An orgasm deterrent?

[golgafrincham]

Whilst exploring the realm of chastity, orgasm denial and control, I've found that it isn't practical for me to be locked up all of the time and I've been thinking about how I could be deterred from having a sneaky orgasm while I was free. I've given my 'permission to cum' to someone else because I really want to test myself so I want the deterrent to be pretty convincing. Although I'm doing this with mu partner, I can see that it could be equally useful to someone who has a personal self-teasing goal.

My first idea was to have a punishment such as long periods of chastity, perhaps using a random time generator website like Carilock. But, it's not much of a deterrent when you already like the chastity idea. My second idea was a ripe spanking. But again, I don't think I'd mind that too much either!

So I thought I would enquire the devious minds of the Milovanians as to what a particurlarly effective deterrent they can think of?

My best idea so far is to have my urethra fucked by sliver of root ginger with deep heat/ icy hot used as lube. Shudder! Although the thought of it kind of appeals to my masochistic ways I'm not daft enough to realise that it is going to be excruciating. As Lord Les signs off his posts: "Be careful what you wish for!"

[SexualChoc]

what you are looking for is a good punishment task

the "best" ones are tailor made to You!
however because I don't know you very well I am giving you a "range" of tasks
you can pick the one.. or even several that work
now remember for a punishment to BE a punishment.. you do NOT want to do it
but are willing so if some of these are "past your limit" just adjust them.
these are suggestions
and as I said it would work better in conversation to determine your specific deterrent.

(1) if you fail.. put up a post in milovana in confession, then go on chat asking for punishments repeat as needed until you feel you have been properly punished
(2) humiliation.. I recommend Public humiliation because.. it's tougher!-- something like
Handing a hand written note to a random lady that says, "I failed my tasks given to me, and deserve punishment!" probably best if you don't stick around until the person reads it.. but if you super brave...
(3) femme- put on some women clothing and take pictures of yourself.. NO you do NOT have to share these!!! you will wear this around the house all evening.. (this is if you HATE femme).. you could wear outside of house.. all depends on how intense you need it
(4) pain)sounds like you want a pain task so.. if you actually have the things you listed for ginger sounding.. I would NOT recommend it!! can cause great irritation that could end you up in hospital! just as painful.. get a bar of soap, scented hand soap and rub your dick with it until you get just a little inside
you will feel a moderate to intense burning.. then when you pee it will hurt LIKE HELL!!!
like knock you on your ass pain.
(5) denial.. is not really a deterrent.. it sucks as a deterrent.. because if your failing your current chastity.. you will probably fail a longer one.

[Nezhul]

it can be dangerous for your health too.

[Sett]

From my experience, if you're solo, you don't really have any other option but the strength of mind. It might help to tell someone of your goal (you don't need to tell them what the actual goal is), but that's about it. Even if you come up with some sort of punishment, odds are you won't do it once you cum. Loss of interest and all that.

However, since you said you have a partner, leave it up to them. If it's your girlfriend, good punishment would denial from her (on top of your own of course). And it could be not just sex, but any sign of affection.

[golgafrincham]

Thanks for the suggestions and the advice - I presume you mean that inserting chemicals such as Icy hot/ Deep heat is not wise, as I can't imagine that Ginger Root in itself is not intrinsically dangerous, if certainly unpleasent. Any way - I defintely don't want to end up in A&E trying to explain why the end of my cock has melted off - I'm not into public humiliation!

If I was looking for a solo suggestion - I don't think it's all about will power, just planning... One idea I had is putting yourself into a situation that could be pleasent or unpleasent - randomly. For example, tying your self up for a random period of time using ice-timers (see boundanna.com) and hooking up to a tens machine that would generate random degrees of intensity. Therefore, you would be subjected to either pleasure or pain, depending on how long you are bonded. I have a tens unit that generates a signal based on an input, eg an MP3 song. I setup a playlist which included some soft tone music, and then dropped in the odd Nirvana etc from time to time. Let me say - the difference was profound!

Sexualchoc - you articulate so rightly when you say that a deterrent is a punishment that I don't want, but am willing to do. It's no use saying I have to chop my own cock off, as much as it's no use to say I need to chastise myself for longer. It has to be achievable, but very undesirable.

G

[Kendoll]

Orgasm deterrence can be physical.
Devices, locks, etc. imho this dehumanizes
My newest approach is the orgasm mental block.

One may ask me for it.