What are your chastity terms?

[Sett]

Just looking for some input/inspiration.

[all2true]

I have a Dom

who decides how long
and what I do.

so sometimes I wear a cage
Teases are at their whim
release: dom decides

Limits: known to dom
Who is your Keyholder Dom/me?
talk to them about what you want!

If it is a subby..comunication is best.. do they have a cage?
do they like: ??what limits do they have?

[Sett]

The story goes like this: i'd like to try the cage, if only to find out it's not for me, and i finally found one online that won't break the bank. The trouble is i don't know what i want, and my gf is completely new to this, and as it is, she's too nice to me to be any fun. Plus i'm no pro either.

I know what ideas turn me on, but from previous experience that is very unlikely to actually work. Therefore i'm looking for at least some general guidelines and things that work for other people, i don't think either of us would be very satisfied if it was entirely on her.

[cel]

Just looking for some input/inspiration.

I'm in chastity controlled by another user on this site. Prior to us agreeing on this I voiced my limits, and we briefly discussed what my kinks where. Mind you, we did not discuss fantasies, simply kinks. And so, I do whatever I can to please him as well as limit my misbehaviour, and hope to be let out and orgasm on a regular basis.

The story goes like this: i'd like to try the cage, if only to find out it's not for me, and i finally found one online that won't break the bank. The trouble is i don't know what i want, and my gf is completely new to this, and as it is, she's too nice to me to be any fun. Plus i'm no pro either.

I know what ideas turn me on, but from previous experience that is very unlikely to actually work. Therefore i'm looking for at least some general guidelines and things that work for other people, i don't think either of us would be very satisfied if it was entirely on her.

There are a lot of aproaches you can take, depending on what you expect to gain from this, but since you are both new to this, I'd say be patient, and don't be let down if the first few times don't meet your expectations.
If your GF is naturally dominant, or you are already playing with D/S, I'd say set some limits, and let her act as she wants within those.

If this is the first steps you'r both taking into the land of D/S and chastity, then I think you should both work together and start slowly. Exploring can be just as fun at the beginning. Talk to her, say what you are looking for in the experience, and give her something to work with. Do you want an agreed time in chastity, or should she decide? What about when you are in chastity, should she let your cock out to play with, or simply use you for her pleasure? There are plenty of stuff to take into consideration, just remember not to demand what she does. If possible, avoid topping from the bottom (which is also why I don't think you should mention exact fantasies, but give her inspiration).

Hope it makes sense. Otherwise you can always point her to the Milovana chat, I'm sure lots of users there would be happy to help both of you (though it might be more fun if you don't know what is being suggested)
Cel

[JustKrissy]

Just looking for some input/inspiration.

Me and my girlfriend doesn't have a lot of rules/terms really.

Just the basic ones are no trying to get out of the cage and/or try to cum.

And we've just started a new game where I am allowed 1 edge a day that I can use or let accumulate to get more than one edge at a time, but if I do something bad or she feels like she can take all the edges I saved up away and I have to start over.

She usually won't tell me when I'll be allowed to cum though..

[les]

My best advice is

Do Not Rush Things.

take your faltering steps slowly so you don't fall down hard.

I seem to remember it has been said

do unto others as you wish to be done unto yourself.

So tease your partner as well .

[Sett]

I seem to remember it has been said

do unto others as you wish to be done unto yourself.

So tease your partner as well.

Oh, i do, i really do

[Sett]

Me and my girlfriend doesn't have a lot of rules/terms really.

Just the basic ones are no trying to get out of the cage and/or try to cum.

And we've just started a new game where I am allowed 1 edge a day that I can use or let accumulate to get more than one edge at a time, but if I do something bad or she feels like she can take all the edges I saved up away and I have to start over.

She usually won't tell me when I'll be allowed to cum though..

I'd love it to be her decision only, but i'm afraid she's way too benevolent for that. Then again we had a little chat this weekend where i emphasized that i actually want to be teased and denied orgasm, and subsequently she pretty much made my day yesterday, so maybe i just worry too much...


The thing is, i'm not into stimulation denial at all, and only need some intervention so i don't edge till exhaustion. I mean it's great in the end, and even kind of fun, but i would rather have her edge me, make me make her cum during intercourse (not alowed to cum myself of course) and THEN put me on no touch. Okay, i love being denied stimulation, but i can't stand it, you know? Does any of it make any sense? Ramble, ramble, ramble...

[Sett]

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I guess... Thanks