Loving the way how you think an orgasm after 30 days would be tame!
Not knowing your limits or how you have handled your month in denial so far, am being cautious.
Think maybe after so many days of edging you really need to treat yourself to a delicious day or two of no touch but watching and reading plenty of your favourite kind of porn. Followed by 10 ruins and then you could cum.
Hope you find something that you enoy and good luck for the rest of your denial!
Snoopy x
“It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure.” Marquis de Sade
i am curious to see your answers as i am am about to post a similar question...
depending on limits... i would suggest some sort of random pick between:
re-up for some period
no touch
edge
ruin
come and "clean up"
come freely as you wish...
I think what he's trying to say is that it would be an anti climax. When me and my partner play, if i get denied for a long time I expect something pretty damn good after!!
buy an electric play kit... this obviously depends on your money situation.
Then cum hands free with that for the first time... you could even say you have to cum in half an hour... which could be difficult in half a hour the first time you get use to it. Then as you use it more and get more desperate you'll be finally able to do it!
or you could milk yourself until you've collected X amount then you're allowed to cum.
You could go on a website such as sensual roleplay and pay a fee for a mistress to guide you through it, that would definitely make it a great experience. Could book 2 - 3 sessions, 2 to tease and one to finally cum when she decides. You fill out a form before hand i believe so you can say that's what you're planning.
if your in the UK you could wait until the weather goes above 15c... which means you could potentially be waiting until next year XD
I hope you don't mind if I toss out an idea I had , take some coins, no more then six and no less then three , flip each one , for every coin that comes up heads you palm your head for ten minutes , for every coin that comes up tails you spend ten minutes edging.
I think those edge amounts sound right to me, should be something you can do and be 90% sure you're not going to cum. I like the dice game too it sounds fun. Not sure if I'd call that earning it though. I think to be considered earning it you should do some work. Just a suggestion, but perhaps before you start the game each time you should have to do one of the following:
1. write an entry in the forums about how this is making you feel or you experiences with chastity so far
2. do a webtease
3. come up with a fun idea for other people to try
4. contribute something interesting to the forums
the point being contribute something here as a pre-requisite to getting to play the game. Just an idea, but I want more interesting stuff on the forums and you seem like you good do something good for it.