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Selfdenial game

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Hello to all
Now I don't have any Mistress, so I'm thinking at a game that I could do by myself, and I need some suggestions.
I want to define a number of days, in that time I have to do a defined number of strokes or edges without cum; when the time is over, if I've did all the strokes or the edges, I can cum, else I must be punished in some ways, for example I must ruin my orgasm or I must start again the game.
Every advices in the number of days, the numbers of strokes or edges, or the punishments are welcome :-)
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Take my screen name as a cue as to how long you should go.
Then at the end, if you want to cum, you must ruin it AND swallow it.
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I've found that a good way to play self-denial games is to hold fast to the rule of not cumming unless you have posted that you will on a public blog 24 hours ahead of time. This helps eliminate moments of weakness because you know that, if you decide to cum, you only have to wait 24 hours. If you do post, it also gives 24 hours to change your mind and keep going.
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Buy a CB of some sort that locks, no playing until it arrives (I almost said the magic word there LOL). When it does arrive put it on and make sure it fits properly and lock yourself up securely.

Pop the keys in a stamped address envelope and post them to yourself at your neighbours address. IF you get them back soon you're lucky. (You may want to set a limit like seven days before you go to a hardware store to buy a lock cutter.)

I think I posted a variation of this a while back where you actually attach the keys to a letter from the CB manufacturer appologising that the keys didn't arrive with your new Chastity Belt and that they hope this hasn't reduced your enjoyment of their wonderful product, think of your humiliation if your neighbor is female or a married couple and they open the letter in error.... :blush:
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goodboy wrote:I think I posted a variation of this a while back where you actually attach the keys to a letter from the CB manufacturer appologising that the keys didn't arrive with your new Chastity Belt and that they hope this hasn't reduced your enjoyment of their wonderful product, think of your humiliation if your neighbor is female or a married couple and they open the letter in error.... :blush:
Nice. I like that one. :D
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Edging, 25 times. But there are two to three additions

How to do the edges:
Everytime you edge, hold it for ten seconds, just to be sure it are proper edges. And there should be fifteen minutes of no touching between every edge.

How many:
Everytime a day passes, you must add a couple of edges to the total amount.
- Add 5 edges if it was a work day. Meaning, you've been at work for at least six hours.
- Add 10 edges on a non work day. (have been working for less than sic hours, or not at all)

Optional:
Add an amount of clothes-pegs on the balls, equal to the amount of edges you have done that day, everytime you stroke yourself. And leave them on for at least five minutes after you've edged yourself.
Example: If it will be the third time you edge yourself that day, that would mean you have edge yourself twice already. Thus you should have two clothes-pegs atttached as soon as you start stroking.

You can adjust this scheme to your liking. Like changing starting amount, or the amount of edges added each day. Or change the time off between each edge.
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Thanks to all for the advices.
I think the Jaberwocky's game is very funny,and I'll try that with some modification.
Everytime I edge, I have to hold it 1 minute: if I have to stop to prevent cumming, that edge doesn't count and I have to try again after at least 15 minutes.
I want also to define a time limit (for example 10 days): if I could do all the edges in that time I can cum and then start again adding 5 edges to the initial number of edges to do, else I have to ruin my orgasm and start again.
Every other advices are always welcome ;-)
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Hello to all, I'm back.
I didn't think that this could be so hard, I could finish the game only yesterday, after almost a month, so I have to ruin my orgasm and let it dribble. It was a real torture, right now I'm very horny and I need to cum so bad, and I have a lot of edges to do before I could cum.
Next Sunday I will be home alone and I will have a lot of free time: do you have some other games to advice or I have to continue with that?
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