Bringing myself and a partner into the fold...?

[CanadianAquarian]

Hey everyone, I'm new here. I recently discovered that delayed orgasm and a bit of denial is extremely rewarding. Does anyone know how my partner and I can bring it into sex? I've only experimented with edging through cock hero, but I am very interested in a more denial/sub route. Neither my (male)partner or I have tried any dom/sub play.
I am open to any tips and suggestions :)
Please bear in mind- I'm a newbie in this corner of the bedroom!

[Ph0enixAsh]

Someone here recently posted this website
http://devotionalsex.tumblr.com/
about devotional sex and I've found the idea quite appealing.

I have an ex who I'm still on excellent terms with and we were talking
one night when I decided to see what she thought of the idea.

Now she's generally more vanilla in sexual taste so I told her to look
through the archives and pick out pictures she found interesting
http://devotionalsex.tumblr.com/archive
and to read the captions of those. She was quickly fascinated by the
idea as well. If there weren't 1.2k miles between us things might've
become interesting.

It can be played with either gender being the top, despite this site
being written by a male knight. I think he has some posts wither on
the blog or his wiki that give alternatives for reversed roles.

Who knows, maybe you can find a way to do it both ways at once.
It seems like it could actually work quite well if the right approach
is taken.

Hope this helps!

[SexualChoc]

I am giving my standered answer because it Worked! for me

ACT like a subby that you want to be!
treat your partner like royalty
I do recommend taking over tasks such as cleaning, cooking, laundry if you are able
or you can be the "sugar" daddy if you make enough money.

Only orgasm when your partner lets you, never ask for one
and depending on how long it is between intimate encounter.. I have suggested resisting cumming
by pleasing them first until they have so much fun they barely have energy to torment you!

add in some daily torment of yourself
and you can have a wonderful medium to long term denial period with a dom/me being your partner!

Ideally you want your partner to give you tasks but this is almost always asking to much of your partner
you can politely ask them for tasks.. but if none appear I suggest using the teases here

and then try again, asking that is in a few months

generally your partner notices the change in your behavior in a week or less and is happy to Top!
to what degree.. well you will have to find out.