Ruined Orgasm or No Orgasm

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Snot
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Ruined Orgasm or No Orgasm

Post by Snot »

Sup

My wife has been teasing me twice a day for and each day and I also do one of these teases that she picks out.

We have been doing this for a week and tonight when she teases me she said I could choose to have a runied orgasm or wait another week for a real one.

We are still kinda new to everything but I am going crazy I really want to orgasm but if a runied orgasm is all that bad then I can wait another week.

So for some one just starting out would you take a runied orgasm after a week or wait another week for a real one?


I am losing my mind lol my wifes friend who usually isn't that hot was wearing a shirt that was so thin i could see the bumps where her nipples were and I started dripping pre cum in my pants.
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Re: Ruined Orgasm or No Orgasm

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That really depends on the ruined orgasm - there's a big range. Ruined where it's just stopping simulation at the critical moment is not really that bad. It's frustrating, but personally I find them more pleasurable than not. By contrast, the more extreme side, like capping or post-orgasm torture can definitely be worse than no orgasm at all. So I guess the answer is that the two of you should sit down and figure out what you are looking for from the experience.
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Re: Ruined Orgasm or No Orgasm

Post by looker »

How long after the ruined one will you have to wait for the next real one?
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