The decision is yours..........
Re: The decision is yours..........
I think ..... does she have a single sister?
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Makarov
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Re: The decision is yours..........
"I guess 11 weeks is long enough but she seems to think otherwise!!!"
"I love it!"
Judging by the posts you have made during this thread, I have decided to revoke my initial response. Here is my reasoning...
The orgasm denial experience is relative, like all good things are, and denial to each individual is different. Some guys are more long term then others, some are more short term. This goes for their domme's. Some like to see a guy cum, others wouldn't mind waiting a week. Or two. Or eleven. The point I'm trying to make is that matching up the domme with the sub means that it's always best to combine two different people who desire a similar denial experience.
Based on what I've read, I think your desires and your wifes desires in regards to the denial experience match up just fine, so to answer your question again....
You say eleven weeks is long enough of a wait. She says it isn't. Assume she is right and proceed to wait longer. Perhaps, instead of asking for permission to cum, why not ask for other things? You seem to be into legs, so how about asking for a foot job? It's a step up from leg humping, and it's not going although the way towards asking for a complete orgasm.
Also, in regards to being rewarded for the marathon, I've decided she's already given you your reward: your victory squeeze. To the outside observer it may not seem like much but you did write down...
"She asked me if that was the best wank I had had for 3 months and to be honest it was......... all 10 seconds of it."
So, without going into details, your reward was the best wank you've had in a long time.
"I love it!"
Judging by the posts you have made during this thread, I have decided to revoke my initial response. Here is my reasoning...
The orgasm denial experience is relative, like all good things are, and denial to each individual is different. Some guys are more long term then others, some are more short term. This goes for their domme's. Some like to see a guy cum, others wouldn't mind waiting a week. Or two. Or eleven. The point I'm trying to make is that matching up the domme with the sub means that it's always best to combine two different people who desire a similar denial experience.
Based on what I've read, I think your desires and your wifes desires in regards to the denial experience match up just fine, so to answer your question again....
You say eleven weeks is long enough of a wait. She says it isn't. Assume she is right and proceed to wait longer. Perhaps, instead of asking for permission to cum, why not ask for other things? You seem to be into legs, so how about asking for a foot job? It's a step up from leg humping, and it's not going although the way towards asking for a complete orgasm.
Also, in regards to being rewarded for the marathon, I've decided she's already given you your reward: your victory squeeze. To the outside observer it may not seem like much but you did write down...
"She asked me if that was the best wank I had had for 3 months and to be honest it was......... all 10 seconds of it."
So, without going into details, your reward was the best wank you've had in a long time.
Re: The decision is yours..........
Well it is now 12 weeks with a bit more teasing this last week. She wanted to keep me guessing and wanting to cum but I never got more than 10 secs of wanking from her. Truth to be told that was nearly enough on the last occaision to do the job!
As a celebration she went out last night wearing my favourite outfit which she only wears when she goes out without me. She had her tight cropped jeans on and her black knee high boots with the high heels. As she got ready to go out I was allowed to rub on her legs and boots. I had to stop 5 times before I ruined her outfit as it was she amused that both her legs had been dripped on. She was turned on by the thought of wearing my 'juice'
I then had to get dressed to see her leave in the taxi with 3 of her girlfriends and off they went to a local bar which gets crowded even on a Tuesday evening as it's student night. She told me as she left that she expected me to be asleep when she returned and not to wake up.
At 1am as I lay in bed she came back in and undressed without turning on the light and joined me in bed. She ran her hand down to my cock which was hard and whispered 'Night night' and then lay down.
That was it I thought but then I heard something that made my cock twitch........... it was a quiet buzzing sound. Oh my God! She was using her vibrator!!!
As I lay still her breathing deepened and I felt the bed moving as her hips worked. Gradually she turned up her vibrator and began to breathe more heavily. I lay still with my eyes shut listenning and feeling her body move faster. Then she began a quite gasping and whimpered. This was a sign that she was getting closer. Her left hand was on my right thigh and was squeezing in time to her hip thrusts. I still lay still but began to twitch my cock in time to her gasps and groans. Then I heard her start to cry out as she came. 'Oh yes, yes .......OH!' And that was her body stiffening and her back arching as she enjoyed it.
The buzzing stopped her breathing gradually slowed and then she patted my cock and whispered, 'Sweet Dreams baby'
She then snuggled up to me and fell asleep............. I took a lot longer than her to settle!!!
As a celebration she went out last night wearing my favourite outfit which she only wears when she goes out without me. She had her tight cropped jeans on and her black knee high boots with the high heels. As she got ready to go out I was allowed to rub on her legs and boots. I had to stop 5 times before I ruined her outfit as it was she amused that both her legs had been dripped on. She was turned on by the thought of wearing my 'juice'
I then had to get dressed to see her leave in the taxi with 3 of her girlfriends and off they went to a local bar which gets crowded even on a Tuesday evening as it's student night. She told me as she left that she expected me to be asleep when she returned and not to wake up.
At 1am as I lay in bed she came back in and undressed without turning on the light and joined me in bed. She ran her hand down to my cock which was hard and whispered 'Night night' and then lay down.
That was it I thought but then I heard something that made my cock twitch........... it was a quiet buzzing sound. Oh my God! She was using her vibrator!!!
As I lay still her breathing deepened and I felt the bed moving as her hips worked. Gradually she turned up her vibrator and began to breathe more heavily. I lay still with my eyes shut listenning and feeling her body move faster. Then she began a quite gasping and whimpered. This was a sign that she was getting closer. Her left hand was on my right thigh and was squeezing in time to her hip thrusts. I still lay still but began to twitch my cock in time to her gasps and groans. Then I heard her start to cry out as she came. 'Oh yes, yes .......OH!' And that was her body stiffening and her back arching as she enjoyed it.
The buzzing stopped her breathing gradually slowed and then she patted my cock and whispered, 'Sweet Dreams baby'
She then snuggled up to me and fell asleep............. I took a lot longer than her to settle!!!
Re: The decision is yours..........
Just to finish off this thread she finally after 13 weeks allowed me to cum. I was told to stand and she knelt in front of me and wanked me off onto her tits. As I came she let go and allowed me to spurt and dribble over her chest. Even tho this was a ruined orgasm it felt really good after so many weeks.
She has told me that I will wait at least 10 weeks for my next one too
She has told me that I will wait at least 10 weeks for my next one too