question: ruined orgasms

[cymerc]

This week has been one major crisis after another, and it dawned on me this morning that I was so d**n horny because it'd been several days since I had the opportunity to play, surf teases, or take any 'personal time' for me.

So I was bouncing off the walls today on the first day of my 3-day weekend.....yet although I've touched myself now and then in anticipation, got to thinking that it might be interesting to try and 'ruin' an orgasm tonight and see what happens over the weekend. Curiosity about frustration, etc.

I've surfed around here and done some Googling, but my question here is: what are some ways of 'ruining' orgasms yourself other than obviously taking your hands off at the last moment? Does it help to tie off the cock and balls somehow?

Sure, I know OF ruined orgasms, but have never done it to myself, so I'm really just curious for ideas. Thanks for any insights / techniques here....and my apologies if this is the wrong forum to ask this!

[kesbabev]

Actually, there are several ways of ruining an orgasm. You can clench the base as you begin to cum, or you can tie it off. Either way makes it impossible for the ejaculate to leave the penis, causing a rather uncomfortable sensation. You can also place your thumb over the peehole, although you have to have a rather firm grip at that point. You can let go just as you begin to cum. Or you can actually stroke thru the orgasm, and keep going. I've found that it becomes very difficult to do that to yourself, as the sensitivity is so much higher immediately after. Anyway, that's what I've found on the subject. Another way of doing it, if you're into anal play, is to bring yourself to the brink and stimulate your prostate. This will force you into an orgasm, although with no stimulation to your cock, it is very unfulfilling and leaves you quite desperate for more. You can also use a vibrator to bring yourself to orgasm by stimulating various sensitive parts of your cock and balls. Any of the following should give you the results you're looking for.

Hope that helps!

Kes

[Makarov]

Here is a guide, that also includes pictures!

http://www.taylorsteases.com/roguide/index.html

[dark]

But keep in mind that you never should block your orgasm completely. Means: the sperm should find a way out.

And for ruined orgasms you just need to be creative. What about going in the shower and when you are just over the edge turn on the shower with ice cold water? I bet that would be "fun"

Or you could also use ice cubes and put them on your cock and balls while the orgasm.

[toolman2810]

No more stimulation at point of no return dosen't ruin my orgasm. Cold showers heighten my desire. I find it physically impossible to edge. I think I can feel a poll coming on

[toolman2810]

After looking at taylor's hand on guide I agree to disagree on everything mentioned. You can block seamen coming out completely. Doesn't hurt, I did it hundreds of times when my mother was cleaning the sheets as a teenager. Yes it is more satisfying to spurt cum everywhere, all over the bedroom / windows, on the neighbours car & the local ferral cat. A ruined orgasm for me is when my partner misses out. As tacky as that sounds.
Nothing turns me on more than a woman dripping wet begging for sex. I'm a guy once I'm done, will be an hour or to till I can go again. To ruined my orgasm whisper in my ear "shit you bastard you made me miss out again"