Safe CBT ideas.

[liahus]

Hey guys.
There's this girl I recently met on fetlife. To my goodluck, she was looking for slaves. And now she owns me.
As it turns out, she is a big CBT fan. (I've never been into it.) But with time I started abusing my balls for her and kinda liked it.
Now she wants me to whip my tied up balls with a leather belt each day and post pics afterwards as a part of ball training. I'm just not sure if that's safe to do. Is it? How hard to hit them? Light whacks and I'll be cheating her. Too hard and I may never be able to make babies again. So guys help me out here. I don't have any experience whatsoever in this matter.
Also suggest me a few good ideas for safe CBT, that I can surprise her with. She wants them purple :(

[bradslut]

Hey man id say do it enough so thar it hurts usimg a belt wont perminatly damage you

As for some ideas try tying up your balls but leave some room on the rope to tie to a immovable object or to hang weights off of also snap some rubber bands on those purple balls it stings but you'll love it

[Triple Alfa]

When it comes to slapping/spanking, anything that spreads the hit over a large area like a hand or the end of a belt or whip makes it very safe. When focusing a hit on a smaller area by using a cane or simply flicking with your finger, you need to be more careful. If you don't have experience, start light. Learn your body's reactions slowly. Even if you can take the immediate pain, you might go too far if you go too fast and hurt too much later on. In time you'll know how far you can go. Also keep an eye on your skin. Certain materials can really take a toll there after a while. Just be sure it doesn't actually break the top layer of skin or take too long to heal afterwards.

Another method is squeezing/crushing. You can go really far with this without problems, but again take it slow. When you start to feel sick to your stomach from the pressure your still not at your limit, but getting there.

You could also use hot wax to cause pain. Two pieces of advice there:
1) Use low temperature wax candles if possible. If not, hold the candle high to let the wax cool before hitting the skin.
2) Do it on the top of your hand first. If you burn yourself there, the wax was too hot, but at least you didn't burn your balls. And remember that your hand is less sensitive then your balls, so take it slow the first time.

A final method is stretching. You can do this by tying up your balls(balls only) and hanging weights off the rope or simply pulling on your balls. They can take a lot, but you should err on the side of caution here. So if it hurts too much or you start to feel sick, stop.

I'd also like to give a warning. There are some teases that suggest quick tugging or otherwise applying fast pulling pressure on the balls(ex. dropping a water bottle attached with string to your balls.). I've read that this is a very bad idea as it can cause damage in the long run.


I must mention that I am unsure of the medical consequences of practicing CBT on a very regular basis. You might want to look up some advice on that if your new Mistress decides to make it a regular thing.

Lastly I have to say that it is quite concerning that your new Mistress doesn't have any experience with this. At least when it comes to safety. She really shouldn't be ordering you to do things unless she can instruct you how to do it safely. Don't be afraid to ask this of her, as her first duty should always be your safety.

Have fun!

[liahus]

Thanks guys for posting.
Tripple Alpha, you definitely hit the spot there. That's exactly what I was looking for.
Thanks again