How do you mastercize or edge for long periods?

[basil731]

I daresay this has been brought up before but i have an unusual problem with this. Even after days of denial and short edging, as in 1 or 2 a day without holding it still takes me about 30 minutes to get to the edge. Once there though i can't hold an edge for more than a minute, sometimes less. I have tried loosening the grip, even going down to 2 fingers very slowly but within a minute i go over. If i let go it helps but im back on edge within seconds of trying again and just cant stay there.

I would say i must be hyper sensitive but as mentioned above i dont have premature problems, 30 minutes to get to the edge etc. Masturcizing will never work as i can't stay on edge anywhere near that long. If i feel im getting to the edge and stop eventually one of these wont work and i'll go over. It isn't even a ruined one, i shoot a full load and go soft, lose all desire etc exactly like a full one.

My question is how do the guys on here manage this? Do you squeeze the pc or relax it, think of something else maybe? I would love to solve this problem as im missing out on hundreds of good teases. I very rarely make it through a full one and was hoping to build up to be able to do something like the school of denial series. Also should mention that if i only have about 15 seconds break between edges it takes about 2 strokes to put me to the edge again, 5 second breaks and as soon as i touch im already over the edge. Any help is appreciated, really feel like i'm missing out.

[SexualChoc]

I see several challenges

first the time it takes you to edge
39 minutes
is a long time
your PC musles get tired easily when stroking that long
andd can not "clench" to hold back your orgasm

To assit you with quicker edges I suggest
buying a bullet vibrator
to put under your balls
get one that pulses, not jsut vibrates
those pusle setting.. are evil fun
though you May need to turn off vibe jsut before you edge as this Also makes it easy to go over
I assume you are watching Porn?
make sure you enjoy the porn you are watching

Next topic
Holding edges
there are several techniques that work well
but one of the best is called "sweet spot" rubbing
just under the head of your dick at the Frenulum there is a spot that if you use one finger and do fast little circles it is possible to orgasm (for some guys) on this alone
but it is a good way to have somewhat minimal contact and keep your edge
the other is to use just two fingers when and slow stroking keeping near the head of your penis.
both methods require practice (this video may help)
http://xhamster.com/movies/1187293/mass ... nulum.html
and generally it takes a bit of practice to build up your PC muscle to hold an edge

the best way to practice, use your PC muscle is when you go pee
stop your peeing half way through by clenching your PC muscle
and then release to finish peeing
do this for.. a few days to a week
and usually you can hold edges better.

[basil731]

Thanks for the reply, i usually go for 30 minutes but can speed it up by going very fast but that seems to make things worse. As for the sweet spot, thats how i usually keep on edge for the minute without going over but over a minute and even that pushes me too far. I've also tried the 2 finger thing though not too near the head as that is very sensitive by then.

I've read about the pc being important on this and done a few teases for cock bounces etc but more importantly i have done the squeeze and relax thing for 20 or 30 seconds a time for months now, i can stop myself peeing altogether so the muscle seems fine ( i was worried about that for a while). I seem to have tried everything you suggested and worked real hard at it. Any other suggestions? Do you think of other things and when on edge do you squeeze the pc non stop or like me does the edge calm down a bit when you squeeze it. When i squeeze it calms down but literally 1 sec after i stop the squeeze im on edge again and cant hold the squeeze indefintiely. After a few minutes anyway even the squeezing doesnt stop me going over

[Bandit224]

"Sweet Spot" rubbing is definitely the best way. After a few minutes, it will get so sensitive that you'll be able to hold the edge just by holding the finger (not rubbing) on the Frenulum. Several minutes later, hold the finger a few cm (1/5 of an inch) away from the cock. At that time, it will be so sensitive that just the heat from the finger is enough to hold the edge. Eventually, it'll be impossible to continue holding the edge, and you'll likely get a dry orgasm (or a few minutes break).

[basil731]

Thanks Bandit, never tried stopping the motion before, may give that a try next time. Either that or i will have to keep stopping any movement or touch for a few seconds then start again but thats more like start stop being on edge instead of riding it. Will probably try a tease tomorrow, one with a load of edges.

[sissysuzi54]

What happened to the mastercizing tease? I can't seem to find it anymore.

[janmb]

I see several challenges

first the time it takes you to edge
39 minutes
is a long time
your PC musles get tired easily when stroking that long
andd can not "clench" to hold back your orgasm

First of all, it is a misconception that you need PC muscles at all to hold an edge - at least as long as you can hold at your own discretion, using whatever technique you feel like, you can indeed hold an edge without any clenching. For my part, clenching only really comes into play as a requirement if I have to keep from cumming despite being stimulated more than I could otherwise handle. In that case, clenching helps a bit, but again, if using careful stimulation (and practice of course), holding without clenching is perfectly possible.


My take on this:

As choc says, 30+ minutes to reach the first edge is a long time - especially if you're actively seeking it and not trying to hold back. In many cases good stamina is a blessing, but it can also be a curse.

When you DO reach the edge, holding for more than a minute is something pretty much everyone has a challenge with. Staying really close to the edge is hard as hell for pretty much all guys, and the seconds tick away REALLY slowly. A minute is not a bad time at all. Many guys can't even control an edge for 10 seconds, far less one or more minutes.

Besides, don't look at it as a defeat if you drop a little bit away from the actual edge. No one is perfect enough to hold an edge for a long duration AT THE VERY edge all the time. It will come and go a little bit. If you vision a scale from 1 to 10, you can't hover at a perfect 9.9 all the time. Rather than hitting 9.9, having to let go, dropping below 9 again, starting again, immediately finding yourself at 9.9 again etc etc, instead try hovering a tiny bit further away from the hard point of no return. For me, there is a zone a tiny bit further down the scale where I'm still at the edge (a single, full stroke would put me over), but I have a little bit better control and can hover with less oscillation.

[basil731]

Hi Suze, http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showt ... 7204&p=8#t for masturcizing

Thanks Janmb, didn't realise it was supposed to be hard to hold over a minute. The teases on here, well, some of them require you hold for 5-10 minutes, masturcizing asks for 8 lots of 5 minutes with a few seconds in between. My favourite one to read, school of denial requires even more. I've never been much good at the scale thing, i seem to go from an 8 to a 9.9 in about 2 seconds. Thanks for the advice, much appreciated

[janmb]

Thanks Janmb, didn't realise it was supposed to be hard to hold over a minute. The teases on here, well, some of them require you hold for 5-10 minutes, masturcizing asks for 8 lots of 5 minutes with a few seconds in between. My favourite one to read, school of denial requires even more. I've never been much good at the scale thing, i seem to go from an 8 to a 9.9 in about 2 seconds. Thanks for the advice, much appreciated

The few teases you mention here are the very extremes. I've done the SoD edging part myself several times and it is by far the most extreme edge holding tease I've ever seen.

Most teases measure edge holding in seconds, possibly a few minutes, but very rarely many minutes or even hours like SoD does

Going from 8 to 9.9 in a couple of seconds isn't a big problem as long as you know it will indeed happen that way.... The real trick about this, just like anything else related to sex, is to know yourself - and I mean REALLY know yourself. You seem to have plenty self insight and a good understanding of how you work. That is the basis for the next logical step: Make use of it! If you know you'll jump back to the edge that fast, possibly even having an accident, make sure to use less stimulation. Maybe even just a finger barely touching at all etc. It may be hard to feel just how close you are at times, especially after having been at it for a long while or if your bladder fills up during your session, effectively giving you a need to pee. You may not feel like peeing, since you're aroused, but what it does behind the scenes so to speak, is to hide the edging sensation from you. At least that's what it does to me. So as soon as I start having difficulties assessing how close I am to the edge, I break for a pee and that usually gives me my sensation back like a charm

Practice, practice and practice, Padawan

[basil731]

Yeah, seems better already, using the 2 finger rule i tried the masturcizing tease and managed 10 lots of 5 minutes though i did come from the edge a few times midway. Strangely found that reading teases on here kept me erect but allowed me to back off a little. Balls really sore just now but very happy that it worked. Thanks for all the help to everyone