HELP!

[yourbondageboytoy]

Just really need some advice and was wondering if you could all help.

I have recently got into a new relationship and when me and my girlfriend have tried to have sex I havent been able to get an erection. I've never had this problem before and we just really dont know what to do!

Any advice would be appreciated, thanks!

[Bandit224]

Relax! You can't get an erection when you are nervous. Start with just massaging each other.
A person's mental state has a strong impact on the ability to get an erection. Excessive stress from work, worries, nervousness, etc will all prevent erections from happening.

The cock could also just simply be tired. It happens from time to time that "little willy" needs to nap for a week or so.

[Barons]

This may seem obvious but have you tried letting her suck on it a little while first? When I was a young adult I'd be rock hard and ready by the time her panties hit the floor. Now that the beast is a little older he needs to be warmed up a bit first.

Everything Bandit said was spot on. Nothing more relaxing than have your girls chin on your balls imho.

[Nes]

Take a look at these links
http://www.sexpertslounge.com/2011/09/0 ... iing-hard/
http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/search?q=er ... rict_sr=on

[Sett]

Just to point it out, being nervous about your erection is THE kind of nervous that WILL prevent you from getting hard...

You have plenty of other tools to give her pleasure. Just focus on her. Tell her that it's probably no dick for her this time, but you will make up for it in other ways. When you are comfortable with that (as opposed to focusing on getting her dick), it will come to you