Hi, I'm new!

[denialdan]

Hi to the Milovana community.

I am a submissive male interested in tease and denial and orgasm control. I have a girlfriend but live in a different city to her as I am currently away studying architecture. We only see each other every couple of months. I have suggested to tease and denial to her but she doesn't like the idea. with a bit of research she found this site and told me that while I'm away I might want to find a web mistress to control me.

I am a beginner to tease and denial but I would really like to push my own sexual boundaries by giving control of my sexuality to someone else.

I am finding this site quite confusing to get into, can anybody offer any advice as to how I might be able to find a mistress to control me?

Any advice would be great

Many thanks

Dan

[iluvcbt]

Welcome aboard :)

I'll start this reply by telling you that this is not a hook-up site or a pay site. It has a different purpose. Others may say that better than I did, but it's basically the truth. If you want some help, there's a post on the forums with some advice:

http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=4192

I wish you luck in your quest.

[SexualChoc]

[quote="denialdan"

I am finding this site quite confusing to get into, can anybody offer any advice as to how I might be able to find a mistress to control me?

Dan[/quote]


Hang out.. post a lot in threads

and show up in chat..

but if you are in chat
DO NOT enter chat
and say, "someone tease me now!" or "I want a mistress now!"
just talk about whatever topic
find out who.. is who

we are a friendly bunch
if you just talk.. about whatever!

[denialdan]

Thanks guys,

I've been exploring and it looks like you've got a really cool community here.

The webteases are great too! i've been slowly working my way through the top rated ones and they're quite hard going sometimes but really fun.

I've noticed that some dommes post challenges on the forums, do you have to be initiated before you are allowed to join in normally or can anyone join?

Dan

[Dream_On]

Normally the forum games are open for anyone to join.

[janmb]

Welcome

Most forum challenges/games are open for anyone to sign up and take part in. If for any reason a challenge is limited to specific participants that is usually stated in the first post and is in fact not common at all. So the best idea if you see a forum game you'd like to try out is simply to post your interest and ask if you can join. Worst that can happen is that you are told no, but that's virtually unheard of - most forum games are completely open to sign up to - but also be aware that many games are closed for new participants once the game is started - simply because many games/challenges require participants to take part from the beginning...

As others have said, best way is to keep in mind that the users here on milo is just a bunch of normal (more or less!) people who you need to treat in a nice and respectful manner, just as you would face to face.

Good luck