I'm such a fraud

[Londonswitch]

I frickin love Milovana, it seriously rocks! I read a lot of the forced fem, forced bi tasks but for some reason never actually do them. Just have a wank and then done with it. Am I the only one that fails so badly? I've had online Mistresses in the past that have actually got me to step out of the "it's just a fantasy wank" and actually do some pretty extreme things real life though with Milovana teases it just feels different and I can't engage in the same way. Hot wanking material, but could be sooooooo much more if I actually engaged as I do with a real Mistress....

Any thoughts?

[SexualChoc]

even an online relationship
helps make milovana fun
that is why SO many are seekin dom/me

if you arleady have one..
count yourself lucky!!

and enjoy!

[Bandit224]

I frickin love Milovana, it seriously rocks! I read a lot of the forced fem, forced bi tasks but for some reason never actually do them.

You fraud!!! Actually, you aren't; it's pretty normal to flip through teases and not actually do them. I can't really handle light bondage, but I still find myself very interested in bondage, and end up flipping through heavy bondage teases. Reading the teases first will ruin the element of surprise though.

[FicklePickleTickle]

I have no idea about the reality of this; it's just an assumption, but I would guess that you're not alone in this. Some people probably go for the challenge and actually try to complete teases/instructions/games in the way that is intended and some people probably come here for an interactive way to get off and then get on with their day.

My guess is that if you asked the ones who take them seriously, that they will tell you that they get much more out of it. On the other hand, some might tell you that it's hard to get into the fantasy of it and it's just wank material.

I guess the bottom line is that whatever you want out of the site is what you can get out of it. If you're having fun, who cares if you "fail"? If you're looking for more, maybe you should challenge yourself to see what you can take.

[Snoopy76]

I frickin love Milovana, it seriously rocks! I read a lot of the forced fem, forced bi tasks but for some reason never actually do them. Just have a wank and then done with it. Am I the only one that fails so badly? I've had online Mistresses in the past that have actually got me to step out of the "it's just a fantasy wank" and actually do some pretty extreme things real life though with Milovana teases it just feels different and I can't engage in the same way. Hot wanking material, but could be sooooooo much more if I actually engaged as I do with a real Mistress....

Any thoughts?

Try it you may like it!! Go on - its much more fun when you do it for someone else's pleasure.

Snoopy x

[les]

@Londonswitch

I have two suggestions
Take part in a forum tease where the steps forward so often are determined by the teasees posts.

Or you could quietly slip into chat and take part with the activities there.

Spoiler: show

Remember do not leap into chat demanding attention
1 It's rude, and against chat's TOC
2 It won't get you anywhere, but rejection.

[Snoopy76]

Agree with Les, you should wonder in to chat and get to know the Milo peeps!

Be good to chat to someone from London too!

Snoopy x

[marspank]

London

I was much like you when I first joined, and spent a year lurking in the shadows, reading over teases but not doing most things in them.

Then I finally did as Les suggested and joined a forum game. Specifically Della's multimedia game. The reason I joined was from seeing Della's past interactions in the forum, and also that it seemed to be a good starting point, simply requiring strokes, edges, and eventual begging for release.

Cut to 3 months later and I am active in chat, through the banter during Della's game, it has parlayed into another forum game for myself and another member.

I have also since done things that I would skip during the teases, because while I was interested and the thoughts turned me on, I could not bring myself to even start to think about doing them. But just through talking with others about those things on the forum and in chat helped me start experimenting more with self bondage, and then having people encourage me to try some new things in chat, giving me tasks around it also got me to try new things (in this case trying out butt plugs).

So just try to be more active. I know it can be scary at first, but just come on and be yourself.