most hypersexy nymphomaniac woman ever born would not get even near to the libido of the average schoolboy, because women know that they got it and we want it, and so whatever woman on the planet with half a brain would give a damn about sitting there on Skype watching you toss off on a webcam unless there was money in it? Honestly, if there was ever a woman in this world who was interested in your masturbation habits, she's either too busy with her social agenda in real life or she's your mother.

It sounds like a great idea in theory Nadi, but first you get the women, and then we can talk about it.

I walked away from this post a few times but had to come back to post as the comments within it made me see red!

I do understand your generalisation that there are more men on milo than women, but to generalise about my libido is a little uncalled for. I can assure you I have more than half a brain and thoroughly enjoy sitting and watching someone play on Skype and instructing them what to do.

I can sense your frustrations and am sure you do not mean any offence but can assure you that you will not find what you are looking for with that attitude.

Clare

[tigerpup]

Thanks nadi for the topic and thanks Clare for your response. I am disappointed to see gender stereotypes still held onto so strongly. Applied to woman as a group, this is a form of misogyny.

I would just like to say that I've enjoyed both doing a tease on cam for another guy and watching (usually also doing) other guys. Some have identified as straight, some bi, and some gay. It's great to see other guys share their opinions of this, both positive and negative, when they keep in mind that different people enjoy different things. And, yes, even some straight guys like the added control and accountability of doing a tease on cam. Good luck nadi.

tigerpup

[Atmon]

I walked away from this post a few times but had to come back to post as the comments within it made me see red!

I do understand your generalisation that there are more men on milo than women, but to generalise about my libido is a little uncalled for. I can assure you I have more than half a brain and thoroughly enjoy sitting and watching someone play on Skype and instructing them what to do.

I can sense your frustrations and am sure you do not mean any offence but can assure you that you will not find what you are looking for with that attitude.

Clare

Sorry Claire. Sometimes there isn't much choice but to generalise, and there's a bit of scope for artistic licence when you're trying to write, and writing is half of the whole charade, because all the pics after a while just end up all the same unless there's a story to go with them.

In my generalisation, I was not intending to include the outliers who might defy those generalisations, but I stand by the rough guesswork of the original post, and only hope to inspire Nadi further in the right direction. Now he has one, but there's more work to do.

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There is very delicate balance to this place, y'unnerstand? and it does not care for your frustrations nor your attitudes. If you want to argue about your frustrations or your attitude, then check out the BBC forums or somewhere, but this is not the place for politics. This is the place for love, and inspiration, and to be there to tke care of each other, so when you see red, you're on the wrong place.

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On libido, I was a late starter, and I never tossed of until I ws 21, and lost my virginity to a woman about the same time. I had girls before that but couldn't get it up until I met my wife. I don't know why. It's something to do with my shy nature and just the way I have always felt about loving a woman. If she isn't happy, then I am not happy. I don't know why, but I was still a virgin who had never ever tossed off on is 21st birthday. I've tried to make up for it since then. The thing about sperm is that it is rather like water, and it has to flow to stay clean, and if you leave it too long, it becomes stagnant like water in a swamp, and I would never want to spray my sperm in a woman I love unless I can be sure it is pure and clean, so I toss off at least once a day, just to make sure it all stays clean.

This libido thing though, seriously Claire. How desperate can your libido be? How many times in the last year have you forked out good money to hire a boy to satisfy you? Can you honestly say that you can compete with the libido of the average fourteen year old schoolboy?, and if that's the truth, and you have paid good money over the past year to get your rocks off, then why don't you let me know your skype ID and I'll run something up in the morning and get to know you more better.

[Atmon]

Schoolboys go to mornng recess and get in the queue at 10:45 and see her there in front of them, and it's the start of the semester and she's just back from the class at the beach, in a dark blue bikini with a t-shirt, and he sees her, and what is a boy to do about that?

Her name is Laura, and he has no choice. She is a year younger, but she looks just the same, and he only has so much lunch money, and he goes hungry, tp buy her a passionfruit split icecream, and a hamburger, and he buys her cigarettes even though he doesn't smoke bak then, and he finds out that her birthday was May 5th so he goes to the department store and buys her a pretty dress with roses on it and a nice woolly jumper to cope in the winter, and all this time he is still buying her passionfruit splits and hamburgers and cigarettes all out of his lunchmoney, and he fixes the flat tyres on her ladies 12 speed bike when she gets a flat and always rides by her side on the way home from school, and he meets her mother and father and her little brother, and cleans their swimming pool and sweeps their driveway and front porch, and then he gets to 17 and buys a car and takes her out for a night and all she wants to do is stop at the bottle shop for a cask of summer wine and another packet of smokes, and then she spends the night in the nightclub dancing with some weirdo who looks like Robert (Plant} Smith I think? from the Cure, and he sits there alone at the table and smokes all the cigarettes he bought for her, even though he never smoked a fag before in his life, and then he takes her home at great speed back to her parents' home, and never sees her again, because she takes off with that Robert (Plant) (I don't remembere but I think it was Roberth Smith, not Robert Plant - I am sorry, I wanted to write something meaningful even though this is not sexy, and I do bekieve it was Smith, so please accept my apologies) imitator and dies of a heroine overdose in some strange foreign town at the age of 19, and you reckon you have more libido than a 14 year old schoolboy, Claire?

[Mistress Clare]

My opinion is just as important as yours and I am entitled to it and if you upset or anger me with your comments I am within my rights to tell you, as you are to tell me, that does not make me in the wrong place.

I appreciate you sharing your history with me, although not sure I see the link. My post here was more to say to Nadi that despite your comments all women are very different and that in time he will find what he was looking for.

I have no desire to share my sexual history with you and my sex drive is irrelevant to this matter, if you needed to know it you would and those that do do.


Clare