In need of a little creative thinking here...

[ladylovely]

I am hoping that anyone who is really good at creative thinking can help me think of new ways to punish and humiliate my newfoun toy...he seems very unrelenting in his desire to only halfway accomplish any tasks i set before him, and even spanking his ass and setting him on his hands and kness are getting to be a bit dull and tried and true...don't get me wrong, i can get creative, but, i am hoping for some well, ideas perphaps i hadn't thought of before....

[salgmachine]

just to make this process a little easier, what should your punishments imply? e.g. some type of bondage, pain or physical fatigue? is he wearing a chastity device? and as always..use his weak spots to your advantage^^

it would be great if you could leave some details :)

greetz

[diddums]

Face slapping!
In public or private. As soon as he disappoints you, give him a whack.
A slap is worth a thousand words.
No day should go by without him feeling your hand. You can do it quite safely, over and over again. Let it become a regular means by which you communicate.

Happy slapping!

[diddums]

For development:
Imagine you keep giving him the hand and the looks and a good finger wagging- talking to. But he just keeps on disappointing. Well, maybe this would help.
Demand he buy you some opera gloves, patent leather of course, and a fur trim would be nice. Inform him that he must expect to account to you every day at slapping time. Set up a special corner in the home, where your slapping gloves are carefully displayed. Each day, at slapping time, he must kneel there waiting for you to come and set him straight. After a suitable age, you appear in your tightest skirt and heels and crisp white top. He has to remain on his knees while you lay a number of slaps across his face that only you decide. Obviously he has to thank you as you see appropriate.
Slapping time will neatly fit around your routine, but if it disrupts his ( he has to rush away from something to be there) so much the better.

[ladylovely]

I adore the face slapping, it was a way of going about this I had not though of.... although, i will confess, the moment to be able to do it will not cum soon enough =) ahhhh the joy of creative juices in full swing! I am also a big fan of cum swallowing, but, I'm finding the passion in it has fizzled and have recently been wanting to give it up, it has lost it's joy so much....I am not giving up just yet, just needing to find new ways to get him to swallow it, I believe....or something....any ideas?

[diddums]

There's a fantastic series of cartoons by Whizzer Black, which lists punishments for different types of offence. Do you know them? They used to be on orgasmdenial.com, I think. I always thought they'd be a good starting point in your situation...

[Jaberwocky]

Catch his cum, and put it in the freezer. Next time he want's to cum, he must first lick an icecream. That way, he eat his cum while he's still aroused. That might lower his repulse against swallowing.

As for punishments:
- If he accomplish a task halfway, let him do it again, but then with clothes pegs on his nipples. He can only remove them after he is done. Both painfull and humiliating.
- Wearing men's underwear instead of female underwear is a privilage that has to be earned.
- Let him walk around with a rope around his cock and balls. Not to tight! It should not block any circulations, just tight enough to prevent it from accidentally dropping off, and for him to have a reminder of who is in charge.
- Let him ask for permission to do common things when you two are together. Like going to the bathroom. Of course he has to ask in the correct way.

[diddums]

I'd say refusal to swallow your cum deserves at least a week with no sex at all. Next time, double it, and so on. Until the slave learns.

[yamaonda157]

I guess my input would be as follows...

- Assign him a task.
- When he has completed tell him he did a good job, but tell him it could have been done better.
-- In reward for completing the task he is allowed to give himself a hand job under you guidance. He is either allowed to cum
or not, the choice is yours totally and should be based on how happy you are with the end results. If not allowed to cum you
are to ice him down after the hand job and put a chastity device on him (CB3000 or CB6000).
- Give him three days to think it over and adjust to his new situation.
- At the end of the three days have him repeat the task.
- If your unhappy with his performance, he is not let out and has earned another 3 day in chastity
- If you are semi happy with the end results you secure his hands where he can’t touch himself, remove the device, and give him
a prolonged hand job with no orgasm. At the end you ice him down, clean the device and him and put it back on and release his
hands and he restarts all over again.
- If you are happy with what he has done then let him out and give him the choice of a prolonged T & D with your hand and a
chance to cum or a quick hand job by himself (60 seconds or less) to orgasm.

And then you can always add another task and alter or stick with the same steps. If he has not been allowed to orgasm in 2 weeks he will need a prostrate massage or orgasm. If your choice extended times you will need to add serious amount of “tease time” to keep him in the game and to ensure he doesn’t loose interest.

And remember to always reward yourself too, just because he can’t cum doesn’t mean you can’t either. Plus, having him serve you will be a huge turn on to him too. And don’t forget new areas that you can use to keep him wound up while he is locked up… Like his nipples, anus and toss in some BDSM and CBT too… Above all else this is posed to be fun, so keep it that way

Steve

[all2true]

I am hoping that anyone who is really good at creative thinking can help me think of new ways to punish and humiliate my newfound toy...he seems very unrelenting in his desire to only halfway accomplish any tasks I set before him, and even spanking his ass and setting him on his hands and knees are getting to be a bit dull and tried and true...don't get me wrong, I can get creative, but, I am hoping for some well, ideas perhaps I hadn't thought of before....

Unrelenting in what way? Which desire?
I agree with the chores ideas
Are you familiar with a points system of rewards?
Behavioral Psychology that is often used on children?

First create a list of chores
Also create a list of his desires
And of course your desires as well

Yes it’s a lot of start up work
BUT
It can be sooo much fun

Separate out things that must be done every day (bathing, dressing, and cooking)
ALL the daily stuff is worth one point, just one for ALL of it!
And stuff that is not as often (vacuuming nude, dusting, weekly laundry, ect.)
Randomly determine one task in this category. This can be worth two points.
Now include the list of your desires
Select one of these at random at the beginning of the day.
So you both have mental foreplay, these tasks should be worth three points
ONLY if he is able to do the task to YOUR satisfaction does he earn a Positive Point!
Negative points are earned if the task is failed, and punishments can be random, or listed.

Now here is how you can play around with the point system
Positive points can be “cashed” in, say, once a week, on a day you decide. One point could be one minute of stroking or One hour of his fav. TV show, ect. or even spanking (yes he gets to earn spankings!)
Negative points are dealt with that day!

You can have him do another one of your desires, to ‘make up” the points
Or you could punish him.

I think the most effective punishments are ones that are NOT sexual
Stand in a corner
Go without TV/ Computer
Write “I will do a better job doing _____ for my Mistress” 500 times

Stuff you would do for a child, it’s more humiliating that way, and he REALLY will avoid it.

All of this is just a humble suggestion but hopefully you can see room for creativity with it. I can say it works, VERY well

[ladylovely]

i will confess that while I am reading some of these I am enjoying the ideas, but, am feeling that one thing also needs to be addressed, and that I a also looking for some interesting little ways to tease my slave....denial will only get him so far, and I will confess I enjoy a good little session or two, but am finding my self ever increasingly looking to explore it, but, am not looking to just tie the poor slave up, if you know whyat i mean....how droll, right???

[diddums]

When he's feeling vulnerable, ( I picture him in heels and makeup and a shortie nightie doing the washing up) never spare his feelings at all. If you see flesh and fancy pinching it, go for it. All sluts like having their bums pinched!
Put clothes pins on his ears and make him do the vacuuming.
Tease him by always wearing very tight skirts and making him kiss your Bottom through them.
Instruct him to always kneel when greeting You.

If you make a date to meet outside, be very late. Keep him standing in the rain. Then insist when you finally arrive that HE had made the mistake, and scold him for it.
Never be pleased by little gifts of flowers, but punish him hard if he ever fails to bring them.
Get him to beg your friends to slap his face.
Is there something he really likes a lot? A motorbike or guitar or something? One day, insist that it has to go. Its that or you leave him. If he's worth anything at all he'll sell the stupid manly object right away. Insist that he buys you a very expensive gift with the money.
Make him worship and tend for Your Body all the time, but treat his with disdain. Always wear gloves if you touch him. Pinch and slap and kick him all you like though. He's damn lucky.
When you're at a cafe, ask the waiter to take his chair away, and make him kneel on the floor.
Actually, he should have to beg to use any furniture at all in Your presence.

Never allow him to adress You in a familiar way. Insist he calls You Madame or Miss (or some other honour you like) and Your Surname. Call him by a nickname though, when you bother to speak to him at all. Or by humiliating terms.
Be capricious. Whatever takes your fancy, it is his duty to serve you in any way. If you want the liilies growing in the pond, make him wade in and get them. If you need chocolate at 3 a.m. he has to get it for you.
Never accept anything less than total devotion. He is damn lucky to have You.
Flirt a lot with other people when he's with You. Always point out how much better they are than him. Criticise him all the time, his looks, his dress, his habits, anything at all.
If he starts to cry, just leave him be. He'll get over it.
Then, just once in a very long while, let him have some intense sexual pleasure, in a manner entirely of your choosing. A tiny carrot for lots and lots of stick.
I'd better stop now...

[goodboy]

I'm lost for words that I didnt see this thread before now....

I don't think we know what toys you have... If he has a chastity device let him take it off for a long hot wash and make sure he cleans the device well too, let him have wee because he might need one later. When finished and dried have him submit to you for a treat and make sure he is securely bound with no movement for him and easy access for you.

Get electrical tape or parcel tape and arrange strips sticky side up into a circle twice as wide as his flaccid dick, place a generous dolop of very minty toothpaste in the middle.

(I'm working with knowledge of a cb2000 here so appologies if I go wrong) Replace the ring of the cb and get ready to fit the rest together. Get some ice or anything that will ensure he is flaccid and once as small as possible take his foreskin between two fingers and "inject" a generous amount of toothpaste...folding the skin over and tabbing it closed with another piece of tape (if the ice will have numbed him a little so you need to be quick). Then take the circle in your hand and fit it "not too tightly encasing his dick and replace the rest of the cb before releasing him.

Before he can remove the toothpaste, the tape or the cage assign him some tasks that must be carried out to your satisfaction. Even if he can stand the toothpaste he will need to pee in three or four hours so make them difficult chores that will never be good enough. When he thinks he has finished have him kneel in front of you, tie his ankles and cuff his wrists then after inspecting his chores ask him how he thinks he did, discuss it at length if you need to.

The most important thing in his life will be to get the cb 2000 off, the tape off, wash off the toothpaste and have a wee (by that time his pee hole will be well infused with toothpaste and peeing will burn too!). Put both hands in fists hiding a pair of tweezers in each and say "right is good slave", "left is bad slave" which one does he think he has been.... whatever choice he makes he gets a pair of tweezers to pull the tape off within his cb which will take a long time and once free of tape the toothpaste will begin burning again....

[ladylovely]

well, unfortunately, i have not found a chastity belt that I would be pleased and delighted in using as of yet, they all seem well...not right, if that makes sense...I really want to find one that will be pleasing, and none have rung true to my heart (and nether regions) just yet... anyways, I have a few dildos, some vibrators (my rabbitt one and my butterfly one are my faves) one butt plug (very small, a beginner one that never got upgraded), rope, and many many lubes...probably too many for most people lol, but hell, who doesn't enjoy variety =) a few pairs of panties and my sex kitten heels...

[diddums]

Face-slapping video: great technique!
http://rapidlibrary.com/download_file_i ... aping+.wmv