How do people survive edge play

[dirac]

Haven't been on here a while and I thought I would pop by. When I ask how people survive edge play I mean when it goes over the course of days. I've tried some edgeplay with my fiance but if I don't cum that day I'm likely to get a wetdream. Hell, if I go more then 2 days without cumming I'll have one even without any stimulation. I produce a large amount of semen would that be the reason why my body can't hold off overnight? If there are guys like me out there do you just not count the wetdreams?

[janmb]

I've never had that problem, but we are all different so it might not be easy to avoid in your case.

Best idea I can think of is to try approaching a few days of denial a bit more carefully, maybe even start off with being totally asexual for a few days, then gradually introduce light teasing - not close to bed time - and build from there, until you can take edging close to bedtime without having accidents at night.

Then again, you might not be able to get the wet dreams to stop anyway. Wet dreams shouldn't be a big deal anyway, and definitely won't help to worry about it. The only downside I can think of is the released sexual tension, but hardly a big deal

[Bandit224]

The use of a chastity device should make it too difficult for the semen to seep out like that. Typically with edges, full orgasms are forbidden, but ruined orgasms are allowed when accidental.

Kind of a last resort type of idea, but if you do a lot of edging and notice wet dreams continuously, you could simply try edging and not allowing yourself to release for a month or so. If your balls turn blue at any time, then the wet dreams have little to no effect on your denial period. If a month passes and no blue balls, then it would be a bit of an issue.

Edit: I forgot to mention that wet dreams are basically accidental ruined orgasms. Like the poster above, don't worry about wet dreams. Endless wet dreams happen all the time after people's balls turn blue.

[Kendoll]

I have an effective method.
It is called a Cum Block.
Hypnotic mental control.

[SexualChoc]

Haven't been on here a while and I thought I would pop by. When I ask how people survive edge play I mean when it goes over the course of days. I've tried some edgeplay with my fiance but if I don't cum that day I'm likely to get a wetdream. Hell, if I go more then 2 days without cumming I'll have one even without any stimulation. I produce a large amount of semen would that be the reason why my body can't hold off overnight? If there are guys like me out there do you just not count the wetdreams?

Some discharge can be very normal.

if you hydrate well (drink good amount of water)
you will flush dead sperm away an possibly (just possibly) reduce night ejaculations

I read several blogs there is a slight chance you may want to seek medical advice
but only if you are aslo haveing problems with pain or difficulty peeing.



My suggestion is keep practicing.

sometimes it takes a while to grow into denial

don't worry about the night ..
but you May want to have a frank talk with your partner

and make sure they are not... playing with you in your sleep..

I found out my wife liked to do this to me...
they do not have to stimulate you as much as you would think, just a little can trigger...

also do not sleep naked.
wear undies this will if nothing else reduce the amount going on the sheets..